A few days ago, I took a bold step and finally let go of my 26-year-old China cabinet to reclaim my dining room. With a deep need for space and clarity, I repurposed the Curio from my living room to serve as my new showcase. But as I opened up the old cabinet, I was stunned by the sheer volume of “treasures” I’d amassed over the years: four full plate sets (including my formal china, my very first porcelain set, and two more), two tea sets, a dozen crystal wine and drink glasses each, multiple cake stands, serving platters, table cloths, cloth napkins, a complete set of silverware, and even three pairs of candlestick holders—even though I never burned candles. Sound familiar??? I hope not! And that wasn’t all—the Curio itself was overflowing with picture frames, bowls, and over twenty decorative pieces I can't even recall getting.
Laying everything out on the dining table was overwhelming at first, but it soon became a powerful moment of clarity. I realized that by paring down to only what truly mattered, I could shrink my collection to just 20% of its original size. It was both heartbreaking and liberating to decide what to let go, yet the freedom was undeniable.
In purging these excess items, I reclaimed not only my space but also my peace of mind. The journey taught me that when you commit to less, you invite more space, time, and freedom into your life. I can't get over how much space I now have, and how open and inviting it feels. What's more, I am going to use that damn china more now, and all that crystal, because it's far more accessible! And because we deserve to enjoy beautiful things while we're alive and not turn then into museum pieces!
The net lesson learned here- less is more. Avoid getting into this predicament by asking the hard question at the point of purchasing or accepting the item- is it truly essential? and will I get joy by owning and using it for years to come? If no, then you know what to do...walk away!
p.s. sorry if the image above gave you a migraine :/
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