Some weeks catch you off guard. This week was one of them for me. Par for the course with parenting I suppose. Pun intended, as it truly is the right week for a golf idiom! Of course, each day comes with challenges, whether those are personal or professional, there isn't a day that does not present us with obstacles. Some days the hurdles are higher, and the jump is more difficult. Some days the course is easier to get through. Yesterday was a day that presented me with challenges as a mother. Three things brought me comfort during this time, reminding me of how blessed I am, even during the most challenging days.
The first of those three things is my best friend, who is wise, faithful, and loving. She always knows exactly what to say to help me through situations that test and shake me. She is the person who will never judge me. She will laugh with me. She will cry with me, and she will be my sister in Christ forever. We all need that person. She is mine.
The second of those 3 things is my family. My children are intuitive and loving and know exactly when we need to come together as a family. Most importantly, they love one another and look out for one another. Sometimes it takes times like these to recognize exactly how much that is true. They may bicker and act like they despise one another on other days, but when they need to come back to center, they do. This is when the love they have for one another and me is the most evident.
Finally, the most incredible comfort and the foundation of the first two comforts is my God. His promises and His word make me a better person. He is there to talk to, to listen to, and to learn from. His word is strong, steady, and unfailing. He on His own, and through my best friend and my children, brings me the most comfort. I know He will never forsake me. He will not abandon me. He is walking this walk with me, and He intended for all of these events to unfold. So, I am grateful for that and for my relationship with Him.
My best friend said..."We all have a choice to see the good or not in a situation. What you focus on is what will grow..." I will choose to focus on the good! That statement will resonate with me as I navigate this challenge and all to come! And God will be part of every twist and turn.
"And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit." - 2 Corinthians 3:18
May you allow your support system to include Jesus as you navigate your challenges, each and every day.
Ms. Dana
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