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קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

Staying Connected with the Temple Sholom Community

5 August 2024 ~ Rosh Hodesh Av 5784

Parashat Devarim

Chaverim y'karim - dear friends,


I received an email the other day with a link to a podcast. It's a new podcast for me. 


First off - it comes from the Orthodox Jewish world. 


I know - I just sent a blogpost last week from an Orthodox Jewish writer. You probably think I'm trying to convert you - or myself. I'm not. I simply believe in looking and listening around for as many resources both to reaffirm and push as well as to reassure and question. I admire this podcast because the host and guests are asking where did their community get something right and where did they get it wrong. Please God, we should all be so reflective. 


More on the podcast in a minute. 


When a movie is more than just a movie.


Below you will find the link, as promised, to a very powerful movie about the destruction of the Second Temple. The producers of Legend of Destruction understood that the Second Temple was destroyed not only because of Roman aggression but also because the Jews of the First Century CE were unable to work together to fight their common enemy. The 90-minute movie is excellent and well worth your time. We will discuss the film at Noon on Tuesday, August 13th, on Tisha B’Av. Our study will also include a few prayers and melodies for the day. 


The movie was especially painful to watch because it reflects a reality we are facing right now. On the one hand, this last week has been so incredibly long and worrisome because Iran and Hezbollah have explicitly said they will strike and they will strike hard. That alone is enough to wake any of us up in the middle of the night. But alas there is more. Just as our ancestors were worried about the threat from the Romans, as with today, they worried about the threat of internal division as well. 


Baseless Hatred 


Just as 2,000 years ago our ancestors were in the midst of a civil war as they waged a war against the Romans, so too, today Israelis are in the midst of a kind of civil war. The fighting within Israel has reached an all-time high, well really an all time low. Let me explain. 


Throughout the year you may have heard reports that Israeli soldiers have been abusive of Palestinian prisoners. Of course, I want to believe that the reports are not true — but there have been many reports. And as we all know, “where there is smoke, there is fire.” Last week the story exploded in Israel when eight reserve soldiers were arrested by the military police at Sde Teiman base in southern Israel. They were arrested because they were suspected of sexual abuse of a Palestinian detainee.  


After the arrests, a mob of far right wing activists and lawmakers broke into the base and demonstrated. They also stormed the Beit Lid base, where the suspects were being held and questioned. 


This news story is horrific for more reasons than I can expound. First, I am appalled and profoundly saddened that these kinds of things happen in Israel's army - the army of the Jewish people. I want to believe that Israeli soldiers always do the right thing. The good news is that the IDF has a Code of Ethics called Tohar HaNeshek Purity of Arms. The bad news is that there have been instances in which Israeli soldiers violate that very code.


The situation goes from bad to worse when I read about far-right wing activists and lawmakers who somehow believe that Israeli soldiers should not be subject to a code of ethics, and who somehow excuse this heinous behavior.  


None of us knows how this will all play out - so we are left waiting ... waiting to see what happens with Iran and its proxies, soldiers held for trial, soldiers serving interminable reserve duty, soldiers asked to do the most difficult of tasks to protect their homeland and fight a justified war justly. 


And that brings us to the podcast I mentioned earlier:


Orthodox Conundrum: Arrests and Mob Violence at Sdei Teiman. I think you will find it meaningful - either way, let me know! I am always open to discuss whether you liked it or not. First off, it is a window into a world many of us only know from a distance - if at all. You will hear important viewpoints examining both the realities and hardships of war and where lines must be drawn in the sand: morally and legally. 


As we are in this time period of mourning the destruction from 2000 years ago, we would be wise to consider how are we complicit in overlooking the wrong-doing of our people and where are we capable of uplifting our people in this time of need? 


As we enter this new month of "Menachem Av - may there be comfort in Av", I wish you a chodesh tov - a good month,


Rabbi Mark Cohn 


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And that being said, I turn you to a podcast dropped this morning - Dan Senor with Haviv Rettig Gur on Call Me Back, Israelis anticipate the response.

ARTICLES & PODCASTS -


"O how she sat alone: New laments for a beloved land," (4 August 2024) by Tamar Biala in The Times of Israel. Ahead of Tisha B’Av, two October 7 survivors composed ‘kinot’ that place the recent horrors within the long history of Jewish tragedy.



"300 - with special guest Matti Friedman," (1 August 2024) Yonit Levi of Channel 12 Israel and Jonathan Freedland of The Guardian are two Jews on the news. From the podcast site: "Their blend of nuanced discussion and sparkling conversation, featuring a dazzling range of guests, is why New Yorker editor David Remnick calls himself a “proud, avid listener," why Ira Glass says he "completely enjoys this show" and why Malcolm Gladwell calls it an "incredibly fun podcast."


"Statement for Av from Rabbi Nathalie Lastreger," (2 August 2024) which was read by Rabbi Cohn on Friday night during services. Rabbi Lastreger serves as the head of the Rabbinical Assembly in Israel. She wrote a letter to give insight to the start of the new month of Av and how that feels from her village in northern Israel.



JTA’s Homepage for following the Jewish and Israeli athletes at the 2024 Olympics.


"Zombie anti-Zionism," (30 July 2024) by Izabella Tabarovsky in Tablet Magazine. "The left's addiction to warmed-over Soviet anti-Zionist propaganda from half a century ago proves that its criticism of Israel has nothing to do with facts on the ground in Gaza."


"Jewish anti-Zionists, check your privilege," by Gershom Gorenberg in Moment. "It's easy to say a Jewish state is not needed from the safety of the United States."

TISHA B'AV: A BIT TOO RELEVANT.


Observing and learning together, Tuesday, 8/13 @ Noon.


With permission from Temple Beth El of Springfield, we have a link to view Legend of Destruction, a movie that focuses on the story of the Destruction of the Second Temple (70 CE) - with lessons far broader than just First Century.


Tisha B'Av (9th of Av) forces us to reconcile atrocities with our own complicity, responses, and responsibilities.


Watch the film, discuss around your dining room table (or wherever life finds you soon), and as you are able, please join us for a chance to learn and discuss together. We will meet in our temple library on the day that commemorates great destruction(s) in our people's past and speaks to us of our current moment - and related divisions - during this on-going crisis in Israel and among the Jewish people.

Hadar's Tisha B'Av Day of In-Person and Online Prayer and Programming


From the Hadar Website: Tisha B’Av, the saddest day of the Jewish year, is a day of disruption from our routines, as we mourn for the loss of the Temple and other tragedies of Jewish history and our world. This day is meant to shock us into remembering the uncomfortable, the painful, and things we may rather forget.


Join us online and in-person in NYC and observe Tisha B’Av with the Hadar community. We encourage you to drop in to different sessions throughout the day. For online sessions, register in advance to receive the Zoom link.

The Ketubah: What’s Love Got to Do with It? A Melton School on-line course with Rabbi Cohn!


The ketubah, or Jewish marriage contract, is one of the most well-known Jewish legal texts being actively used today. But what's love got to do with it? Join Rabbi Mark Cohn on Tu B'Av (think: Jewish Valentine’s Day), Monday, August 19 @ 7:00 PM as we explore the origins and development of this time-honored Jewish wedding document. Both a symbol and a binding document for the wedding couple, there’s more to the ketubah than meets the eye!


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