I'm generally a pretty optimistic guy however one thing that often gets me to roll my eyes is whenever I hear someone tell me how much they care about young people and their opinions. It's not that I don't believe them, it's just... I've seen this song and dance before..... even if it's your Bishop you're hearing it from.
A few weeks ago, Bishop Harvey was preaching to 90+ college students at All Campus, our annual spring retreat at Lakeview with all the Wesleys from across the Texas Conference. During her second sermon she says she is crafting a sermon and she needs student input. She wants to go to churches all across the conference and tell them directly, "these are the things young people are worried about, the things they care deeply about."
At that moment, I'll admit, I had to resist my inner instinct to roll my eyes and think, "okay yeah, whatever." It's not that I didn't trust Bishop Harvey, it's just... I've been burned before and trusted people who said one thing and did an entirely different one.
As a certified "aging young person" (I'm 27, that's basically a dinosaur to some of my students), I've heard that my opinion matters countless times at church, at school, at work, in local politics. And, more often than I'd like, what happens after I speak up is I hear some version of:
"oh you're still young, you don't know what you're talking about"
"Trust me, I have more experience than you"
"You'll grow out of that once you're older"
When I heard Bishop Harvey say she wanted to hear students' opinions, part of me thought, "oh here we go again..."
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