Dear Shir Tikvah,


It’s become a routine in our house these last days: our daughters facetime with their grandparents in the Galil, in Northern Israel. The girls chant, “Sefer! Sefer! Book! Book!” and their Saba and Savta read to them about Cookie Monster in the grocery store and Grover on the farm. And in the background, the news is always on. And the questions, whispered, “Have you heard from…?” and “Did you hear about…?” They’re so skilled at making sanctuary in the face of fear. And they’re looking so tired. As they entered bomb shelters today, I just wish they were close enough to hug and never let go.


We’re still processing the agony of the pogroms in the South of Israel and the anguish of escalation. Today, we must absorb news of a possible front opening in the North. The scope of the atrocities is incomprehensible. We reach for each other. Pray for the release of all hostages. We’re holding the heartbreak of this moment, the impossibility of facing what has already happened. We brace for what will be.


Many of us at Shir Tikvah have personal and family connections to Israel and to Palestine, to Palestinians and to Israelis. Many of us are gripped by terror, raging or grieving or shaking with both. There are those of us in this community who have dear ones who have been taken hostage, who have been murdered, who are still missing, who are in danger. I pray our community will turn to each other, with love and concern, and make space for each other’s grief. We are proud activists; let us also be devoted partners, friends, parents, children, neighbors, community members. Let us be artisans of showing up for each other, to comfort each other and attend to each other’s broken hearts. 


Especially in times of terror, it can be so easy to pull apart at the seams - of ideology, experience, analysis. In this time of unimaginable grief and deep fear, in this time of shake, I pray that we - the beautiful, complex, prayerful fullness of our community - hold together. That we center those who are in acute grief. That we slow down together. Let us honor the experiences of our neighbors - even and especially those that challenge us. I pray that Shir Tikvah will be a resource for you, a sanctuary for you, in and through this terrible time.


The rabbi team is available to accompany you, with the fullness of our broken hearts. Please offer a prayer for captives, recite Psalm 130, and contribute to organizations on the ground. Call your people and give them hizzuk (strength). Call your people and ask for the comfort you need. Show up in community tonight and for Shabbat, in song, in prayer, in grief and commitment. Let us not let each other navigate this time alone.


עושה שלום במרומיו

הוא יעשה שלום עלינו

ועל כל ישראל

ועל כל יושבי תבל

ואמרו אמן


Rabbi Arielle

Tonight at 6:00pm, JAMI students and families will gather for Noar T'filah - our weekly Wednesday evening prayer service. As it always does, Noar T'filah will respond to the goings-on of our world as we wrestle with our confusion, grief, and sadness. Prayer is a meaningful container for our children's questions, silence, tears - and for ours as well. We invite JAMI families to join rabbis and staff as we surround our community's youngest with support - and reach for some ourselves.


Tonight at 6:30pm, we will gather together at Shir Tikvah and on zoom to support each other in navigating this moment. We will use the wisdom of collective mourning in our tradition - song, breath, psalms, the power of minyan - to help us ground. Please bring with you the names of loved ones who have died, who are missing, or for whom you are worried, so we can collectively lift them up, with love. We are compiling our community’s prayers for peace and justice to be shared; please offer yours here.


This Friday, we will enter Shabbat and remember. I will be traveling to Ireland to officiate Hattie Engman’s Bat Mitzvah and Rabbi Joey will be celebrating a family wedding out of town. We are grateful to Dennis Guillaume, Miriam Kelberg, Ori Wasserburg and Gayle Zoffer, along with Rabbi Stiefel, for their holding of our communal prayer space. We will pray as a community for peace and for healing. We will make space for grief and for connection. We will open, as ever, to our day of rest.

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