nbCC March Newsletter: Coalition News

Dear Northern Berkshire,

Please enjoy a sampling of articles from our March 2024 newsletter. To read the entire issue and see lots of photos of what the Coalition was up to last month, download the PDF here.

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COMMUNITY FORUM SCHEDULE

Feb. 8, 2024 | 4-6pm | Terra Nova Topic: Youth Led Forum

March 14, 2024 | 4-6pm | Terra Nova | Topic: “Identity in Conflict” Session

April 11, 2024 | 4-6pm | Terra Nova | Topic: “Promoting Emotional Intelligence & Self Awareness” Session

MAY 9, 2024 | 4-6pm | Terra Nova | Topic: “ Problem Solving & Negotiation” Session

June 28, 2024 | 11:30AM-1:30PM | 38th Annual Meeting

Youth Lead Forum on Generational Communication

Every year, students taking part in the coalition’s Youth Health Collaborative program have a leading role in a monthly forum. The group gets valuable experience presenting in front of an audience with a topic they chose themselves and did extensive research on. About 50 community members came to the Terra Nova Church in downtown North Adams to hear the presentation.

For their topic this year, the Youth Health Collaborative decided to discuss generational communication. More specifically, the group spoke about bridging the gap between older and younger people, while touching on some of the reasons there are gaps in communication to begin with, and how to mend them within diverse age groups. The students also did some work with Kayla Allen, director of the Dispute Resolution Center at Berkshire County Regional Housing Authority, for tips and advice. Kayla has spent much of the last several forums discussing communication and how to have difficult conversations like this one.

The presentation was split into five parts, with each discussing one aspect of the topic. The first section, presented by Lilliana Choque, focused on bias. She spoke about several different types of bias, including confirmation bias, which is prioritizing information that aligns with ones beliefs; perception bias, or bias based on stereotypes; halo effect, an assumption of positive traits based on past experience; and bandwagon bias, a form of shared bias within a group.

A major focus of this forum was asking the audience pointed questions about the topic to discuss amongst each other. Attendees were encouraged to form small groups with people of other generations and keep their conversation going throughout the forum. Lilliana asked the audience to consider biases they recognize within themselves when talking to someone from a different generation. Some of the examples given by attendees, assumptions about other people’s technology use, general knowledge, and political leanings, are among the most often cited instances of generational divides. Being aware of our own biases, Lilliana explained, is a crucial part of being able to move past them.

The next section was presented by Nate Guerin, who focused on power imbalances between generations. He asked attendees to ponder what a generational power imbalance actually means. Some of the responses revolved around seniority because of age, but others discussed aspects of seniority unrelated to age, as well as other sources of power.

Nate suggested many perceived imbalances in power between different generations come from what he called the “Kids these days” effect. In other words, people often ascribe deficiencies or negative traits to other generations that, in their minds, are not present within their own generation. Despite what the name may suggest, examples of this can be found in every generation, young and old. Nate said having resilience, responsibility, a respect for others and reciprocity can help to correct the balance of power between generations.

Sarah Leedham’s portion of the presentation discussed respectful and inclusive language, and how to have positive conversations between generations. Avoiding things like slang, discriminatory expressions, and other niche terminology can help conversations stay inclusive. Sarah suggested people be thoughtful in conversations, using more universal language when possible. Sarah also emphasized that it’s okay to make mistakes and ask questions if you’re unsure. When asked for examples of what has made past conversations with someone of another generation positive, many audience members spoke of a need for authenticity and a genuine effort to engage with the other person. Without this, it can be difficult, if not impossible, to have a positive dialogue.

In the fourth section, Kylah Rivard spoke about what it means to build intergenerational trust in a group and, more importantly, how. A willingness to be open minded, as well as adapt ones vocabulary and communication style can help build a common understanding between generations. Kylah also suggested people focus on similarities between generations, like shared interests and experiences, rather than the differences, to build connections and trust. Having a level of curiosity and asking questions or for advice, something mentioned by several others throughout the forum, can also build trust.

Alder Kelton and Arlo Argueta both presented on understanding and compromise. The two asked the audience to discuss what it means to truly understand someone. They mentioned several strategies that can help to achieve this, like face-to-face communication, attentiveness, and an awareness of language barriers. On compromise, the two explained that compromise often comes from a desire for all sides to feel heard. When asked, audience members discussed compromises in their own lives; in friendships, marriages, and other relationships. Meeting in the middle, if possible, and having respect for someone else even if you disagree are key aspects of making compromise work for everyone.

This year’s Youth Health Collaborative still has more they hope to accomplish before the end of the program. The group is also interested in hearing thoughts from attendees about the presentation. They are hopeful the constructive feedback and the experience they have gained leading a group discussion with the community will benefit them in future work. Copies of the presentation are available for those interested. Please join us for next month’s forum, where Kayla Allen will return again to lead the discussion. The topic for March will be “Identity in Conflict”.

~Brian Rhodes, Program Administrative Specialist

WOULD YOU LIKE TO BECOME A CONTRIBUTOR TO THE COALITION?

Contributions can be made online or mailed to:

Northern Berkshire Community Coalition

61 Main Street, Suite 218

North Adams, MA 01247

Welcome New Team Members:

Brian McCarthy & Kelcey Lee

Brian McCarthy

Youth Development Coordinator

I was born and raised in Williamstown. I’ve lived in North Adams for the last 36 years. I spent 35 years working in the graphic arts industry and the last 3 years working for the Hoosac Valley Regional School District. I have been volunteering and working with area youth for the last 25 years. My wife and I enjoy hiking with our dog and trail running in the woods.

I joined nbCC for an opportunity to work more directly with area youth and families. I’m really looking forward to working with this very successful organization and the awesome team here.

My favorite thing about living in north Berkshire is the beauty and access to nature.

Kelcey Lee

Family Support Worker

I really enjoy the woods, trails and mountains. I am originally from Pittsfield, Massachusetts but ended up quite close in Dalton, Massachusetts where I have lived most of my life. I recently graduated from University of Connecticut with a degree in Sociology but explored Biological Sciences and Women, Gender and Sexuality Studies throughout my time in college. I am a big fan of women’s basketball, love going to concerts, and like to crab hunt on the beach.

I wanted to join the nbCC team because I believe in the work we do here. Since first learning about the values of the organization I knew this was a place I wanted to be. Since then I have only been reaffirmed that this work truly lives up to the values and mission it sets out to.

I can’t wait to get deeply involved with the community. With so many opportunities all around Northern Berkshire I know I can find a place to make a difference. I look forward to teaching parenting classes, helping host events, and meeting people.

My favorite thing about living in this area is the beautiful nature I get to experience all year round. While spring and summer are my favorites, we are spoiled throughout the seasons with the gorgeous views.

Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Tips from Donna

The Commission on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren is excited to partner again with Lasagna Love in 2024. If you are a grandparent/relative caregiver and would like a break from cooking once a month, consider signing up with Lasagna Love and receive a lasagna meal delivered to you once a month by a volunteer. If this is something you are interested in, please call Donna Senecal at nbCC (413-663-7588) and she will be happy to help you fill out the form and send it in for you.

~Donna Senecal, Family Partner

Questions? Give us a call at 413-663-7588 or email dsenecal@nbccoalition.org

Tips for Staying Healthy!

Even with the promise of spring just around the corner, winter blues settle in as we wait expectantly for the warmer breeze and cheery birds song. Still in the grips of winter’s chill comes the winter blues; irritability, fatigue and weight gain among other things. If the sun’s game of hide-n-seek has you feeling gloomy, you’re not alone! So grab a buddy and encourage each other to take advantage of the best FREE thing on the market, a walk in the woods! Even better, grab a basket or a bag and forage some of these local wild healers: juniper berries (silvery-purple ones only) and pine, spruce and fir needles. The berries help with bloating and digestive discomfort while the needles are rich in vitamin C, are antimicrobial, anti-inflammatory and support the immune system. So hang up a sign, put up an away message, step outside and go for a leisurely stroll through the woods and if you’re feeling it, pick some evergreen needles and make a warm, cozy tea when you get home.

~Jessi Byrne, Health & Wellness Coordinator

Questions? Give us a call at 413-663-7588 or email jbyrne@nbccoalition.org

nbCC Events and Programming this Month

Learn Through Play: Somewhere Over the Rainbow - Color Exploration

Saturday, March 9, 10 AM - 11:00 AM, UNO Community Center, 157 River Street, North Adams

In collaboration with Child Care of the Berkshires. Activities and circle time will focus colors. Best for ages 0-5 years. Registration suggested. Space is limited. Contact us at 413-663-7588 or nkennedy@nbccoalition.org

Parents’ Cafe: Single Parents/Caregivers

Tuesday March 12, 6-8 PM, Terra Nova, 85 Main Street, North Adams

For single parents/caregivers who are parenting by themselves or co-parenting. A guided conversation where peers will share their experiences and learn from each other. This is a free event where dinner and childcare will be provided for attendees. REGISTRATION REQUIRED: 413-663-7588 or nkennedy@nbccoalition.org

Monthly Forum: Identity in Conflict

Thursday, March 14, 4:00-6:00 PM, Terra Nova, 85 Main Street, North Adams

The past forums have focused on techniques to enhance communication when having difficult conversations. This forum will focus more inward, looking at how our identity is compromised during difficult conversations. Participants will start by mapping their own identity and discussing how their identities influence communication styles, perceptions, and behaviors during challenging interactions. We will then look at ways to ground one’s identity to help individuals have meaningful conversations. Join us for an upcoming forum. No registration required. All are welcome. Time for announcements and introductions during the first portion of the forum. Questions? 413-663-7588.

Easter Festival!

Saturday March 30, 11:00 AM -1:00 PM, The Armory, 206 Ashland St., North Adams

Join nbCC, City of North Adams and other local agencies for some indoor FUN to chase away the winter blues! This is a family event. Children must be accompanied by their parents. More Info: 413-663-7588 or nkennedy@nbccoalition.org

WEEKLY EVENTS/PROGRAMS

nbCC Youth Empowerment Program

Mondays, 5:00-6:30 PM, 61 Main Street, Rm. 213, North Adams.

Free and open to youth, 6-8th grade, who live in or attend school in North Berkshire. A weekly group to talk about school, emotions, navigating teen years, making friends and more. Snacks provided; transportation available. Register: call 413-663-7588

Youth Leadership Program

Tuesdays, 5 PM - 7 PM, nbCC 61 Main Street, Rm. 213, North Adams.

Free and open to youth ages 14-19 who live in or attend school in North Berkshire. Young people are changing the world and you can too. Make a positive change in yourself and the world around you. Develop leadership skills, discuss what drives you, meet other young leaders and plan projects in your community. Snacks provided; transportation available. Register: call 413-663-7588

Family Resource Center: Parenting Together Group

Wednesdays, 5:30 -7:30 PM, nbCC 61 Main Street, Ste. 218, North Adams

A peer-driven/peer-supported group in a judgement-free, confidential space. Snacks provided. Children welcome. 413-663-7588 or nkennedy@nbccoalition.org

nbCC Bike Collective Open Hours*

WINTER HOURS

(3/6 & 3/13) 1st & 2nd Wednesdays, 4 -6 PM, The Armory, 206 Ashland St., North Adams

Bring your own bike or work on a bike at the bike collective. You’ll have the opportunity to learn from other community members on basic bike fixes, or team up with more experienced bike mechanics to rebuild a bike. Tools and stands are provided. All NB residents are welcome! For more info, call us at 413-663-7588.

Teen Writing Workshop

Wednesdays, 5 - 7 PM, held at nbCC, 61 Main St., Suite 218, North Adams.

Free and open to youth ages 13-19 who live in or attend school in North Berkshire. Aspiring writers and poets! Join this incredibly supportive group and get 1-on-1 help with your writing and performance style. Opportunities to perform and be published. Snacks and supplies provided; transportation available. Register: call 413-663-7588

Youth Health Collaborative

Thursdays, 5 - 7 PM, 61 Main Street, Rm. 213, North Adams.

STARTING OCT. 12 -(14-19 Yrs. Old) This program is intended to engage young people in supporting the health of their peers in the region. The aim of this program is to benefit the community by directly engaging young people in the act of bettering their environments. This is the only program with a limit on attendance, as there are only ten spots available!

Participants will receive a stipend for completing this program. Please call or email to apply: 413-663-7588 or csacherski@nbccoalition.org

Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Coffee Time Group

(2/2 & 2/16) 1st & 3rd Fridays, 10 AM - 12 PM. UNO Center, 157 River Street, North Adams

This is a group for grandparents who are actively parenting their grandchildren giving them a safe and confidential space to share similar experiences with other grandparents. Coffee and light snacks provided. Please register: 413-663-7588 or email dsenecal@nbccoalition.org.

UNO Community Center Coffee Time

Fridays, 1 PM - 4 PM, 157 River St., North Adams

Come on over and join the UNO neighbors for coffee and conversation. All are welcome.

Here are a few other upcoming and recurring events happening at the UNO Center at no, or low cost to participants:

Every Wed: 6:30-10:30 PM | Berkshire Gamers - Board Game Night (No Admission fee. Open to the Public)

Every Thurs: 4PM | Mary J’s Afterschool Help

(No Admission fee. Open to school age youth)

Every Sun: 2:00-6:00 pm | RPG Game Night - $2 Admission Fee. A collaborative storytelling game where one person plays the narrator and supporting cast to the ensemble played by the other players. Open to the public to drop in, learn how to play and connect with the community of gamers.

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