Volume 11 - July 2023




Summer Suggestions

In this issue:

  • Things to consider that we all deserve
  • Anxiety, and moving forward
  • Updates
lori@lorimetz.net

Things to Consider

That We All Deserve.

One: living with intention, purpose, and choices that align with your values and goals. It can lead to greater fulfillment and happiness. You deserve to live with intention, so take the time to reflect on what truly matters to you and strive to make choices that align with your values and aspirations.


Two: Being nourished, you deserve it - and I am not talking about having a hearty meal (although that can be important, too!). Permit yourself to take a break, stretch between appointments, or create a space in your schedule to catch up with a friend. Pausing for a few seconds to consider, "How can I nourish myself in this moment", it's vital and something everyone deserves.


Three: Bringing yourself to the present. This action can calm you and allow you to gain more perspective as you take your next step. Please consider giving yourself the present of being present.


Four: The opportunity to grow, something we all deserve. Now 'growth' does not have to be dramatic, one small change today, multiplied by months and years, could change the trajectory of your life. The difficult part is to sustain the growth. Having a plan, a goal, and a little help along the way can help. To maintain personal growth, you can also try being open to learning new things, seeking feedback, reflecting on your experiences, practicing self-care, and surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people along the way.


Wishing you all a summer of intention, nourishment, being present, and growth.

Anxiety

the word alone can make one cringe!

For many, plans can be empowering and help with anxiety. Yet how often have you made a plan and had to change or update it to move forward? Consider the impact on your mind and body as you move along and again when your plan is achieved.

Those hiccups & setbacks can be upsetting while also revealing,

allowing us to recognize how we can reevaluate to proceed.

According to the National Institute of Health (NIH), approximately 31.1% of US adults have experienced anxiety at some point. Sometimes we know why we feel anxious, and sometimes we don't. 

Anxiety can be attributed to so many events in life. When we anticipate a stressful situation, sometimes we can prepare, yet many experience anxiety when a major event occurs, like a trauma, illness, or stress buildup. Anxiety can become difficult to control, but there are ways. 


Please know that anxiety and depression can go hand and hand, so as you go down a path of anxious times in life, know you may also become sad or depressed. At this time, it is important to care for yourself, know your limits and set boundaries that help you calm. Know that help comes in different forms; self-help tools, talk therapy, medication, or a combination.

There are so many tips and tools to assist that, including:

  • Breathing exercises
  • Meditation
  • Physical activity 
  • Knowing how to say no
  • Knowing how to remove yourself from a situation
  • Recognizing when to tune into the things that you enjoy doing. 
  • Recognizing when to reach out to others


It is interesting to note that, for some, anxiety may be linked to an underlying health issue. So, it's important not to ignore the symptoms. 



The Mayo Clinic recommends seeing your doctor if:

  • You feel like you're worrying too much, and it's interfering with your work, relationships, or other parts of your life
  • Your fear, worry, or anxiety is upsetting to you and has become difficult to control
  • You feel depressed, have trouble with alcohol or drug use, or have other mental health concerns along with anxiety
  • You think your anxiety could be linked to a physical health problem
  • You have suicidal thoughts or behaviors — if this is the case, seek emergency treatment immediately


When you feel anxious, know you can reach out to someone who can help. You don't have to go this alone

Quick Tip - Things that elicit a feeling are not necessarily problems, but can be reminders, alerts of something to be explored.

As we move closer to incorporating donor conception and adoption into the medical intake process, we have changed the initiative's name to INCLUSIVE MEDICAL INTAKE. We continue a two-prong approach. Meetings with members of the Electronic Health Record Association and Global Alliance for Genomics and Health (GA4GH), who are working to ensure accurate family health history information will be collected. Joe Cody, founder of Grain Fertility, and Dr.Serena Chen, Director of Reproductive Medicine and Chief Advocacy Officer CBMC IRMS CCRM NJ,and I continued to be very optimistic about this initiative. Meeting with the medical associations to allow the medical communities to discuss and explore the initiative is underway. For more information, you can also listen to IGL updates, visit www.lormetz.net or reach out. 



LIFE discusses ways of coping with life, the emphasis on moving forward and enjoying.

LIFE, love, insight, fertility, experience


I would like to thank everyone for continuing to listen!

Is there a specific topic you'd like to learn about? Please let me know.


all available on wherever you listen to your podcasts and on YouTube too!


Tele-Mental-Health for

Individuals, Couples and

Support Groups continue.

board certified in tele-mental-health since 2018

Fertility Support Groups Forming


  • Infertility suppport group
  • Intended Parents (IP) for children being born through donor egg, sperm, embryo & surrogacy.
  • Single parents by choice group

If there is something you would like to hear about please reach out and let me know.


I encourage everyone, in your own way to consider incorporating some the suggestions


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for more information please contact lori at lori@lorimetz.net or 917.655.9776
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