More than likely, you are moving at warp speed through life, and there is little time to step back, take a breath, or realize what is going on with your kids. We all know that there is so much coming at them, and they often have no idea how to process what they are thinking or what they believe. The world is a complex place with complex issues. Well, there is hope, and we want to encourage you along the way!

This month’s resources are targeted at helping you think through how you will help your children navigate some of the difficult issues they are facing. The way we interact with them as they sort out what they believe really matters. We hope you can use these to open ongoing conversations with your kid(s) and teenager(s). Talk about everything so that you can talk about anything! Check out this month’s videos and Toolbox Resources below. Before you click, let's check out a few steps to help you navigate these conversations:

First, continually talk to your kid(s) about their identity in Christ. Remind them of things like, “God created you. He knew you before you were born. He loves you. He chose you. You are made in His image.” Then, we they are teenagers, affirm their identity in Christ. It all starts here in our homes. You can help your teen(s) understand that they really are loved—and even liked—by their heavenly Father. If our children can rest in who they are as a child of God and come at life through that lens, it’ll help them have a solid foundation when they face difficult, confusing issues!

Second, embrace the idea that no topic is taboo in your home. When tough issues come up, don’t shy away from uncomfortable conversations. You want your children to learn they can come to you with anything. Do your best to be knowledgeable. If your child puts you on the spot or you feel like the time is right to bring something up, you don’t want to feel like you have no idea what to say!

Last, but as far away from least as you can get, pray! When you are feeling overwhelmed, your heart aching, and your mind worried about your family, pray continually. God knows the burdens you carry for your children, and He wants you to leave them in His capable hands.

Parenting, especially in the midst of chaos and uncertainty, can be daunting. However, it's during these times that our faith and values become our guiding lights. As a family, we have the strength and resilience to face difficult issues head-on. Your church family is always here for you! If there is ever anything we can do for you or your family, then don't hesitate to ask. We are in this together!