Our Weekly Message

News, Invitations, and Ministerial Reflections

October 20, 2023

Dear friends, 


I invite you all to gather with us this Sunday for a time of nourishment and reflection on coming home. October has always been my favorite month- a time of gathering in, coziness, harvest, and preparation for the cold months to come. I am still settling into my new home here in Sacramento, and in the few chilly days we have had so far I’ve burrowed into blankets with cups of tea. 


The past few weeks have been so, so heavy, and I struggle with the news and holding the grief of it all. The good news is, we do not have to do any of it alone. These words, from Rev. Theresa Ninán Soto, have been a balm to me, and I hope they are to you as well. 


We Hold Hope Close

In this community, we hold hope close. We don’t

always know what comes next, but that cannot dissuade us.

We don’t always know just what to do, but that will not mean

that we are lost in the wilderness. We rely on the certainty

beneath, the foundation of our values and ethics. We

are the people who return to love like a North Star and to

the truth that we are greater together than we are alone.

Our hope does not live in some glimmer of an indistinct future.

Rather, we know the way to the world of which we dream,

and by covenant and the movement forward of one right action

and the next, we know that one day we will arrive at home.


From "Spilling the Light"


May we “know the way to the world of which we dream” and gather in love, 

Rosemary 

Only about two weeks to go until our magical event, Sat. Nov. 4, 5-8pm. Here is all the info. you need:

 

- Event tickets are selling fast! Purchase here for $30 per person until we sell out but no later than Wed, 10/25. You can also check out the delectable menu that Tiki Harlow and her team will be preparing. If this price is a hardship for you, please contact auction@uuss.org to discuss our sliding scale.

 

- FREE childcare with pizza and a movie will be provided by our staff. To reserve spot(s) please e-mail auction@uuss.org.

 

- We have over 100 auction items to choose from! Silent auction bidding will be open Sat., Oct. 21 through Nov. 5. You must register online with a credit card in order to bid. We recommend you read through the new Bidding Info page to take advantage of some new features.

 

- We are still looking for a few more themed baskets for our night-of raffle. Please contact auction@uuss.org to sign up. Note that baskets must be received by Fri, Nov. 3 (no night-of drop-offs please).

 

- We need over 200 "person" hours of volunteer assistance to pull this event off, so please visit our table during coffee hour or contact auction@uuss.org to sign up. WE ESPECIALLY NEED DESSERT BAKERS (2 dozen of your favorite baked treats) to drop treats off by 5pm and DESSERT SERVERS.

 

- John McMillan would appreciate your beer and wine donations for the bar. Please drop off on Sundays or at the UUSS auction by Thurs, Nov. 2.

 

- "magical" attire is encouraged for the event!

 

Questions? Contact auction@uuss.org.

Sunday Mornings with UUSS

Face masks are available but not required.

Join us for Worship Services in person or on Zoom Zoom links here

(Closed Captioning available on Zoom)

 Service time 10:30 a.m.

Did you miss a service? You can find links to past services here



 Our October Soul Matters Theme is



Heritage


Here's the link to the Soul Matters materials


Sunday Morning Programs

Join us before the service at 9:30 AM at UUSS

1st Sunday - Labyrinth meditation in the meadow (Nov. 5)

2nd Sunday - Justice & Equity Conversation (Nov. 12)

3rd Sunday - Qui Gong/Tai Chi (Nov. 19)

4th Sunday - Exploring Unitarian Universalism (Oct. 22)

Join us for a Newcomer Orientation and Tour the second Sunday of every month,

right after church, in the Welcome Hall. Next one is November 12.

Sunday, October 22, 10:30: Coming Home

Rev. Lucy Bunch and Ministerial Intern Rosemary Dodd with Worship Associate Kaley Calderon Music Pianist Irina Tchantceva, guitarist Harry Stoddard


As fall deepens, we find ourselves snuggling into warmth and comfort. This Sunday we explore the feeling of safety and comfort of home through poetry and reflection.  Come let yourself be soothed.


  • Exploring UU History and Theology before the service with Rev. Lucy

Sunday, October 29, 10:30: Calling our Beloved Dead

A Circle Service for All Ages

Rev. Lucy Bunch, Ministerial Intern Rosemary Dodd, Worship Associates Andy Cramer and Celia Buckley, the UUSS Choir, Music Director Anthony Tavianini, Pianist Irina Tchantceva 

Vocalists Catherine Desberg, /Courtney O Neil and Celia Buckley, Erin Byerly flute.


We come together in community to honor our loved ones who have died and whom we wish to remember and celebrate. We will read the roll call of names of those in our UUSS community who have died in the past year.  We will feature our altar of remembrance during the services and have a chance to share our memories of those who have gone before. Bring a picture or memento of you beloved dead. Come with an open heart.

Joys, Sorrows, and Caring

If you would like to have a joy, sorrow, concern, or milestone spoken by a minister at Sunday’s prayer time, let us know at this link. Make sure to tell us you do not want us to mention it aloud, or if you would like a phone call from one of the ministers.


If you know of someone in the congregation facing surgery, dealing with loss, coping with a new and serious diagnosis, etc., please encourage them to inform one of our ministers and/or to reach out to the Caring Committee at caring@uuss.org.

In Loving Memory

UUSS member Joy Vollmer passed away Monday October 16th after a short illness. 

Joy had been a UUSS member since 1990. She is survived by two daughters and a son including UUSS member Lisa Whitmore, and son Mark Vollmer. Joy had been a teacher specializing in reading and special education. She was a long-time friend of UUSS member Shirley Hines. We send our condolences to her family and friends.  

Join us in Religious Education!

Click here to read this week's RE/Family Ministry Email

Childcare--The Nursery (Rm. 11) welcomes infants 6m+ through age 5. Staff supervise child-led play in a fun and friendly nursery filled with toys and games. Snacks are offered. Access through the main entrance. Please contact Crystal with questions.


Soul Kids -grades K-5- meet this Sunday, Oct. 22 during service. Come join Annette for fun activities celebrating our Soul Matters theme: The Gift of Heritage. Please start in service!


Junior High Youth Group (JHYG) -grades 6-8- meets this Sunday, Oct. 22, during service. You are invited to join Bess and Alicia to talk about Soul Matters content and what is meaningful in your life. New youth are always welcome!


Other engaging activities for children, youth and families are available and information can be found in the email linked above! There's always a lot happening in RE!


Our RE Coordinator Crystal Fountain has weekly office hours and is available by email too.

New Directory Planned

Do you want to opt out?  

We are launching a new directory for members and friends. It will be limited to email and phone numbers only.  It will not be posted on the web site, but will be accessed through a secure site.  


Please let us know if you would like to opt out of the directory and not have your information included.  If you choose to do so, you will not have access to the directory yourself, but can get information from the office staff as needed.  


Send your questions or opt-out request to directory@uuss.org 

Directory will launch next month, but you can opt out at any time.  

What's Happening?

For a listing of all events this week and coming up

check out our Weekly Calendar/Bluesheet.

"End of Life Planning" class begins Oct. 24 Have you considered your desired end of life care? Join instructor Molly Stuart for "End of Life Planning" on three Tuesdays: Oct. 24 & 31 and Nov. 7, 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. in the Fahs classroom. In this class, you will consider your desired end of life care, be assured your values are respected, and protect your family from uncertainty. Please plan to attend all sessions. $40 suggested donation. Sign up through adultenrichment@uuss.org or at the Connections table on Sundays.

Oct. 22 is your last chance to sign up!

Samhain Celebration with CUUPs Saturday, October 28, 5:00-7:00 p.m. in the Fahs Room. Everyone is welcome at the Covenant of UU Pagans (CUUPs) Samhain Celebration. Come celebrate the turning season! Bring a potluck dish to share. Contact: cuups@uuss.org

Help Wanted

Website Support needed Do you have some comfort with tech? We need someone to post updates about social justice activities on our website. Commitment is 5 hours per month. Training provided. Contact Rev. Lucy if interested.  

Check out our volunteer spreadsheet to see all the ways you can help.

Our Work for Justice

Community Partner

Half of the Sunday morning offering donations made in October

support our local community partner:

Sacramento Native American

Health Center


To donate now at the UUSS website, click here.

"May generosity bless our world, and may gratitude nourish our spirits."

Election of Community Partners for 2024: After the Congregational meeting on October 22, UUSS members have the opportunity to vote for 6 new community partners. We have received 10 qualifying nominations. Six of the current partners with whom we have a strong partnership will be carried over to 2024 without election: Loaves and Fishes, Family Promise, RiverCity Food Bank, National Alliance for Mental Illness, Planned Parenthood and Mercy Pedalers.

 

UUSS members will receive an email with a link to the ballot. Voting is open from October 23 to 11:59 PM on October 30. Please vote! Your vote matters!

 

UUSS members without email will receive the ballot by mail as an enclosure to the Weekly Message.

 

Questions? Contact Bobbie Keill at partners@uuss.org


Staff and Minister Availability

Schedule an appointment with Rev. Lucy at calendly.com/revlucyb or ministerial intern Rosemary Dodd: rosemary@uuss.org


Rev. Roger is on sabbatical Sept. 4 through Jan. 31.


Our office staff members (office@uuss.org or 916-483-9283) are available to respond to your calls and emails weekdays 8:30-4:30, except public holidays. Our Pianist and Music Director are available by email and invite you to choir practice Wednesday nights at 7:00.

UUSS Mission 

We come together to deepen our lives and be a force for healing in the world.  

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