COACHING: WINDOW WITH A VIEW


February 2024

The Pennsylvania Key Coaching Team welcomes you to another edition of Coaching: Window with a View. We invite you to engage and respond to questions posed as well as sharing exciting and insightful resources that facilitate reflection and critical thinking.

Prioritizing Self-Care: A Vital Lesson for Coaches 


In the fast-paced world of coaching, where the focus is often on guiding others to success, it's easy for coaches to neglect their own well-being. Just like the safety instructions on an airplane remind us to put on our oxygen masks before assisting others, coaches too must recognize the importance of self-care.


In the coaching realm, putting on your oxygen mask first means acknowledging and addressing your own needs and mental health before trying to support others. This principle underscores the understanding that a coach's effectiveness is directly linked to their own well-being. Just as a drained phone cannot help others, a coach running on empty will struggle to provide the guidance and support their clients or team members require.


Acknowledging when one is in a space that is not conducive to supporting others is a key aspect of self-awareness. Coaches often find themselves in demanding situations, but it's crucial to recognize when personal challenges may hinder their ability to be fully present for those they are coaching. This recognition is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the coach's commitment to delivering quality support.


Here are a few essential points for coaches to consider:


  1. Prioritize Your Well-being: Take the time to assess your own mental and emotional state regularly. Implement self-care practices that help you recharge and stay resilient.
  2. Know Your Limits: Recognize when you are in a space where providing support might be compromised. It's okay to communicate this to your clients or team members and set clear expectations.
  3. Seek Support: Coaches need coaches too. Don't hesitate to seek guidance or supervision when facing challenging situations. Having a support system in place is crucial for your own growth and well-being.
  4. Model Healthy Behavior: By prioritizing your own self-care, you not only set a positive example for those you coach but also ensure that you can consistently deliver the best possible support.


Remember, the best coaches are those who understand the importance of maintaining their own well-being. As you embark on your coaching journey, make it a priority to put on your oxygen mask first, so you can continue to uplift and inspire those around you.


Wishing you a fulfilling and well-balanced coaching experience!


Submitted by,


Rasheeda Coston, Director of Coaching rascos@pakeys.org   

Barb Willier, Coaching Coordinator, barwil@pakeys.org 

The Pennsylvania Key   


A portion of the content in this article was generated with the assistance of AI technology. While the AI system has contributed to the writing process, the final output has been reviewed and edited by human editors to ensure accuracy and quality.

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