Dear Friends,
Mother’s Day is this coming Sunday. I wanted to learn more and refresh my memory about the origins of Mother’s Day so I did just a little bit of reading on History.com. I learned that in the 1800’s Ann Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia helped start “Mothers’ Day Work Clubs" to teach local women how to properly care for their children. Later these clubs began to serve as a unifying force around the West Virginia area that was still divided over the Civil War. In 1868 Jarvis organized “Mothers’ Friendship Day.” Mothers gathered with former Union and Confederate soldiers to promote reconciliation.
Later, in the early 1900’s Ann Reeves Jarvis’ daughter, Anna Jarvis, promoted the national celebration of Mother’s Day as we now know it, successfully lobbying for the day to become recognized on the national calendar. Anna Jarvis’ vision for Mother’s Day was for mothers to wear a white carnation, be visited by their children and perhaps attend church together. However, the folks who sold cards, flowers, and other merchandise saw this day as an opportunity for profit. Jarvis was so dismayed by the commercialization of Mother’s Day that by the time of her death, she had denounced the holiday and wanted it to be removed from the National Calendar.
A day with its roots in promoting reconciliation resulted in conflict. I imagine that even now if this were a topic of conversation at a Mother’s Day dinner, there would be some folks taking the side of the merchants. (Don’t their babies need shoes too?! Plus, moms might want a little something in a nicely wrapped box on their special day.
Others would line up on the side of Anna Jarvis. One white carnation and spending time with your children at home and at church is perfect. No cards or gifts are necessary.
Even in the same households our ideas and opinions can vary widely. We can find a way to disagree over just about anything can’t we? And when we disagree, does there have to be a “winner?” How do we even decide who wins some disagreements? Is it OK to disagree and to be divided around an issue?
This Sunday we are going to talk stop for a moment to Catch our Breath in times of division. As we do, we will hold up our ways of dealing with our differences in the light of Jesus’ teaching in scripture.
I look forward to worshiping with you this Sunday.
God’s grace and peace be with you,
Pastor Kim
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