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Anniversaries Aplenty in 2024


Happy New Year! As we shared in our recent Winter Solstice mailing, Modern Memoirs is marking several important anniversaries in 2024, including:


  • 30 years since founder Kitty Axelson-Berry opened the business


  • 25 years since Modern Memoirs was incorporated as Modern Memoirs, Inc.


  • 20 years since Director of Publishing Ali de Groot began her official employment with the company


  • 5 years since founder Kitty sold the company to my husband, Vice President Sean St. Marie, and me


We are working on various ways to honor these milestones with new services and products, the introduction of a sabbatical offering for long-term employees, and special written posts and mailings. We look forward to sharing them with you in the coming months and invite you to keep an eye on the new dedicated anniversary page on our website for special content. Take a peek now and you'll see how Publishing Associate Emma Solis has kicked off that effort with a gorgeous compilation of the biannual solstice cards and other mailings we've sent out over the years.


Perhaps you are anticipating a significant milestone in your life or in the life of a loved one this year, too. If so, a meaningful way to acknowledge such a moment is to create a book about the people and events that led to it. Birthdays, retirements, and wedding anniversaries often prompt people to reach out to us as they reflect on their lives and take stock, while losses may provoke a wish to pay tribute to a loved one who has passed away, or to learn more about one’s family history and those who came before us. If you are feeling inspired by a milestone or anniversary in your life, reach out today to discuss possibilities for a project that will let you preserve and share the stories from your singular life and heritage.

With warmest wishes,


Megan St. Marie

President

Client Edie Daly, author of Old Lesbian Memory Quilt: Stories Told by Edie Daly on Her 80th Birthday, in a still from the forthcoming documentary Old Lesbians


We were delighted to hear that Modern Memoirs client Edie Daly will be featured in a forthcoming documentary entitled Old Lesbians, which delves into the archives of the Old Lesbian Oral Herstory Project (OLOHP), housed at Smith College.


Edie’s memoir, Old Lesbian Memory Quilt: Stories Told by Edie Daly on Her 80th Birthday, was the first book company president, Megan St. Marie, worked on from start to finish after purchasing the company in 2019, and her interview conducted by Genealogist Liz Sonnenberg in June 2021 was the first in our monthly client-interview blog series, “Reflections from...”


We look forward to watching this documentary and hope you will take a look at Edie’s book, which is available for purchase in the Modern Memoirs online shop, Memory Lane Books & Gifts.

David B. Dearinger’s A Southern Madam and Her Man in the News!


By Megan St. Marie


While most of our clients publish only small print-runs of their books to share with family and friends, about a quarter of them do wish to sell their books. This is true of retired art historian David B. Dearinger, who recently published the book A Southern Madam and Her Man (White Poppy Press, an imprint of Modern Memoirs, 2023), about his great-grandparents’ colorful lives in Kentucky and Tennessee. This meticulously researched volume provides ample content regarding the historical context in which they lived during the Gilded Age, also known as “The Gay ’90s.”


Press in Chattanooga took notice, resulting in an interview with Dearinger entitled “Chattanooga’s Forgotten Brothels” by Mark Kennedy that was published in the Chattanooga Times Free Press earlier this month.


It was also exciting to see Dearinger’s book listed in the January 18, 2024 edition of The New York Review of Books.


Are you interested in learning more, or in sharing this book with people you know in Kentucky or Tennessee? You can buy a copy in our online shop, Memory Lane Books & Gifts.


You can also read more about David Dearinger and his book in this month’s client interview by Genealogist Liz Sonnenberg, linked below.

Client David B. Dearinger standing by a photo of his great-grandmother, Susie Tillett, a former Chattanooga brothel owner. He is holding a copy of his book about her life, A Southern Madam and Her Man (White Poppy Press, 2023, cover design by Modern Memoirs Book Designer Nicole Miller). Photo provided by Dearinger

Dearinger’s book listing in The New York Review of Books 1/18/24

Featured Blog Posts by Our Staff

The Magic Lantern and Proust

By Director of Publishing Ali de Groot

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Reflections from Client

David B. Dearinger


Interview by Genealogist Liz Sonnenberg

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Sue’s Story by the late Sue Halldorson Fuller (publ. 2019)

Her Memoir, the Way She Wanted It

by Director of Publishing Ali de Groot

Our Modern Memoirs motto is “Your memoir, the way you want it.” We mean it! To that end, we are always on our client’s timeline, at their pace, often despite our best hopes for timely production dates. I might schedule a project with great diligence, hoping to go to print within 6-12 months (average time), but if a client holds on to a draft for an extra week, month, or year (or yes, even over a year), we try our utmost to be understanding. We have to. “Life gets in the way,” founder Kitty Axelson-Berry used to say frequently.


Sue Fuller came to Modern Memoirs in 2008 with her ideas for a memoir that she had not yet started to write. Off we went on a collaborative journey of editorial, design, and production services. We didn’t know at the start that her project would outlive three office moves and span more than a decade. (Looking back in my emails, I found over 450 emails from/to Sue, and that was only since we migrated from one email server to another halfway through the project. Surely another 450 emails came before then!)


It was an unconventional arrangement (not recommended for the average person!): Sue would write and submit only one chapter at a time, starting naturally with Chapter One. We would go through the usual editorial back-and-forths for several months. Once the chapter looked perfect, she’d send the photos, which we’d insert with captions at designated locations. Then there would be more changes. When she finally approved the chapter, we would do a “final” proofread on it. (This even though we told her it would be much more cost-efficient to proofread the entire book once it was complete. No, not an option!) After a few more draft exchanges post-proofreading, she’d move on to writing Chapter Two.


The main problem with this writing procedure was that Sue would be gone for months or a year at a time, traveling, etc. But she would always return and faithfully send the next chapter of her book. There were more than 35 chapters in all. Five years passed and she had only gotten to the year of her marriage in the chronology (and she was now in her eighties). Sue said she still had to write chapters about each of her children and all the places they’d lived. Now that there were grandchildren, the number of which were expanding each year, I begged her to stop so that we could go to print. “You can call this Volume One and put your children’s era in Volume Two.” Not an option!


More years passed. My own kids grew from pre-teens into college students. When our office upgraded to a completely new design software and I had to re-design the whole book, it didn’t faze Sue. She kept writing. More years passed. We would completely forget the content of the early parts of the book and have to read from the beginning again. I used to call her every month on the same date, hoping for a resolution. She kept writing. Finally things began to shift when, somewhat chagrined, she told me: “Most of the people my age who are in these stories have died.” I started pestering her in earnest.


It was 2019. I called Sue on the phone to say, “Kitty is thinking of selling the business and I don’t know what’s going to happen!” This was true, and it also worked. Sue wrapped up all the remaining chapters within two months.


When it came time to design the dustjacket, Sue knew exactly what she wanted, referring to a glossy book about Queen Elizabeth II for design inspiration. On the back cover, she insisted on a photo of her 1997 red Volvo 850, a photo from the shiny dealership brochure she sent. The red background of the jacket had to be the exact same red as the car. (I just love our clients’ idiosyncrasies, which, again, we try to honor at every turn.)


The book was published in fall of 2019. Her long-awaited response:

“The books arrived safely… they look terrific. The dustcover is wonderful, the book and spine are great, and I especially appreciate the quality of the archival paper. The red is perfect! Thank you. I am thrilled.”


Sue’s Story, the way Sue wanted it.

Back cover of Sue's Story

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We’d love to hear your brief personal reflections on the question of the month (below). Write your response for a chance to be featured in the next edition of our e-newsletter!


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January Question: What is one peculiarity or idiosyncrasy about yourself?

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Staff responses

Megan St. Marie: I think I have a touch of misophonia because the sound of someone chewing ice—or worse, biting into a popsicle—makes me want to run for the hills!


Sean St. Marie: I am not a very superstitious person, but it’s uncanny how often I look at a digital clock and see the time 11:11, which is supposed to bring good luck.


Ali de Groot: I always do this superstitious thing when I see a white horse, where I have to “stamp” my forehead with my fist for good luck, a ritual inherited from my grandmother.


Liz Sonnenberg: Tending toward the OCD side of organization and neatness.


Nicole Miller: I loathe round pizzas cut into squares. It’s destruction of a masterpiece.


Emma Solis: Whenever I see a picture or video of someone in water (think water park, shampoo, and face cleanser commercials), my eyes start to water like crazy!


Olivia Go: I like to set my alarms to prime numbers. Instead of waking up at 8:30 I will wake up at 8:29. I don’t know how this strange habit began, but now if I don’t do it, I assume I’ll have bad luck for the day!


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