Our mid council leaders continued in conversation last week during the Fall Leadership Forum held November 8-10 in Princeton, New Jersey. On November 8, the group met with representatives from the Presbyterian Mission Agency, Presbyterian Women, and the Board of Pensions. The Listening Session focused on the ways the foci of Matthew 25 are being incorporated in presbyteries. On day two the group engaged in a listening session focused on the New Way Forward led by consultant Dr. Okokon Udo. We also took time to celebrate the retirement of Rev. Dr. Debby Brincivalli, Executive Presbyter of the Presbytery For Southern New Jersey. The staff took a brief pause following the successful Come to the Table gathering. For more information, see the Synod’s website for a full summary of the event. The Discernment Team completed its Phase One Report and will share its findings at the Special Called Meeting of The Assembly on December 9.
On January 23, join the Synod Community for a book discussion with author Curtis DeYoung on his book The Risk of Being Woke. The Spirit is moving among us and the work of building bridges continues. With every step of progress, we are thankful for our current journey. Good things are happening!
As we continue in this season of thankfulness. I offer this prayer by the late Bishop Desmond Tutu:
I want to be willing to let go, to forgive.
But dare not ask for the will to forgive,
in case you give it to me
And I am not yet ready.
I am not yet ready for my heart to soften.
I am not yet ready to be vulnerable again.
Not yet ready to see that there is humanity in my tormentor’s eyes
Or that the one who hurt me may also have cried
I am not yet ready for the journey.
I am not yet interested in the path
I am at the prayer before the prayer of forgiveness
Grant me the will to want to forgive.
Grant it to me not yet but soon
Can I even form the words?
Forgive me? Dare I even look?
Do I dare to see the hurt I have caused:
I can glimpse all the shattered pieces of that fragile thing
That soul trying to rise on the broken wings of hope
But only out of the corner of my eye.
I am afraid of it.
And if I am afraid to see
How can I not be afraid to say: Forgive me?
Is there a place where we can meet?
You and me
The place in the middle where we straddle the lines
Where you are right and I am right too.
And both of us are wrong and wronged
Can we meet there?
And look for the place where the path begins
The path that ends when we forgive.
This holiday may your time with family and friends be rich with joy and gratitude. As you engage strangers, may you be guided by love and a deeper understanding of what it means to be human and redeemed.
Rev. Dr. SanDawna Gaulman Ashley
|