JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER

May 3, 2024

25 Nisan 5784

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A SHABBAT MESSAGE FROM OUR RABBI

I am certain that you, like me, have all experienced how unreliable our sense of time can be. In our ordinary life, time often seems to speed by. We find ourselves saying “where has this week gone?” or “where has the year gone?” (Sometimes I sing “Where have all the Flowers gone?”) Sometimes, even larger chunks of time seem to disappear without a trace.

 

I am equally certain that each of us have experienced are other instances where time drags and feels endless. What is it about us and time.

 

During this season of the year, Judaism offers a great opportunity to keep track of time. For seven weeks - between Passover and Shavuot - we count each day in a formal, ritualized way. This is called the Counting of the Omer. It appears to have its genesis in an ancient biblical celebration of the spring harvest.

 

It is not by accident that we mark the time between these two holidays. Passover marks our redemption from slavery and Shavuot marks our receipt of the gift of Torah at Mount Sinai. Starting on the Second night of Passover (near the end of the Seder), and for a total of 49 days, each evening, we Count the Omer, until we reach Shavuot. (An Omer is a measure of grain, in this case barley. The Torah actually required that an Omer of barley be brought to the Temple on the second day of Passover).


Waiting to put some time and distance between slavery and the receipt of Torah is a nice thought, but why count the Omer each day? Answering this question is a bit more challenging. 


One answer is that it forces us to check in with ourselves every day for at least the few minutes it takes us to say: “Today is the XX day in the counting of the Omer.” Too often we find ourselves immersed in the past or pondering the future. The daily Omer ritual requires us to become attuned to the present. 


I am proposing another reason for the daily ritual, and this theory will provide an opportunity for us to observe the ritual in a special way this year.


Shavuot marks the moment that we received the Torah. The Torah is spiritually and literarily very powerful. As such, it is too big to accept and absorb at one time. Our senses and our brains would be overloaded. 


What if one purpose of counting for 49 days, is to enable us to receive a little piece of the Torah each day that we count. In this way we gently and calmly can absorb what the Torah wants to tell us.


Perhaps you are thinking: How can we reenact absorbing a little Torah at a time? I’m glad you asked. This year on Wednesday evenings, right after minyan, from May 8th until June 5th, we will be studying Pirkei Avot, the Ethics of our Ancestors. This special Text is customarily studied at this time of the year. It is a wisdom Text that provides guidance on how to live our lives, with topics including, among other things: friendship, work, family, learning, spirituality, and conduct.


Whatever the topic covered in each class, I can assure you that the discussion will be lively and worth the price of admission (which is nothing). 


Join us every Wednesday evening. Services start at 7:30 and our discussion will begin at about 7:50. Here is the link:


Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83559208295?pwd=ZGNQbFlxR3Y4S1Vuc1hiYUNCMnNuUT09


Meeting ID: 835 5920 8295

Passcode: 437484


Whatever the reasons may be for counting, it provides us with a good time to reflect a bit on our lives, our families, our friends, our JCC community, the greater Jewish community, the world, and Torah.


By the way, if you want to count the Omer on a regular basis, you can join us at any evening service at the link above.


Count, reflect, discuss, and be present.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

May 3, 2024

7:35 PM


Shabbat Mevarchim

Chodesh Iyyar


Friday, May 3, 2024


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DINNER

(Reservation required)

6:30 PM

SERVICES

lead by the women of the JCC of LBI

7:30 PM


SERVICES IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

May 4, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON &

ON ZOOM


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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Achrei Mot

Leviticus 16:1-18:30

Achrei Mot (“After The Death”) opens by describing the ritual service of Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement. It then details the prohibitions of offering sacrifices outside of the Mishkan (Tabernacle) and of eating animal blood, and ends with a list of forbidden sexual relations.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

This week's haftorah foretells the exiles and punishments that will befall the Jews because they strayed after the ways of the heathens — behavior that this week's Torah reading proscribes.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:15 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

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join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


NO EVENING MINYANS SCHEDULED FOR SUNDAY EVENINGS.

IF YOU NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADISH, PLEASE CONTACT

RABBI JAY OR STU LEHRER.


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

NEW 8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

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SHACHARIT

SUNDAY, MAY 5

Pickleball

10:00 AM

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TUESDAY, MAY 7

Pickleball

3:00 PM


Beginning Hebrew

with Ira

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WEDNESDAY, MAY 8

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


Pirkei Avot, the Ethics of our Ancestors Class

7:50 PM

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THURSDAY, MAY 9

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM

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FRIDAY, MAY 10


Studying the Prophets with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM


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MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

PICKLEBALL


SUNDAY 10:00 AM

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

Yom HaShoah begins at sundown on Sunday, May 5, 2024 and ends at nightfall on Monday, May 6, 2024.


In Israel, at 10 am on the holiday, air-raid sirens are sounded throughout the country for a national moment of silence. Places of public entertainment are closed and flags on public buildings are flown at half-mast.


UPCOMING ACTIVITIES

Friday, May 3 @ 6:30 PM

WAX Dinner and Service


Wednesday, May 15 @ 4:00 PM

WAX Book Club


Sunday, May 19 @ 4-6 PM

WAX Trivia with DJ Mike


Wednesday, May 22 @11:00 AM

Mahjongg Brunch at Diane Buskirk's


Friday, May 24

Brunch Site TBD


Sunday, May 26 @ 10:00 AM

Blessing of the Pets


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, May 15th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

But He Was Good to His Mother: The Lives and Crimes of Jewish Gangsters by Robert A Rockaway


Often typecast as superficial, vicious men who would kill at the drop of a hat, the men featured in this book are now shown in a different light. No longer the one-dimensional persons we have seen in other books, or portrayed in the press, this book now brings to life men like the legendary Arnold Rothstein, Dutch Schultz, Bugsy Siegel, and Meyer Lansky to name a few. 

 

Within these pages, we will have an opportunity to alter our viewpoint for the first time, and see both sides of how these gangster celebrities really lived, and how they viewed their vast criminal enterprises simply as businesses, not evil. We will be introduced to the history of Jewish involvement in crime in the United States going back into the 19th century.


June Book: A Castle in Brooklyn: A Novel by Shirley Russak Wachtel


Thanks to our membership in the PJP we are able to enjoy a variety of programs. No need to register in advance.

PJP Series "What Jews Think”

2023-2024

Thursday, May 9 @8:30 PM Dr. Shira Billet,

Jewish Theological Seminary

“How Jewish Philosophers Think about Troubling Traditions”


This session will introduce Jewish philosophy as a means of grappling with what I call troubling traditions. Traditions refer to sacred texts that are authoritative for us in some significant way. They are „troubling“ when they conflict with other strong beliefs we hold, be they epistemic beliefs about what is true or false, moral beliefs about right or wrong, or political beliefs about how we ought or ought not to live. We will look at methods that Jewish philosophers have articulated in attempting to resolve these contradictions, and gain insight into the history and practice of Jewish philosophy. Shira Billet is Assistant Professor of Jewish Thought and Ethics at the Jewish Theological Seminary of America. Her research focuses on the work of nineteenth-century German Jewish philosopher, Hermann Cohen, his ethical and Jewish thought, and the history of Jewish philosophy broadly. Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86099814024?pwd=UWdvMWMrM3JHeWtCckY0MFVHQVl

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CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Raleigh Liebenberg

Bill Sisenwine

Kurt Albu

Dora Haber

Raphael Haber

Anna Schwartz

David Weinstein

Mae Hirschorn Cohen*

Morris Ross

Calvert I. Waranch*

Ruth Brasch

George Foosaner

Alfred David Frumkin

Ruth Goldman*

Matilda Tubis

Izzy Ungar

Marvin Einhorn

Larry Holt

Audrey Konwiser

Evelyn Miller*

Jennie Shapiro

Nathan Blumberg

William Frank

Ann Hirsh Mednikoff

Michael Yudman

Lorraine B. Barol

Anna Blumenthal*

Dr. Morton Kaplon

Aaron Powitz


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 7:45 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.



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Cake

Ken Fuirst

May 5

Beth Zemble – Rosenzweig

May 5

Joel Werbel

May 5

Michael Kaplon

May 6

Peter Langerman

May 6

Henry Gardner

May 7

Linda Peroff

May 7

Marty Telles

May 7

Jeffrey Bernstein

May 8

Ira Fox

May 10

Anne Hamburger

May 10

 

Howard & Joanne Babbitt

May 10

54th Anniversary

Terri & David Robinovitz

April 28, 1968


CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-534


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CONTACT: 

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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

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JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine

Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Jon Geier


Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel