News From Caring Palms Healing Arts
Caring Palms Healing Arts
Newsletter
May 2021
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Welcome to this month's Caring Palms Healing Arts newsletter. This month, we have some news and a couple articles for you.

New classes are listed below as promised. Because of the pandemic, the number of classes have been limited, and the number of students per each class has been limited to four so we can social distance ourselves during the lecture periods.

I hope you enjoy what we have compiled here.
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Should, Would, Could
by Brian Dean

How many times do we hear these words each day? How many times do we look back at events that happened today, last week, last year, or further back still? And how many times do we say, “If I did this, it would have been better”? Probably, a bit.

As we go through life, we encounter situations. With each one, we make decisions. Sometimes these decisions are really good, and sometimes not. We learn from each choice, the good and the bad. We make mental notes, file them away in our brains to be pulled forward and looked at the next time we are in a similar situation.

But then we analyze, especially with the things that did not go as planned. We start looking at options we could have tried, at possibilities that we didn’t see at the time. And then we sit back and think that we should have done something different. And maybe that is true, but maybe it was not possible at the time.
One of the things in the last paragraph suggests there might have been other options, or possibilities that we did not see at the time. This is the key… we did not see them at the time. We make hundreds of decisions each day. Some deal with trivial things like what to make for dinner. But others deal with life-level events, and some that might not seem like it, but are. And each time we make a decision, we do so with what information we have at the time. Later we may find out that there was more information, but it just was not available at the point of the decision.

We have to believe that given the information we had, we made the best decision. Looking back and thinking that we should have done this, or should have done that is simply a waste of energy. We can go in loops forever rethinking what we did, thinking we should have done it differently. But the decision has been made, and it was the best one possible at the time. Basically, don’t should yourself.

Look forward. You set yourself on a path. Maybe instead of looking back and thinking your decision should have been better, look ahead and see what you can make of the path you have chosen. What possibilities are there? What wonders can be made of them?

Remember, you are walking forward. You should stop looking back.
Real Strength
by Brian Dean

Every culture has its own standards, perceptions. They decide a person’s worth based on how they adhere to those standards. For the past forever, these standards have been strict and solid… and stereotypical. Women had their role to play, to take care of the man and family, to cook, to clean. And it was okay for them to be emotional as that was what was expected. Men had to be strong, to not show weakness, to be the breadwinner. Emotion was supposed to be foreign to them as they had to be that tower of strength.

But in the past half century, things have changed, or at least started to. And while change has been going on for centuries, it has made he biggest impact recently. Women are being recognized as equals and not subservient (at least by most people), and as those being brought up with this education see that, things will change more.

Men, for the most part, are stuck in that same box they have always been in. they have to be strong. They can’t show emotion. But being this way is not being strong. In fact, it is the coward’s approach to stay within the guidelines, to put on that stolid face and act like nothing is wrong.
But strength, real strength does not come from acting strong, it comes from being strong. And being strong is showing that you can let go, can let others see that you are not perfect, can feel those emotions that are coming to you. And what you do with those shows your true strength.

It is known scientifically that when men reach their 40s or 50s, they can feel the effects of male menopause. With this comes mood swings as all the emotions they have been taught to hide build up and let themselves out.

The thing to know is that this is okay. It is all right to feel and act on emotions, to feel sadness, to be depressed, to feel joy. It is okay to cry. And that release in crying is letting out things that could have been bottled up for a long, long time. Better to seep out periodically than explode. And if you think of it, crying is like experiencing a cleansing spring rain, seeing everything after unneeded things have been washed away, fresh and new, with new perspectives.

Don’t be afraid to go against the stereotype. Be strong, but make it true strength.
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Leave a Review, Enter Our Drawing
Leave a review and be entered in a drawing to win a free session. If you have enjoyed the services at Caring Palms, whether that be massage, Reiki, or classes, or something else, please leave a review on one of the review sites like Google, Facebook, or any of the many places that take reviews. Lately, it has been these reviews that have been bringing new clients into the studio, and all have been glad they found us.

Anyone leaving a review will be entered into the monthly drawing to win a free session (massage or Reiki). Reviews made between the first and last day of each month will go into the drawing, and the winner will be pulled on the first of every month. Thank you all that have left reviews, and congratulations to the people who have already won free sessions.

Note: We are asking people not to post on Yelp unless you are a person that posts there regularly. Yelp has some qualifying software that looks at each review, and if you are a regular poster, your comment is deemed "Relevant", otherwise your comment is marked "Not Relevant". While Caring Palms has 20 5-star reviews on Yelp, only seven of them are deemed "Relevant", and one has to go through another step to see the remaining 13.
Guided Meditation CDs Available In-House and Online

The first three guided meditations are now available. We have a small inventory in-house). When these have been sold, we will replenish them (replenishment takes about 10 days). These meditations are also available online as CDs or MP3s and can be purchased through the Meditations Page. If you are looking for a safe meditative journey to relax or work, come see us, or purchase one (or all three) online. Available meditations include, Finding Sanctuary, Working Through Past Experiences, and Visiting With Your Guides. We are hoping to have the other three available within a few months.
Reiki Class Schedule
Reiki Gold
The following is a list of currently scheduled Reiki Classes. Each class (unless otherwise marked) currently has a status of 'Scheduled'. This means that a date has been set, but no one has signed up for it yet. Once a deposit has been received for a class, the status will be 'Confirmed'. Any class marked as 'Closed' has filled up. (Note: In some cases, one may be able to enter a class marked 'Closed' with permission of the instructor.)

You may sign up for any of these through the website, or over the phone with a credit card.

Each class is limited to four people so we are not cramped. More classes are being created and will be available by next month's newsletter.

Reiki 1
  • Saturday, May 1st, 10:00am - 5:00pm Closed
  • Saturday, June 12th, 10:00am - 5:00pm Confirmed
  • Saturday, July 17th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, August 7th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, September 11th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, October 9th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, November 13th, 10:00am - 5:00pm

Reiki 2 (This class requires a minimum of two students for it to happen.)
  • Saturday, June 26th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, August 14th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, October 23rd, 10:00am - 5:00pm

Reiki 3
  • Saturday, May 15th, 10:00am - 5:00pm Confirmed
  • Saturday, August 14th, 10:00am - 5:00pm
  • Saturday, November 11th, 10:00am - 5:00pm


All classes are open to anyone wanting to learn this unique method of hands-on healing. The cost for each class is $150 no matter what level of Reiki the class is for. A $75 deposit is required a minimum of seven (7) days prior to the class date (or permission of the instructor) to reserve a space in the class. Full payment must be received two (2) days before the class date. Classes with no deposits received by the cut off date will be canceled. All class statuses may be viewed under Reiki, Reiki Class Information, and Class Schedule. You can also sign up for classes there. (Check the website for the location.)

Each Reiki class is Florida Board of Massage Approved for six (6) Continuing Education Hours (CEUs)
Advanced Body Mechanics and Techniques
The following is a list of currently scheduled classes. This class is a two-day class worth 12 CE hours for massage therapists. Each class (unless otherwise marked) currently has a status of 'Scheduled'. This means that a date has been set, but no one has signed up for it yet. Once a deposit has been received for a class, the status will be 'Confirmed'. The schedule is as follows:

You may sign up for any of these through the website, or over the phone with a credit card.

Each class is limited to four people so we are not cramped. It takes a minimum of two people for this class to happen, and those signing up for it need to do so at least one week before the scheduled date.

  • New dates to be announced soon

All classes are scheduled to be held at the Caring Palms Studio. Should the location change, that change
will be on the website and students notified.

Maximize your results with less effort. Utilize the science of martial arts and apply it to massage. Advanced Body Mechanics and Techniques for Massage Therapists, is designed to reconnect the massage therapist with proper body mechanics and techniques while putting a new twist on things and showing how to get more pressure with little effort. While it does go over some basics, it takes body mechanics to a new level where every move involves the use of the therapist's entire body so they can work without hurting themselves. The class being part lecture, part hands-on practice takes positions, centering, and the proper use of body strength from Japanese martial arts and applies them to the art of massage therapy. It also shows how to focus one's energies to increase their strength with simple exercises meant to teach the student how to 'think' beyond where they are working so they can get deeper into the client and to channel their energies to the point of thought. The student will learn how to focus their energies and use their body to do deep work and not get hurt. This class will help anyone to work deeply with less effort no matter if one is 90 pounds or 250 pounds. This class is for both the seasoned therapist and the new therapist. It will show moves everyone does, but in a new light as well as moves many people may not have seen before. The idea is not to dictate how to practice, but to show better body mechanics which the therapist can adapt to what they do. This is true whether they adapt all of it or just part of it.

Florida Board of Massage Approved for twelve (12) Continuing Education Hours (CEUs)
Class Cost: $300

This class is for licensed massage therapists or anyone that regularly uses massage in their practice. For those looking to learn basic massage for relaxation for their partner or friends, see the website on the Massage For Couples classes.

To sign up for classes, go to the website and select Continuing Education, Advanced Body Mechanics and Techniques, and Class Schedule to see additions and changes or to sign up.
Caring Palms Hosts Mediumship Classes
Currently, all of Marilyn's class are being held online through Zoom. If you want to take a class, call her and she will tell you what you need to do. When this changes, you will see it here first.

Every month, Caring Palms is host a mediumship class taught by Marilyn Jenquin of the International Foundation for Spiritual Knowledge. In this class, Marilyn teaches the British style of mediumship (this is similar to the style used by John Edward). Each class contains a lecture, a meditation, and class exercises. This is for all ranges of students from the beginner, to the long time student.

Mediumship is a method of communicating with people who are no longer in their physical body, but in the spirit world. The class teaches students to do evidential readings as exercises so they get comfortable developing a relationship with those in spirit. This class is for anyone wanting to work with spirit whether they intend to become professional mediums or simply to use it in their everyday lives.

Classes are usually scheduled the fourth Thursday of each month from 1pm to 3:30pm at the Caring Palms studio. For more information, go to the IFSK Website where you can learn more about this, check class schedules and locations, and get contact information.
New Procedures due to the Pandemic


Because of the ongoing issue with COVID 19, there will be changes in procedures to keep everyone (client and therapist alike) safe.

  1. Everyone coming in will have their temperature taken by a non-touch forehead thermometer. Anyone with a temperature of 100 degrees or higher will be asked to come back another time.
  2. A new form has been added letting you know that everything possible is being done to keep the disease from spreading. Basically, it is an information disclaimer like people sign for massage or Reiki sessions.
  3. During the intake process, while scanning, spirit will be asked if it is safe to work on that client.
  4. The client will be required to wear a face mask while they are face up (supine) during the session. If you do not have a mask, a disposable one will be provided.
  5. Your therapist will be wearing a mask during the entire session.
  6. After the session, all surfaces touched will be wiped down with disinfectant, and some will be cleaned through UV light.
  7.  We have added a Hepa/UV filter in the room that will be running at all times.

These procedures will not be bypassed under any circumstances. The idea is to keep everyone safe, yet allow them to get their needed sessions.

Also, if you normally refuse to wear a mask when going about normal errands, please wait to come in. If you have been in large groups that do not wear masks, please wait to come in. If you know that you have been exposed to people that have COVID, please wait to come in until you know you do not have it. This is for our safety as well as yours.
Brian Offering Readings
Brian is now doing readings to anyone that wants to sit for one for $50 for up to one hour. Keep in mind, these are mediumship readings, not psychic readings. If you have an interest, please contact Brian and something can be scheduled. These can also be scheduled from the website.
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Caring Palms Promise
At Caring Palms, we pledge to do the best work we can at every session. We not only do this to continue to earn your business, but because we believe that you deserve the best care possible every time you are here. This is true whether it is massage, or energy work, or classes. This is our promise. This is what we will continue to do.
Forward This Newsletter
Did you know that Caring Palms offers a Referral Bonus? Forward this newsletter to people you know, and if they come in for a session and give your name, you will get $5 off your next purchase. And the beauty of this is that it is cumulative. If two people come in, you get $10 off your next purchase, three people, $15 off, and so forth. So if you know people that could benefit from any of the services we offer (and everyone can), forward this newsletter to them. If they come in, you will benefit as well.
Can We Answer Your Questions?
You have Questions? Maybe we have answers. Each month, we write articles on a variety of subjects. Is there something that you would like to see us write about? Do you have questions that you'd like answered? Do you have questions on massage? On Reiki? On energy work in general? Submit your questions or requests to Brian@CaringPalms.com we will try to see if we can answer them for you.
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