20 Tevet, 5783

January 13, 2023


Parshat Shemot

Brooks isn’t crazy, he’s just institutionalized. The man has been in here (prison) for 50 years. This is all he knows. In here, he is an important person, he’s an educated man. Outside he’s nothing, just a used-up con with arthritis in both hands. Probably couldn’t get a library card if he tried.


Although it does not have superheroes (a real shame!) or amazing effects, “The Shawshank Redemption” is one of the all-time great movies. If you have watched it, you know what I am talking about, and if you have not, you are certainly welcome to do so.


The above lines from the movie describe one of the supporting characters in the film, Brooks, who served as the prison’s librarian, as he is about to be released after fifty years of being imprisoned. In fact, Brooks tries to kill a fellow inmate in order to stay in prison longer and not have to face the outside world.


It seems a bit strange. We would expect a person who is set to be free for the first time in fifty years to be extremely happy, knowing that he would finally enjoy the freedom that was denied him almost his entire life. However, the movie shows us that Brooks, just like most people, is afraid of change. He is so used to the reality of the very violent prison where he has lived for so long that he prefers to stay there than go out into the unknown.


We begin Sefer Shemot, which is a direct continuation of Sefer Bereishit, and we encounter a word that has not been written until now: “new.” We went through the entire Sefer Bereshit, the book of creation in which everything was new – the world, man, Avraham, the good, the bad, and choice – and the word “new” never appeared. Now suddenly we find the word “new” in this week’s parsha: “ויקם מלך חדש” (A new king arose).


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Rashi cites the famous controversy of Rav and Shmuel regarding “חדש ממש” (really new) and שנתחדשו גזירותיו (let his decrees be renewed). While Shmuel goes beyond the simple explanation and claims that only the decrees of the king were new, Rav asserts what we all understand in the simplest way – that a new king was appointed. Both Rav and Shmuel speak of a situation of renewal. Both of them explain that a different period has begun – a new period. Unfortunately, in this case it is not only new, but it is also difficult and terrible.


Why is it that the first time we hear the word “new” it has a negative connotation? After all, when a new year begins there is excitement at the prospect of a new beginning. When a new child is born, we are full of joy. When we receive something new, we are happy. How did this positive word get a negative context?


The truth is that “new” is actually nice, but “change”...that is something different.


Bnei Yisrael will undergo a big change in Sefer Shemot, and it will not be easy. During that time of change, it appears that Bnei Yisrael prefers the “known evil” and attempts to cling to the old world that they are familiar with, despite the fact that they are slaves that have to endure terrible suffering at the hands of the Egyptians.


Moshe will ultimately have to work very hard to get Bnei Yisrael out of Egypt, and he has to not only deal with Pharaoh, but he also has to convince Bnei Yisrael to leave Egypt and to walk away from a land where they experienced such hardship. When Bnei Yisrael leave Egypt and wander in the desert, they constantly remember the “life of comfort” that they left behind.


Yet, that is how we are today. Change is often seen as something difficult or threatening. Many of us would prefer to preserve the reality that we are currently in rather than moving towards achieving our larger goals. We would be content postponing the change a little longer or having someone else do it for us.


In the movie, Brooks ends up not being able to live outside the prison walls (sorry for the spoiler!).


As Sefer Shemot begins, we start focusing on the story of the exodus from slavery, which is a story that will change the world forever. I definitely believe that in order to deal with change, you need faith. It is time to switch from “Yaakov” mode to “Yisrael” mode. We must not wait for the change to happen – we have to initiate it.


Shabbat Shalom, 


Rav Rotem Shamay

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Mitzvah Momentum!

We are excited about a school-wide (K-8), year-long initiative that we introduced to the students called Mitzvah Momentum!


Students in grades K-8 will be focusing on a particular mitzvah during each part of the year. In January-February we are focusing on Bikur Cholim, March-April will be Tzedakah, and May-June will be Hakarat HaTov. 


There are various components to this program depending on the age of your child, outlined in the Mitzvah Momentum At Home Chart that appears above. 


As part of this program, we are asking each Kohelet family to discuss a Chessed that you would like to get involved in as a family during December. Please click here to download the Mitzvah Momentum At Home Chart and then fill in your family's Chessed and attach a picture of your family performing the Chessed (if you'd like).

News from Kohelet Yeshiva

The high school had a special guest at Mishmar, Rabbi Uri Weitz, Mashgiach at the University of Pennsylvania, who discussed several topics, such as what you need to know to be a student mashgiach while in college and how to run a Kosher program on a cruise ship.

Congratulations to our high school girls basketball team on a big win this week over The City School! Go Kings!

Our K/1 students began learning about Sefer Shemot this week! Their introduction to Shemot included a sequencing activity, in which the students put pictures into what they believed to be the proper order based on their prior experience and knowledge.

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The Kohelet Yeshiva Board of Directors


To mark the recent shloshim of Sherwin Seligsohn, z"l


A longtime friend and benefactor of Kohelet Yeshiva, a true visionary whose incredible support of Jewish education was transformative in nature and helped ensure that countless young men and women had the opportunity to learn and grow in a warm and nurturing Torah environment, and beloved father of our Past President Scott Seligsohn.


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