Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island E-Letter


May 6, 2022
5 Iyar 5782


Mother's Day
A MESSAGE FROM
RABBI JAY
In the simplest of terms, what I love about Parashat Kedoshim is its clarion call to the Jewish people. In order to understand it, let’s look at the first 2 verses of Chapter 19:

The Lord spoke to Moses saying: Speak to the WHOLE Israelite community and say to them: “You shall be holy, for I, the Lord your God, am holy.

While God’s proclamation that the Jewish people must be holy is a highwater mark moment for the Israelites, what makes this moment truly extraordinary is the word “WHOLE”.  God’s requirement is that every Israelite be holy. Not just the priests, not just the chieftains, not just the judges, not just the men. The rule is addressed to the entire population. 

Why is this important? Because it means that we, each of us, have an equal responsibility to represent the Jewish people. It is a burden but, at the same time, it is a privilege. Think of what holy means and then do holy. I’m going to leave this discussion right here, but if you want to share with me what you think “holy” means, please feel free to email or text me.

NEW TOPIC: Today we celebrated Israel’s 74th Birthday. I was listening to a Times of Israel Daily briefing today. Israel is important to us today, but I want to give you just one sense of how important it was to the Jews of 1948. 

After World War II, millions of European Jews were without a home. They had spent the war in concentrations camps or in hiding. Some attempted to go to back to their homes, but were attacked by the non-Jewish nationals (e.g. Poles and Czechoslovakians) who did not want the Jews back. In 1946 there were actually pogroms against Jews in European countries.(Reconsider how horrific this was: The Jews who had miraculously survived the Nazis were actually attacked when they tried to return to their rightful homes). 

In 1948 there were in excess of 250,000 Jews in the Displacement camps. The European countries didn’t want them. The United States (yes our own beloved country) did not want them. They had absolutely no place to go.

This all changed when the state of Israel was declared on May 5, 1948. At that instant, the Jews of Europe had a choice of where to go. They could then go to the one place on earth where they were welcomed with open arms; one place that was committed to taking them in. That place was Israel. The Jewish people finally had a place to go to escape the horrors they had experienced during centuries of living as the “other”.

On this 74th Birthday let’s not lose sight of the impact that the reopening of our homeland had on the Jewish people and the world.

A blessing:
Dearest God:
Please Spread blessing and your shelter of peace upon Israel,
the homeland of the Jewish People.
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
ENJOY THIS FUN VIDEO IN CELEBRATION OF ISRAEL'S INDEPENDENCE DAY
CORRECTION TO THE BULLETIN:

August Bazzar is August 10
SHABBAT
SHALOM
Candle Lighting time
Friday evening
May 6, 2022
7:37 PM
(So. Ocean County)

JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
&
SHABBAT DINNER WITH CANTOR GELLER
Friday Evening
May 6, 2022
6:00 PM
ZOOM ONLY

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
&
SHABBAT DINNER


Saturday Morning
May 7, 2022
Shabbat
Service
9:00 AM
IN PERSON
AND
ON ZOOM

Here is
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT

Torah Reading:
Parashat Kedoshim
Leviticus 19:1-20:27
 Here is the Reading

Kedoshim (“Holy”) opens by instructing the Israelites to be holy. It details dozens of laws regulating all aspects of life, including observing Shabbat, loving one’s neighbor, and leaving portions of a field for the poor. It ends by detailing punishments for certain types of idolatry and sexual misconduct. 

Haftorah
Amos 9:7-15
Here is the Haftorah

Saturday - weather permitting - folks can bring their grab and go into our JCC tent and enjoy lunch together

 HAVDALLAH
8:00 PM
No Torah Study

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services

Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


MONDAY, 5/9
10:00 AM
Hartman Institute Seminar"
Foundations for a Thoughtful Judaism"
with Rabbi Jay

WEDNESDAY 5/11

4:00 PM
WAX BOOK CLUB

following Ma'ariv
7:45 PM
Studying the weekly portions
with Rabbi Jay based on the book
"Judaism’s Life-Changing Ideas"
by Rabbi Jonathan Sacks
an Sacs
THURSDAY 5/12
11:00 AM Torah Study with the Rabbi
2:00 PM Beginning Hebrew with Ira

HERE ARE THE LINKS :

Mah jongg
MAH JONGG AND CANASTA IS BACK
AT THE JCC OF LBI
Beginning Wednesday May 18th
12:30 PM - 4:00 PM

Weather permitting, the tent will be available for playing outside.
THANK YOU TO DANA NEWBORN FOR CONDUCTING A STIMULATING TORAH STUDY LESSON ON THURSDAY.

LOOK FOR DANA TO RETURN TO OUR
ZOOM CLASSROOM
ON TUESDAY, MAY 31 AT 10:00 AM
AS WE STUDY
THE BOOK OF RUTH
IN PREPARATION FOR SHAVUOT
MAY 6 Shabbat Dinner with Hazzan Sara Geller

MAY 11 - WAX Book Club

MAY 15 - WAX Trip to Grounds for Sculpture

May 31 WAX Kol Nashim with Dana Newborn
JUNE 10 - Shabbat Dinner

JUNE 15 - WAX Book Club

JUNE 17 - WAX Craft Project

JUNE 17 - Shabbat on the Beach (Spray Beach)

JUNE 24 - Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)

JUNE 26 - Membership Brunch
Please join us for FRIDAY Night Shabbat Dinner (ZOOM)
May 6, 2022
Services at 6:00 PM
With special quest
Hazzan Sara Geller
and dinner following.  We will Schmooze, sing, pray, Schmooze, learn, eat, and Schmooze some more! Dinner following candle lighting and kiddish in your own private chat room with friends, family and new friends.


JCC WOMENS AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

Hotel Moscow by Talia Carner

Brooke Fielding, a thirty-eight-year-old New York investment manager and daughter of Jewish Holocaust survivors, finds her life suddenly upended in late September 1993 when her job is unexpectedly put in jeopardy. Brooke accepts an invitation to join a friend on a mission to Moscow to teach entrepreneurial skills to Russian businesswomen, which will also give her a chance to gain expertise in the new, vast emerging Russian market. Though excited by the opportunity to save her job and be one of the first Americans to visit Russia after the fall of communism, she also wonders what awaits her in the country that persecuted her mother just a generation ago.

Inspired by the women she meets, Brooke becomes committed to helping them investigate the crime that threatens their businesses. But as the uprising of the Russian parliament against President Boris Yeltsin turns Moscow into a volatile war zone, Brooke will find that her involvement comes at a high cost. For in a city where “capitalism” is still a dirty word, where neighbors spy on neighbors and the new economy is in the hands of a few dangerous men, nothing Brooke does goes unnoticed—and a mistake in her past may now compromise her future.


Future books:
Wednesday, June 15 at 4:00 PM
Cilka's Journey by Heather Morris
Discussion Leader: Sondi Pripstein

UPCOMING ZOOM PROGRAMS
with PARTNERS IN JEWISH PROGRAMMING
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CLICK ON EACH EVENT FOR
DETAILED FLYER



Links will be sent out prior to each program
and are free to members of the JCC of LBI
Non-members $18.00

If you missed previous videos
here are the links to see them:

Access Passcode: zT+dm2!*

Go to 33.12 on video for the beginning of the tour

A VIRTUAL YOUR OF JEWISH PRAGUE
Access Passcode: q.bswXW6

CHAVURAH VISIT TO THE GROUNDS FOR SCULPTURE
HAMILTON, NJ
Chavurah
Date: Sunday, May 15, 2022
Rain Date: Sunday May 22, 2022
Mode of transportation: Car pool
Ticket Prices: $15.00 Senior rate
                        $18.00 Group rate
$10.00 Students
Tickets will be ordered 2 weeks prior to the event
Arrival time: 11:00 AM
Lunch: Rat’s Café 1:00 PM - Order from menu

This is the tentative plan, thought this would be a wonderful opportunity to be outside and enjoy the weather with our friends who we have all missed so much over the past 2 years.

So, who’s on board, again, this plan is tentative but we need to begin.
Please Click on this link, if you are interested in attending.
Questions: Irene Babst 856 904-5145 or JCCofLBIChaverah@gmail.com
Also in stock - Mezuzah Scrolls
The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening

Alfred Baker*
David Ehrlich
Ben Levenstein
Nathan Rubenstein*
Ted Cohen
Rose Einhorn
Bernard Levine
Harry Papier
Gussie Treiber*
Nellie Callet*
Adele Donin
Anna Gerber*
Blanche Zwillman
Louise S. Adell
Ruthie Lipshultz
Mady Rosenthal
Stephanie Schwait
Betty Gorelick*
Edward Jackson

*Memorial plaque will be lit this week.

In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are COalso welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CONDOLENCES TO

JOAN ELY
on the passing of her huband
GERRY ELY
Past President of the
JCC of LBI

"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."
Cake
Henry Gardner
May 7
Linda Peroff
May 7
Marty Telles
May 7
Jeffrey Bernstein
May 8
Ira Fox
May 10
Anne Hamburger
May 10
Sybil Kleinfeld
May 12
Carole Nunberg
May 13
 
 
Howard & Joanne Babbitt
May 10
52nd Anniversary

SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT: 

Caring
CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 


LOOKS WHO’S GRADUATING
 FROM RYDELL HIGH 

The Class of ‘59 will be Rydell High’s coolest class ever!
Here are the four fantastic triple-threats stars for the cast of 
GREASE
 ISAAC SILVER as Danny Zuko, RILEY MARTIN as Sandy Dumbrowski, GARRETT  FORRESTAL as Kenickie and SHARAE MOULTRIE as Rizzo.

AXELROD PERFORMING ARTS CENTER
100 Grant Ave., Deal Park, NJ 07723
June 3 - 19
GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2022 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

To pay on line
Click on PAY ON LINE
Fill in your information and then
go to Donation Details - then
Other and type in 2022 Membership

JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
WELCOME DIANE PARZYCH TO OUR JCC OF LBI STAFF

Diane will be in the office on Wednesdays and Fridays from 10 AM until 2 PM when we open up for summer hours on June 1. In the meantime she is learning all the the workings of our synagogue so that she will be able to help you with any questions and transactions.

JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
TUESDAY AND THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2
CONTINUE TO USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.


 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Kitchen Manager: Susan Berube


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst