Other Holiday Helpers
Some other great techniques to use during the holidays are the Baby Elephant technique and Brain Breaks. These both provide felt safety and connection and can make holiday gatherings easier for everyone (not easy - but easier, we know how hard this time of year is!)
Baby Elephant
This is a technique in which your child holds on to you and follows you around, much like a baby elephant holing on to its mother's tail. This helps to practice physical attachment and allows your child to stay close and feel safe in anxiety-provoking situations.
Use it for a couple of minutes, an hour or two, or all day! Be attuned to your child's needs and provide for them with this increased connection. Simply have your child hold on to your belt loop, belt, sweater, or other part of your clothing. They tag along as you go about your day and stay close to you. Be sure to use this with love and positivity!
It can be beneficial to let family and friends know that you are playing an attachment game to practice physical attachment. This can help them to better understand what you're doing and why you're doing it, and give you more support while implementing this technique.
Brain Breaks
It is easy for children (and adults!) to become over stimulated, feel high levels of anxiety, and low levels of felt safety at holiday gatherings. Taking 5 minutes every couple of hours allows you and your child to connect and move out of the overstimulating environment.
To be as beneficial as possible, complete the brain breaks in a quiet place without disruptions or other people around.
Try some of these brain breaks:
- Walk around the block
- 5 minutes of snuggle time
- Read a story together
- Do a 5 minute 6R activity
- Play a hand clap game together
- Give 2 minute hand or foot massages to each other
- Sing a song together (actions are great!)
- Dance around together to your favourite song
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