How did you become involved with mentoring through Hillsborough Education Foundation?
I was at a social function in Sun City Center (SCC) with some close friends when I first heard about Mentoring through HEF. Joanne, a TSIC mentor, and one of the most active people I know in SCC was also in attendance. Joanne is involved and seeks leadership roles in her HOA, Temple, or other service organizations. I asked her what she was involved in lately, and she said she was volunteering in the most rewarding project she had ever been a part of, Mentoring! She explained what it involved and why she loves doing it. I asked for the information and called the next day!
What has been the most rewarding part of mentoring?
I would have to say the feeling that I am helping a bright student with some answers, suggestions or personal experiences that I have had in my life, is the most rewarding part of mentoring. If I can help make his life more productive, keep him from the pitfalls ahead, and introduce him to the fun in education and the careers that can lie ahead for him, I feel rewarded and fulfilled.
What do you believe is the key to being a quality mentor?
I would definitely say ACTIVE LISTENING. Using the resources in the Mentoring Toolkit and other study guides allowed me to get to know my mentee from all different angles. I have become invested in what he is doing at school and where he wants to go with his education. He shared some issues that he was facing and asked for my thoughts on how he should approach them. More importantly, he talked about his dreams and the fears that lie ahead for him. I believe he thinks of me as an ally or confidant who is on his side.