Developmental Stages
Children with RAD tend to be developmentally delayed in areas of conscience development, logic and reasoning, and reciprocal behaviours due to the trauma and lack of relationship they experienced in early childhood. Many children seem to be stuck at the 18 - 24 month stage of emotional development.
"When children are unattached they lack an internalized object. Because of this, they do not mature but instead continue to be self-centered, impulsive, and “babyish.” Their concern is always “What’s in it for me?”"
Very much what we see in the toddler years of healthy development! Many parents will continue to see "terrible twos" behaviours, including tantrums, impulsivity, and lack of remorse for "selfish" behaviours.
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