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ADDRESS AT THE KYIV FIRST LADIES & GENTLEMEN SUMMIT ON MENTAL HEALTH

BY GORDON NEUFELD

I had the honour and privilege - and challenge - of presenting at the third annual First Ladies & Gentlemen Summit in Kyiv on September 6th. I had been invited to attend in person but was unable to be there so had to make my contribution online. The subject of the Summit was mental health - a timely subject even without the devastating impact of a prolonged war. My focus was children and youth. The concerns being expressed had to do with the current youth mental health crisis exacerbated by a war, and how to get the adolescents the expert help they needed.


The message I tried to deliver within the timeframe allowed, is that, despite the horrors of the current situation, caring adults actually have the resources they need to deal with what are very normal emotional responses to what is being faced – distressing threat to attachments at every turn. To enable us to bear the unbearable, Nature orchestrates a flight from feeling that can only be reversed when some safety is experienced. When true safety is not an option, Nature offers children (including youth) a wonderful illusion of safety when close to the adults they are attached to and when the play mode is activated. These 'bubbles' of safety in an unsafe world are Nature's way of taking care of us even when circumstances are dire. The implications are profound. With regards to the current situation, the keys to resilience are not in diagnoses or treatment but rather in a culture that supports family and emotional playgrounds. This has been the hidden story behind Ukraine's resilience in the past, and I believe it will be so again.


Editor's note: we are delighted to offer this 17-minute recording as a free resource via YouTube. VIEW THE FULL ADDRESS HERE >

Sept 28 - Feb 8

Intensive II: The Separation Complex


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Gordon on the Hypersensitivity course: I was grateful for the opportunity to develop this course on hypersensitivity, and to make contribution towards understanding a condition that is affecting an increasing number of children. In fact, there are probably very few caring adults who do not know of a child who is experiencing sensory overload problems. The first step to making a significant difference is of course to make sense of this condition and the dynamics surrounding it. I was so pleased with Jule Epp's assistance in creating this course and am delighted with her ongoing involvement in facilitating it. As a therapist specializing in autism, she brings an incredible wealth of experience and expertise to this subject, and so enriches the material immensely.


Jule on the Hypersensitivity course: In my work with children on the autistic spectrum, I encounter many people with a great desire to offer caring support for these children and great frustration concerning the standard fare of interventions that seem available. Many parents come to me assuming that rigorous training of social skills is the only way forward for their autistic child and the helping professionals have rarely learned to do anything else. They come to me, however, because this approach is just not working for them! When I present Dr. Neufeld’s model of Hypersensitivity in my consultations, workshops, or courses I am usually met with great excitement. 


“Now I understand my child!” 

“I had no idea there was an alternative to ABA (Applied Behaviour Analysis)!” 

“This just FEELS so much better!” 


I hear over and over – from parents and from hypersensitive individuals themselves – how the model matches real, daily-life experience. Over and over again, I see the sparkle return in the eyes of the children and their parents as they are able to connect and deepen their attachments – by compensating for difficulties, building more and more trust and, of course, harnessing the power of play. Life still remains challenging, but development is taking place. Nature’s ball is rolling. And this is a most beautiful thing for me to witness: the unfolding of a hypersensitive child’s potential. FIND OUT MORE ABOUT THE HYPERSENSIVITY COURSE >

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Wisdom of Dependence Webinar Series


While preparing his keynote for our annual conference this year, Dr. Neufeld had the realization of how absolutely core and pivotal one’s attitudes towards dependence are to interacting with our children and even our loved ones. Given the timely and critical importance of this subject, we decided to walk ALL of the material out this Fall in a series of four webinars which each include a short presentation by Dr. Neufeld, followed by a panel discussion where he is joined by a few of the Neufeld Institute faculty. We invite you to watch this short preview video and join us for the entire series.

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How to Build a Child-Friendly World


Featuring Tamara Neufeld Strijack (for the first time in beautiful Poland!), Neufeld Institute Poland and the Faculty of Pedagogy of the University of Warsaw invite teachers and parents to this conference to explore how can we ensure the well-being of students and teachers.

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This fall, Tamara Strijack and Gabor Maté will come together in Prague to explore parenting and childcare in the context of the wisdom of trauma and developmental science. As part of the two day conference, Gabor is offering a half day on Compassionate Inquiry and Tamara is offering a half day on Playful Therapy.



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More Conferences Featuring Dr. Neufeld

Dr. Neufeld is presenting at several Jack Hirose & Associates conferences this fall; attendance is available both in-person and by live stream. Find out more:


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