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Serving OA in Rhode Island & Southeastern Massachusetts 

DECEMBER 2017
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PHONE SUPPORT AVAILABLE ON 
MAJOR HOLIDAYS

MARATHON PHONE MEETINGS ARE HELD ON  ALL MAJOR HOLIDAYS  EVERY HOUR ON THE HOUR BEGINNING AT 8 A.M. AROUND REGULARLY SCHEDULED MEETINGS. EACH MARATHON HAS A TOPIC FOR THE DAY.

DIAL  712-432-5200
ENTER PIN  4285115#
 
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Meeting List
 
    Updated November 2017 

IMPORTANT!

GROUP CONTACT INFORMATION: Please check your group contact name and phone number on the local Ocean and Bay Meeting List. Send changes to 

Also, check your meeting listing and contact info on the Overeaters Anonymous website meeting list at  oa.org. The oa.org website listing is different than the local meeting list and must be updated by your meeting contact person.

 
* Please call ahead to verify meetings are taking place, especially during holidays. 
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Please note that every effort has been made to adhere to OA's policy for newsletter publications. 

Opinions and experiences expressed within are those of the individual writer and not OA as a whole. 

REMINDER: This is your newsletter, so please feel free to submit your writing contributions to: [email protected].

You are also invited to be one of the members who provides answers for a Q&A. Again, just send us a note to: [email protected].
Dear Fellow OA Member:

GIFTS

When you hear the word "gift," what comes to mind -- giving or receiving? What kind of gift do you think of -- something tangible that you can see, hold, touch? Or, is it something else, like the gift of a helping hand, a listening ear, or unconditional love? How about the gift of abstinence? Gift of recovery? Gift of a relationship with a higher power? And, then there is the gift that got most (or all) of us into the rooms -- gift of desperation! 

Well, here we are in December and so much attention is focused on giving gifts -- that perfect something. For those of us in Overeaters Anonymous, we have a wonderful opportunity to give something so special that money can't buy it. On Tuesday, December 12th OA World Service and its 6,500 meetings worldwide will officially recognize "Twelfth Step Within Day" -- carrying the message to those who still suffer within the rooms. Let's face it, not everyone attending meetings is joyfully abstinent or experiencing the peace that accompanies recovery from compulsive overeating. That includes newcomers, people who have been around for a long time, those who are slipping and sliding, and other members who are in the grips of relapse after a period of abstinence.

What gift can you give to that fellow member today? A phone call? A few minutes after a meeting to chat? Sharing your similar experience? A kind hello and how are you doing (really doing)? Hope? YOU are a gift -- to that person, to your meetings, and to OA as a whole. Give the gift of YOU today. 

My hand in yours, 
Leslie

PS: Check out the acronyms for G.I.F.T.(S.) in Treasure Chest.

Ocean & Bay Intergroup News
 
All OA members are welcome to attend Ocean & Bay Intergroup (OBI) meetings held the first Tuesday of the month at St. Patrick Church, 2068 Cranston Street, Cranston, RI. The next meeting is TUESDAY, DECEMBER 5th at 7:30 p.m., with literature sales at 7 p.m.  

PRIOR TO THE MEETING -- THE MINI WORKSHOP, "CARRYING THE MESSAGE to Those Who Still Suffer" will start at 6 p.m.  FLYER   Come get a special boost to your program. You are welcome to stay for the Intergroup meeting after the workshop. 

New Location: We are so very excited to announce that after a long search by multiple Intergroup reps, Ocean and Bay Integroup has a new meeting location! As of January 2, 2018, OBI will meet at Arnold Conference Center in the Regan Building, 111 Howard Avenue, Cranston. This location is easily accessed from Routes 95, 37 and 295. Howard Avenue runs between Pontiac and New London Avenues (link to ma). The space is handicap accessible and there is a place our literature cabinet! 

Mini Workshops in 2018: The 12 mini workshops sponsored by OBI and held prior to the monthly meetings in 2017 were a success. At the December Intergroup meeting, members will discuss where to go with the mini workshops in 2018. A couple ideas being considered include taking the workshops on the road and the possibility of different groups sponsoring them. If you have some ideas to share or want to offer support of the workshops continuing into the new year, please let your Intergroup rep know or come to the meeting yourself. 

ALL OA MEMBERS are WELCOME to any and all Intergroup meetings! 

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MINI WORKSHOP

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 5th
6 - 7 PM

CARRYING THE MESSAGE 
To Those Who Still Suffer


Sponsored by OCEAN & BAY INTERGROUP 
prior to the monthly Intergroup meeting
 
St. Patrick Catholic Church,  2068 Cranston St.,  
Cranston, RI 02920

A VISION 
FOR YOU

Live Telephone Meetings & Podcasts

From A Vision For You Website - www.avision4you.info

Welcome to A Vision For You Big Book Study of Overeaters Anonymous.

Here at A Vision for You, we study the first 164 pages of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. We meet twice daily [via telephone]  Monday through Friday starting at 7 a.m. ET  and then again at  10 a.m.  ET. 

There are also Special Edition meetings, covering various topics and personal stories of transformation made possible through the teaching and practice of the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous. Check our calendar to view upcoming Special Editions.

DIAL 712-432-5210
ENTER PIN 876148#






ANNOUNCING 2018 
REGION 6 CONVENTION!



SAVE THE DATE

OCTOBER 26-28, 2018

Holiday Inn By The Sea
Portland, Maine



Tuesday, December 12th

Twelfth Step Within Day

 

This day is recognized worldwide each year 

by Overeaters Anonymous to focus on 

carrying the message to 

OA members who are in relapse 

or still suffering from compulsive eating.

 

What can you do to help recognize the day?

 

TRADITION 12

Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all these Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.


MEN'S MEETING


Live from Nassau County, New York
Accessible via phone

Mondays @ 7 p.m. 

 

DIAL: 515-604-9041

 

Enter PIN: 446799#

 


BREAKING OUT OF RELAPSE
VIDEO


Perhaps this video will help you or you can 
share  it with someone who still suffers on 
"12th Step Within Day." 


"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to compulsive overeaters and to practice these principles in all our affairs." 

The principle of Step Twelve is Service. The Step Twelve workshop speakers share their individual stories of recovery and how giving service in all its forms has enriched their lives. 



Treasure Chest
Little gems and pearls of wisdom from meetings  and literature. 

G.I.F.T.S.

G od  I F ore ver  T here
G race  I F uture  T ransformations
G etting  I F rom  T he  S teps 

Q&A

Q: How can I navigate the holidays and stay abstinent? 

A: Check out this  list of tips submitted by an OA member who adapted the list from a 12-step friend.

12 TIPS FOR ABSTINENT HOLIDAYS

Is this time of year the "Bermuda triangle" of recovery?  The theory is that Halloween-Thanksgiving-Christmas (or Chanukah) can be rough sailing for recovery - you might come out abstinent, but not everyone does.  But everyone CAN emerge from the holidays with their recovery intact, by living one day at a time and working the tools and steps of our program.

Here are twelve tips that have helped me and many others survive and thrive in this time of year that seems to have more focus on food than other months:

1. Line up extra OA activities (meetings, phone calls, service, intergroup).
2. Entertain OA friends, especially newcomers, at home or at a coffee shop.
3. Keep your OA telephone list with you at all times.
4. Find out about holiday meetings or celebrations in local groups.
5. Skip any parties/eating occasions you're nervous about.
6. If there's one you can't skip, take an OA friend - or keep literature and a gratitude list handy - or text someone before and after the event.
7. Don't think you have to stay late (plan an "important date" in advance).
8. Go to special places that are meaningful to you... church, a park, the shore.  And don't forget about extra meetings!
9. Don't sit around worrying or brooding; catch up on reading, OA tools, museums, walks, letters.
10. Don't project about holiday temptations; remember "One day at a time."
11. Even if you cannot give material gifts, you can share the gift of your recovery and enjoy the beauty of the holidays.
12. Carry the message.  Give joy away, and it will be yours to keep.
Ocean & Bay Intergroup 
P.O. Box 41273, Providence RI, 02940
Tel: 401-438-1301 | Email:   [email protected]