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Food Is Love


In July my husband and I traveled to northern Vermont with three of our sons to attend my father’s family reunion. This was the 50th consecutive year that the reunion has taken place, most years at the farmhouse where my dad and his siblings grew up. We’re a big crowd! Dad is the eldest of 13 sisters and brothers, 11 of whom are still alive. There are over 40 cousins in my generation, and over 50 in my kids’ generation—so far. Not everyone can attend the reunion each year, but over 100 of us gathered in 2023, and it’s always a highlight of my summer.


A centerpiece of the day is the talent show, which lets kids show off skills honed in music lessons, art classes, gymnastics practice, and so on, while adults often get in on the fun, too. In addition to leading a singalong, my father likes to make remarks about family history, and this year he spoke about the heritage trip he and I took to France in April. First, he gave out postcards from a church we visited in Tourouvre, Perche, where the first ancestor of our family’s surname to emigrate to French Canada was baptized in 1632.

“Grandma Lambert and Her Donuts” screen prints by Sean Paul Lambert, 2023

Then with a nod to more recent family history, Dad presented prints of a portrait my brother made of our grandmother (Dad’s mom). Based on a 1980s photograph that my cousin took of Grandma, she sits smiling at the kitchen table with a bowl of her famous doughnuts before her.


After Dad shared the prints, his sister passed around a big bowl of doughnuts she’d made from their mother’s recipe. There’s a powerful sentimental streak in the family, and so it’s safe to say that many of us got a little misty during this tasty tribute, which allowed us to feel my grandmother’s presence that day, though she died nearly 40 years ago.


“Food is love,” the old saying goes, and no reunion would be complete without Grandma Lambert’s doughnuts, not to mention Uncle Claude at the grill, Uncle Hank’s baked beans, Aunt Rita’s bread, and countless salads and pies. Look below for a chance to share some of your favorite family dishes, and then consider compiling them into a book like the one a recent client created, also featured in this newsletter.

With thanks for your support,

Megan St. Marie

President

Christopher Kimball and Cheryl Day, co-hosts of the Roku network program “My Family Recipe”

Must See Family History TV:

Milk Street’s My Family Recipe


We were very excited to hear about “My Family Recipe,” a television show on the Roku channel that combines family history and cooking. Think of it as “Finding Your Roots” meets “America’s Test Kitchen.” In fact, Christopher Kimball, one of the founders of “America’s Test Kitchen,” is a co-host of the program with baker and author Cheryl Day. Have a peek for yourself to see people rediscovering and sharing their treasured family recipes. You just might be inspired to cook a new dish discovered on the show, or to pull out some of your favorite recipes handed down through generations in your family.


We are just about to publish a client’s cookbook/memoir (pictured below), which includes vivid anecdotes to go along with the family recipes. It’s been a terrifically fun project to work on, and we hope others will bring us similar projects soon.


Do you have an overflowing recipe box on your kitchen counter? How might recipes serve as writing prompts? Are you ready to cook up a delicious book for your family to savor for years to come? Contact Modern Memoirs today!

Cover design by Book Designer Nicole Miller for a 2023 Modern Memoirs family-recipe book/memoir currently at the printer

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Mrs. Sonia Erlich, holding box grater

while telling recipe for cabbage soup (c. 2015)


In Her Kitchen, in Her Voice

by Director of Publishing Ali de Groot

“That sounds just like my grandmother!” is the best compliment we, as Modern Memoirs “sensitive editors,” can receive. We tell people that our books strive to preserve the voice of the speaker, or writer, but it’s hard to describe what this means—it’s so personal. One example:


Our beloved, late client Sonia Erlich dictated her stories, memories, and even recipes to interviewer Kitty Axelson-Berry, former president and founder of Modern Memoirs. (This is what we call a Commissioned Memoir, or As-Told-To Memoir.) Interviews took place at Sonia’s home, usually in the kitchen, over numerous sittings. The verbatim transcripts of these in-person interviews were used to create the manuscript. If the children or grandchildren read her book, hopefully they will hear their grandmother’s voice. Read for yourself as she narrates how to make Cabbage Soup:


Listen to me, darling, you don’t have to use marrow bones or short ribs or flanken to make this. You don’t have to use beef bones. If you don’t have those, you can use two wings from the turkey, you can use a turkey drumstick, turkey necks. Clean them up. When the water boils, put in the turkey. Sometimes you have two turkey necks, anything. It doesn’t have to be the bones. You want bones, buy bones! When the water boils, put this in. Take off all the “dirt” that comes up to the top.


Have ready in your bowl the cabbage (grated), and onion (grated the same way as the cabbage), a carrot, and an apple (Macintosh apple or Granny Smith, it doesn’t matter). Take a little salt, a little bit of sugar, stir it in together, and add it. Add an onion. Let this boil until you can see the turkey’s ready. The meat should come off the bones.


Take a can of tomato sauce, not a small 8-oz. but a 28-oz. size. If you don’t have the larger can, you can do it with three smaller ones. Add two or three big spoons of ketchup. Cook it for about two hours.


While this boils together, take about 6 or 8 prunes, cut them in half. Take in your hand some raisins and put them aside. Taste it—if you don’t taste it, you don’t see it.


Well, yes, maybe you need a little lemon, but I don’t think so.

This is unbelievable. This is cabbage soup.


Cabbage Soup

beef (marrow, short ribs, or flanken) or turkey (wings, drumsticks, or necks)

a cabbage, grated

an onion, grated

a few carrots

an apple

salt

sugar

an onion, whole

28-oz. can of tomato sauce

6–8 prunes, cut in half

raisins

optional: lemon juice

Front cover of Erlich's commissioned memoir, publ. 2016

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Memory Lane Stroll

We’d love to hear your brief personal reflections on the question of the month (below). Write your response for a chance to be featured in the next edition of our e-newsletter!


July Question: Name a favorite family recipe that keeps you connected to your heritage.



Write Your Response Here

Staff responses



Megan St. Marie: My grandmother’s tourtière (French-Canadian meat pie), which I make at Christmastime every year.


Sean St. Marie: My mom’s split-pea soup, made with a ham bone, and thick enough to let a spoon stand straight up in the bowl.


Ali de Groot: Pull taffy, made by my grandmother “Big Mama.” The boiling hot blob of candy was poured out on a marble end-table to cool before pulling vigorously into strips by us children, our slippery hands greased with butter.


Liz Sonnenberg: Mom’s Toll House cookies


Nicole Miller: “Gram’s Buns,” fig and orange pudding with hard sauce, and French onion soup.


Emma Solis: Along with tortilla española, tarta de Santiago.


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