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Don’t Wait, Don’t Delay, Don’t Regret


In 2019 I wrote my then-82-year-old father a Christmas card telling him I planned to bring him on a heritage trip to France in 2020. He was overjoyed, as he’d never before visited our Franco American family’s ancestral home. Then, the pandemic struck, and our plans were dashed.

 

Fast forward to 2022, when my son Stevie asked if he could go on a high-school trip to France. I tried to play it cool when he said it would be “great” if I joined as a chaperone, but I’m pretty sure I failed to hide my excitement. Once it was settled that I would go on this trip with my son in summer 2023, I asked my dad if he would join us. “I wouldn’t be able to keep up with all those young kids,” he said, and my heart broke a little when he added, “Send lots of pictures. I’ll see la belle France through you.”

 

That night I said to my husband, “Sean, I will regret it for the rest of my life if I don’t bring Dad to France.”

 

“Then you have to do it!” he said.

 

And so, I did. Dad and I went on our own trip to France in April and had the time of our lives! Because most of our ancestors hailed from Île -de France, Perche, and Normandie, we stayed in those northerly regions. (Click to see our presentation hosted by the Franco American Centre at the University of Maine–Orono: “Dans Les Pas de Nos Ancêtres: A Father-Daughter Heritage Trip to France.”) When Stevie and I go to France in July, we will start in the Riviera and move north to Paris, with stops along the way. I’ll take lots of photos to share with my dad, and to paraphrase French chanteuse Édith Piaf, “Je ne regrettera rien” (I will regret nothing).

 

I know how fortunate I am to have these experiences with my father and my son; but planning, financing, and going on two big trips within the space of four months has definitely posed challenges. Sean’s support and the excellence of my team at Modern Memoirs alleviate the stress of being away from home and office because I know everything will move along just fine without me. The “everything” moving along at the office includes work on 15 current client projects and an equal number of potential projects in the wings. When Director of Publishing Ali de Groot speaks with those potential clients, she often says something along the lines of:


Don’t wait! If you are motivated enough to reach out to us, the time is now to start your book project."


And, we don't recommend waiting for a family member or the individual to conduct/record the interviews themselves—those projects drag on for years, decades, or simply never get done. For those considering Commissioned Memoirs, Ali sometimes says:


“Don't delay! Start with interviews and transcription to preserve your story (or your mother’s, or your father’s...). Then decide whether to pursue full book publication.”

 

Ali offers good advice for avoiding regrets, especially for writers in their later years. She also assures them:


“We will collaborate on your project in an efficient, enjoyable, and professional manner so that your books are in your hands as soon as possible.”


We take seriously our commitment to help writers achieve their goals of publishing the books they envision in a timely manner. Typically, these are books that preserve stories about their lives and their families, leaving them and their descendants without regrets about memories and information lost to the passage of time. I hope you’ll reach out today if you have a story waiting to be told. Don’t wait!



Megan St. Marie

President

Bestselling memoir Honey, Baby, Mine: A Mother and Daughter Talk Life, Death, Love (and Banana Pudding) co-written by mother and daughter Diane Ladd and Laura Dern (Grand Central Publishing 2023)

At a recent staff meeting, Megan St. Marie told us she heard Terry Gross interview actor Laura Dern on NPR’s “Fresh Air.” They discussed the book pictured above, which Dern co-authored with her mother, Diane Ladd, based on conversations the two recorded while taking 15-minute walks together after Ladd’s lung cancer diagnosis. In Dern’s words: “My mom says, ‘We both thought I was dying, so we spilled the beans.’”


We think this book will be quite moving and inspiring for friends of Modern Memoirs, and so we are including it on the “Newsletter Notables book list at our affiliate link with *Bookshop.org.


Click on the button below to visit our Bookshop.org affiliate page, where you will find excellent trade titles recommended by our very own staff.


Emma Solis

Publishing Associate


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*Bookshop.org is an online trade book retailer. Like Amazon, Bookshop.org allows you to search for and buy books online to deliver to your door; unlike Amazon, your purchases directly support independent bookstores. As an affiliate, Memory Lane Books & Gifts (the new retail arm of Modern Memoirs, Inc.) is also supported anytime you use our link to purchase books (whether they are on one of our lists, or not).


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Summer Reading Recommendations


Looking for some good summer reads? Visit our online shop Memory Lane Books & Gifts to purchase books by clients and staff. You can also click on the bulleted items below to buy trade titles from our carefully curated lists at Bookshop.org. Lists include:



Other lists are comprised of titles recommended by Modern Memoirs founder, Kitty Axelson-Berry:


Featured Blog Posts by Our Staff

Icing on the Cake:

Covers, Embossings, and Stamps

By Director of Publishing Ali de Groot

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Heartache and Healing Words: How Reading Taught Me to Grieve

By Publishing Associate Emma Solis

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The Memoirs of Frank A. McBride (publ. 2017)

Production and Commentary by Timothy B. McBride

From Horses in Ireland to Trucking in New Jersey

Director of Publishing Ali de Groot highlights a title from the Modern Memoirs Archive

The humble dustjacket above frames a compilation of stories and photographs that tell the family history of Frank A. McBride, who started a hauling business in Paterson, New Jersey in 1898. In his eighties, McBride dictated his memories on a Dictabelt (1950s recording device), an account that was later transcribed and, much later, compiled for this book by his grandson Timothy. Below are excerpts of the elder’s account, describing boyhood memories of working in his father’s horse-and-coach business until the founding of his own business, which over the next century grew from plumbing to mechanical contracting, construction, and real estate ventures.

“Having been a drover in Ireland, dealing in horses and cattle, it was but natural that he [my father] got into the horse-owning business in Paterson, with 30 or more horses and a hauling business. He added a third story to his brick building…in which he boarded 18 wagon drivers for $4.50 a week each, including their laundry. Most of these drivers were newly arrived Irishmen who had no other home.


“Our drivers were paid $1.50 a day and worked from 5 in the morning to 6 at night…eating three meals a day plus a hearty bedtime snack. Naturally, we needed a large food supply on hand all the time, so my father bought eggs by the barrel, packed in sawdust; hams by the dozen; and tea in lead-lined crates—which we also sold to neighbors. Generally we [my friends and I] used to throw eggs down at passersby from the top of our 3-story building, trusting to luck that we would hit someone. Occasionally we would have an egg-eating contest, some of the boys eating as many as 15.


“We furnished coaches for several undertakers in Paterson, and very often I drove a coach when one of the drivers was ill. On one occasion, when I was driving, the horses acted normally until I got to River Road, on the way to the cemetery. At that point, one of the horses got the blind staggers and broke into a mad run. The riders were frantic, but I was unable to do anything except attempt to hold him back, which I finally did at the High Bridge, a mile beyond the cemetery. I finally got the passengers home, never having gone to the cemetery. Fortunately they were my father's friends and never complained to him.


“A great deal has been written to support the theory that our winters are growing warmer and warmer, a theory with which I'll certainly go along. I'm quite sure there was more snow on the ground when I was a boy. What better evidence than the Blizzard of 1888?


“We had at least two sleigh-ride parties a week. The sleighs were about two feet off the ground and 15 feet long, holding approximately 20 people when tightly packed. On one occasion when the driver had had a little too much to drink, we put him in the bottom of the sleigh and I drove the four-horse hitch home. The temperature was a frigid 17 degrees below zero as we left Ridgewood, and the long hairs of the horses were coated with icicles.”

Interior pages (custom endsheets) depicting the McBride company logo and colors

as seen on their trucks in the late 1900s

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June Question: What is the most common profession in your family?



Write Your Response Here


Staff responses


Megan St. Marie: Before my parents' generation, I have decidedly blue-collar roots: hardworking farmers, factory workers, hairdressers, and housewives


Sean St. Marie: Megan and I have very similar backgrounds, and I’d add military service to her list when thinking of my own family.


Ali de Groot: Engineers and musicians



Liz Sonnenberg: A mix of bankers, engineers, veterinarians, and contractors in more recent years; farmers and housewives in earlier years


Nicole Miller: Military, accountants, mechanics, artists, nurses, and psychologists


Emma Solis: Teachers in earlier years and doctors and nurses in more recent years

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We’d love to hear your brief personal reflections on the question of the month (at left). Write your response for a chance to be featured in the next edition of our e-newsletter!


Responses to our May question: If you could step back in time and take part in an activity with an ancestor, who would the ancestor be, and what would you do?


“We have a family mystery I’d like to solve. My mother’s great-grandmother, an Irish immigrant to the US in the 1870s, eventually went back to Ireland, where she subsequently drowned. I want to be with her when she decided to go back, to see why she did it. I wrote a novel based on my fictionalized version of her decision. I hope to publish it one day, maybe with you!”

—Beth Anish


“I’d love to sit in the audience during an evening’s performance at my great-grandfather Arthur Jack’s vaudeville theater, the Majestic in Lexington, Kentucky, in 1908, watch the live performances, see some of the early movies that he showed there, and meet this most fascinating of my ancestors.”

—David Dearinger


“I would want to sit in the kitchen at the family farm in northwest Ohio with my great-great-grandmother Catherine (Kiene) Basinger (1851–1946) and ask her about her memories of the Civil War era. I once asked her grandson (my grandfather John Richard Basinger [1922–2009]) if his grandma had told him anything about living during the Civil War. He couldn’t remember. I’ve always wondered what her experiences were.”

—Rebekah Slonim


“I’d invite my great-great-grandmother Henriette for lunch. Just the two of us. As it is, her portrait hangs above our dining table. We talk daily! I NEVER live up to her expectations. I’d like to explain why this is really hard in today’s world!”

—Hilde Adler



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