Kids who are melting down over the holidays don't mean:
• I'm trying to ruin your fun
• I'm trying to embarrass you
• You are a terrible parent
• I am an imperfect child
• I need you to meet my demands
• I need to learn a lesson
• I'm defiant and refuse to listen
• I hate you
Kids who are melting down over the holidays may mean:
• I'm overstimulated and need a break
• There's a lot of new people, and I'm overwhelmed
• I need your attention
• My brain is flooded with emotion; I can't think logically
• Please help me find a peaceful spot to hang out
• I feel safe to have these feelings with you
• This has been a big day for me
• I'm hungry, tired, or bored
• I need you to be my calm right now
• This is all new for me
• I love you and feel safe with you