Dear Friends,
With the holiday season just around the corner, many of us are anticipating travel, time spent with family, and a lot of good food. That said, the holidays can be a stressful time - especially if you're a divorced parent. Co-parenting is rarely easy, but there are a few tips and tricks to help you reduce stress and conflict at this time of year.
First, maintain open communication with your co-parent. Ensuring that you're both on the same page and have reasonable expectations reduces the likelihood of conflict.
Second, make new traditions. If you're recently divorced, your holidays won't be the same as they were in years past. That's okay. Take this opportunity to come up with new activities, tailored just for you and your kids. This could be the year that you start a new and beloved family tradition.
Finally, remember that your kids come first. Dealing with a non-cooperative co-parent can be frustrating, but do your best to be flexible and understanding. Keep in mind that you want this time of year to be special for your children. Their experience is the most important thing.
Stay well,
Bill Gentry
Gentry Law Firm LLC