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New Center Operating Hours!



Sunday/Monday: Closed.

Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm.

Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm.

Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala!

This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center.

Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly.

​Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd

Fun Run at 7:00 p.m.  5K at 7:30 p.m.

Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th

Gates Open at Noon

Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th

12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m.

Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic.

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🤎

Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride)

Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability."

Tuesday, April 11th | 4:00p - 6:00p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm.

Tuesday, April 11th |5:30p - 7p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first come first serve basis". Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. 

Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security.  Legal Aid does not cover criminal,  personal injury, or worker's comp.  She has some knowledge about those fields of law.  

If the question is beyond her knowledge, then she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in.  Email is julie.goree@laok.org .  Office phone is (918)295-9429.

Wednesday, April 12th | 12p - 6p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org.

These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons.

Wednesday, April 12th | 5:30p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource.

Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer.

Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride!

Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨

Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards

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Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members!

An individual ticket is $25.

An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35.

A table of 8 with an open bar is $300.

Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food.

Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm.

Saturday, April 15th | 7:30p

Lynn Riggs Theater

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Tulsa Opera’s Filstrup Resident Artists are taking over the Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for ONE NIGHT ONLY!

Join us downtown on Saturday, April 15th, to hear Tulsa’s premiere local talents sing spectacular arias, musical theatre hits, and popular tunes like never before!

Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

A community-sharing event!

Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!

Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.



Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/

Sunday, April 16th | 12p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Join us on April 16th at 12pm for a party celebrating Non-binary parents!

All who identify as any gender variant identity that falls under the Non-Binary umbrella are welcome to bring their kids to this family-friendly event. Genderqueer, agender, Two Spirit, gendefluid, demiboy, demigirl, or Intersex? You're welcome here! Binary Trans parents and gender-nonconforming cis parents are totally welcome, too.

Won't have your children that day? You're still welcome to join us! There will be a light lunch, crafts, coloring, family pictures, and more in the Wellness room upstairs in the Equality Center.

Be sure to stay for the Really, Really Free Market in the Event center, too!

Questions? Email tulsaintersectionalcarenetwork@gmail.com or text Fern at 918-808-8076

Thursday, April 27th | 6p

Dogtopia

8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137

Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia

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At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever!

https://www.dogtopia.com/south-tulsa

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The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community.

EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center.

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If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information

Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p

Lynn Riggs Theater

621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120

Together Again for the First Time!

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After performing together for years at various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs.

Tickets:

36 Bistro at $20

60 GA at $15

Friday, April 28th | 7p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games!

Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno.

Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast!

The Month of April | Open during center hours

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery.

Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April.

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“I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen..

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Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided.

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For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art-gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery.

Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p

Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120

Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America!

Showtime 8p

General Admission $25

Reserved Seating $30

Stan Simpson

Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022

Carol Smith

Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022

Paul Wayne Gossett

Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022

Joseph Edward Johnson

1947 - 2022

Matt Brooks

Born Day - 2022

Daniel Davis Aston

Born Day - 2022

Bob Hendricks

Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022

Community Leader

Jonathan Stanley

Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022

OKEQ Seniors Member

Steve Walley

March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022

Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock.

Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month.

Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network

Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome!

The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. 

Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm

For more information email Daniel

A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction.

Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm

For more information email Steven or call

918.592.0088

IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/indigenous persons.

IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement.

Every First Tuesday of the month.

For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris

Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores.

Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. 

Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 

The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals.

Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach

A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting.

Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm.

For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297.

OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years.

OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center.

Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information.

The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities.

Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center.

We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center

For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640

Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm.

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Email Thomas for more information.

Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know!

CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up).

BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. 

Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. 

Happy holidays,

Michelle Simmons

Library Director

IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡️ The Rainbow Library

Here's how you can request a library card:

Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. 

You can also email the librarian.

Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. 

There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library.

Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly!

Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library!

The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo).

The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ -welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by:

1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community;
2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and
3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life.

The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. 

All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. 

The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 

Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center.

(Free Testing)

Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org.

These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons.

Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues.

Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law.  

She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. 

Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today.

OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services

The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ.

Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 

Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. 

Executive Committee

Bob Hanson, PharmD - President

Julie Chase - Treasurer

Eric Wilson - Secretary

Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large



Board of Directors

Dani Byrd

Angelyn L. Dale, Esq.

Elizabeth Ortiz

Crista Patrick

Justin Ross

Paula Shannon

Matthew Stroud

Ovidio Trejo

Monique Washington

Trustees

Shawna Baker, Esq.

Dan Burnstein

Kirk Holt

Cynthia Phillips

Kris Wilmes - Chair

Board of Advisors

Claire Combs

Heather Hornig

Caleb Jackson

Michael James

Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq.

Denise Reid

Jane Wiseman