That is a stark symbol of an important truth: although home is supposed to be the ultimate shelter, for some of us, it is not.
Sadly, during the past year, there has been a striking uptick in domestic violence. Among the culprits, according to JWI (Jewish Women’s International), are several factors, including “unemployment, financial hardship, and physical and mental trauma due to the pandemic.”
Jewish homes have not been spared. In Israel, for example, during this past spring, the domestic violence hotline experienced four times the usual number of calls.
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. While domestic abuse in Jewish families is no longer stigmatized as substantially as it was a decade or two ago, it is often still a source of shame, and many victims continue to feel pressured to remain in an abusive relationship. A study of the London Jewish community shows that Jewish women unfortunately wait about two years longer than the national average before reaching out for help.
Fortunately, here in the Boston area we have the benefit of JF&CS’s Journey to Safety. Journey to Safety provides confidential counseling and support, and can also make referrals for legal counsel and other services. Please, in the event that you are concerned that you may be living in an abusive environment, do not hesitate to contact Journey to Safety. Click here for their website. Please also feel free to contact me, Cantor Gloth, or Rabbi Leslie Gordon.
Let's all do our part to sustain supportive and safe shelter for all.
