The Definition of "Father"

Not every child is blessed with a good earthly father.

For Peyton, a father is a powerful man governed by intense business travel. Though he provides plenty of nice things, Peyton’s father is hard-pressed to ever spend time with his children. She yearns for an uninterrupted hour of his time. 

For Taylor, a father is an unstable man whose emotions vary based on his blood alcohol level. The number of bruises Taylor receives each week correlate to the number of bar stops he makes. She yearns for stability and protection. 

For Blake, a father is an emotionally distant man with unattainable standards. Though his father is steady and present, Blake truly believes an Olympic gold medal is more attainable than ever hearing the words “I love you” or “I’m so proud of you.” He yearns for love and affirmation.

Mercifully, we have a Savior who introduces us to a perfect Father. Jesus invites us to call out to “Our Father in heaven” anytime and anywhere. But who, exactly, is this Father? What is He like?

Our Father is the Creator of all things seen and unseen (1 Cor. 8:6). Our Father is a protector of the most vulnerable (Ps. 68:5). Our Father shapes and defines us (Isa. 64:8). Our Father is compassionate (Ps. 103:13). Our Father is a giver of good and perfect gifts, and He will never change (James 1:17). Our Father is merciful (1 Peter 1:3). Our Father loves us and gives us life (John 3:16). Our Father sees our hurts and provides comfort (2 Cor. 1:3-4). Our Father disciplines those He delights in (Prov. 3:11-12). Our Father is the perfect provider (Matt. 6:26).

No matter how good and loving our earthly fathers are, they will disappoint us. Our earthly fathers will sometimes hurt us. Our earthly fathers are damaged—just like we are—by a sinful nature. They will make mistakes.

But praise God that He reaches through all the messiness and draws us close to His heart! Our Father loves us completely, perfectly, unconditionally, and self-sacrificially. Our Father is in heaven, and holy is His name.

I am praying for you,

Heather Molendyk