A collaboration of The Center for Spirituality & Practice
and the Fetzer Institute

September 14, 2020
CONVERSATION INVITATION
Dear Colleagues,

Given the stresses of prolonged COVID isolation, heightened demands for racial justice, and deeper political divides, the need for effective communication among our family members and friends and within our larger communities continues to grow. To help meet this need, our Practicing Democracy team has invited mediator and trainer Susan Carpenter to lead a Zoom retreat -- Speaking Across Divides -- on Saturday, September 26, for anyone who wants to become a better communicator -- especially with those of differing opinions and experiences.

Susan has spent the past 45 years bringing people together to address and resolve highly controversial issues at the local, state, and national level and has trained public, private, and nonprofit groups domestically and beyond. She currently works with diverse stakeholder groups to address complex public issues and to build capacity for collaborative leadership.

Spiritual texts and teachers tell us to love ourselves, to love our neighbors, and even to love our enemies. Having productive and open-hearted conversations is one way we do that. And in the months leading up to the U.S. election, this kind of engagement is a critically important spiritual practice. We hope you will join Susan and our S&P community for this important retreat.

You can read more and sign up here:

Please read on to learn about other resources to help you practice democracy by speaking across divides.

Salaam, Shalom, Shanti, Peace,

The Practicing Democracy Project Team
By Frederic and Mary Ann Brussat

When we launched the Practicing Democracy Project, we did a survey to see what people were most concerned about. The top answer was "polarization." What accounts for the vast divisions in the country at large and often in our families? One driver is the "politics of humiliation." Whole groups of the population feel they are being humiliated by the powers that be or want to be. To counter this trend, we propose the politics of reverence, including the practices of deep listening, radical respect, courtesy, and civility.
Books on Practicing Democracy

These recent books are good conversation starters and contain practical tips for speaking across divides:

Brave Talk by Melody Stanford Martin
The Politics Industry by Katherine M. Gehl and Michael E. Porter
Why We're Polarized by Ezra Klein
Practicing Democracy Conversation Cards

S&P has been working with our partners at the Fetzer Institute on a set of 52 cards that can be used for conversations about democracy. They will be perfect for use with family and friends and in small groups. Each has a quote on one side and suggestions for things "to discuss or journal about" and "to do" on the other side. The themes are democracy, equality, freedom, and the common good. We expect decks of the printed cards to be available in October. If you would like to receive a free printed deck, please send your name and mailing address to:

Supplies will be limited, so we also hope to have a downloadable version available on the website.
Discover more at PracticingDemocracy.net