I live in a very close-knit neighborhood. Most of my neighbors have known each other for years if not generations. As I walk about I notice the “Blue Lives Matter” signs and Republican political signs. And I notice my neighbors talking to one another, playing with their kids, walking their dogs, helping each other with errands and groceries. I am pretty sure our political views are different but that’s not where we start the conversation. I let go of whatever expectations I might have about them, and accept the fact that we are different. And yes, occasionally I get into a conversation that I don’t agree with, but I stay in relationship and that is the antidote to my worst expectations of others.
The Buddha said that expectations can lead to suffering. This Sunday I will explore that teaching and offer other ideas about how we can let go of our worst assumptions, and rise up to our better natures. Our humanity is our best opportunity to become deeper and more caring people.
We are so fortunate to have Diane Hessan with us this Sunday to speak after the service. I really hope you will stay. Ms Hessan is an accomplished entrepreneur, columnist for The Boston Globe and author of the book Our Common Ground. As she will explain we are more alike than different. Really and truly we are.
Yours Always,
Rev. John
