A Wish for Peace
Dwight Wilson, Executive Director
The last few months of the year bring a succession of holidays that can evoke complicated emotions, from joy to sorrow.
For those we love and cherish, we can offer a gift that often brings a sense of connection and peace during this time. It begins with an engaged conversation with your loved ones about your wishes and hopes for how you would like to be treated in your last months. It helps those close to you make the right decisions.
As I watch the care we give to those who come to us, the individuals who shared their wishes helped them live their final time in a peaceful and serene way, and helped provide relief from anxiety for their loved ones.
Often this conversation doesn’t begin because people might be fearful. It doesn’t matter what you say; it is more important to open the dialog.
Here’s how it started in my family. Years ago, after I had a significant bike accident, one of my adult children asked what treatment I would want if I were tragically hurt. This question began a discussion with my spouse and our closest family members. The result was a clear understanding of my desires, and a document that empowers my family to make these decisions. It was freeing and enabling for all of us to speak openly about our thoughts on care and end-of-life options.
Try starting with “I’d like to share my hopes and dreams for my last months.” You don’t need a goal, it’s an evolution of many conversations. As we age and go through health issues, our sense of what we would like evolves.
During this holiday season, all of us at Celia's House wish you peace. You have our gratefulness for your generous support of Southern Oregon Friends of Hospice, and for your confidence in our mission. Remember we’re here to support you, please reach out: 650-743-7997.
