WINDOWS WEEKLY May 27, 2021
Greetings Friends,

Welcome to Windows Weekly, Albany UU's central source for news and updates. Please stay safe and stay connected to your Albany UU Community during this uncertain time in the many ways provided online - all described below.

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-Blessings and Be Well
VIRTUAL SUNDAY SERVICE
LIVE on ZOOM

Service at 10:00 AM

Begin your Sunday morning with Rev. Sam guiding an 8:30 Virtual Meditation session until 9:15. We then have Virtual Service beginning at 10:00 each Sunday and a chance to stay online for virtual "Coffee Hour and Fellowship"

May 30, “Flower Communion,” Leah Purcell and Elizabeth Baldes
Join us for our annual Multigenerational Flower Ceremony service at 10:00. Bring a real flower with you when you join the service. We’ll hear the story of the first UU flower ceremony and explore its meaning for us today. The children will have a way for us to virtually share the flowers we have gathered.

Music provided by Elena Karpoff, Randy Rosette, Chris Jensen


Those wishing to access closed captioning/live transcript can turn on the function in their Zoom toolbar. To update to the latest version of Zoom, please do that within the software by finding the menu link and “check for updates”.

Use this link to join Sunday service:

To dial in by phone: 1-929-436-2866:
Meeting ID: 299 018 7785
Password: 0000
JUNE SUNDAY SERVICE INFORMATION

YOU'RE INVITED! REMEMBER TO RSVP!

We're busy getting ready for Leah's Retirement Party!
Yes, PARTY!
See details below.
RSVP with the number in your family attending to reserve your spot.
Make checks out to Albany UU with Leah's Retirement on the memo line!
UPCOMING WAYS to CONNECT

Board of Trustees Meeting
Tonight, Thursday, May 27, 6:30 PM the Board of Trustees holds their monthly meeting. Board meetings are open to all Albany UU members. The UPDATED Agenda is here.

Use the service link to join:

To dial in by phone: 1-929-436-2866:
Meeting ID: 299 018 7785
Password: 0000


Start your Sunday Morning with Meditation 8:30 - 9:15 AM
Sunday morning meditation, led by Rev. Sam, begins with a ten-minute talk by Sharon Salzberg or Joseph Goldstein from their course on Insight Meditation. We will sit together for twenty minutes then have some conversation about the talk, meditation methods or experiences followed by a live loving kindness meditation. 

Use this link to join:

By phone: 1-929-436-2866
Meeting ID: 299 018 7785
Password: 0000



Philosophy Group
At 10:15 AM every Tuesday, the Albany UU Philosophy Group will meet via zoom to discuss the topic of the day. All are welcome.

Use this link to join:

By phone: 1-929-436-2866 
Meeting ID: 987 7102 4708
Password: 0000

Ps and Qs
Projects and Quilts (Ps and Qs) will zoom next on Wednesday, June 2 at 10:00 AM.

Use this link to join:

By phone: 929-436-2866
Meeting ID: 299 018 7785
Password: 0000


Ministries and Operations Team 
The MOT will meet on Wednesday, June 2 at 12N. MOT meetings are open to all Albany UU members.

Use the service link to join:

To dial in by phone: 1-929-436-2866:
Meeting ID: 299 018 7785
Password: 0000


Albany UU Sings
Join your friends and sing your heart out in Virtual Community! We will supply the music and the lyrics.
Last opportunity of the service will be Wednesday, June 9, 7:00 PM.
Hope to see you there.

Use this link to join:

By phone: 1-929-436-2866
Meeting ID: 979 5961 1765
Passcode: 0000


Walker Book Group
Join the Walker Book Group for a Zoom discussion on Sunday, June 13 at 6:30 pm. Join at 6:15 for additional time to socialize. We will discuss Viet Thanh Nguyen’s The Refugees. Learn more here.

Use this link to join:
 
By phone: 929-436-2866
Meeting ID: 299 018 7785
Password: 0000
IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS!

SAM'S OUTLOOK


Let’s Lighten Up This Summer!

With the return of summery weather, the decrease in virus infection rate, the peace of mind being vaccinated, and the CDC relaxation of restrictions on activity of those vaccinated, it feels like the pandemic fog is lifting just a bit. Possibilities are visible that haven’t been visible for a while. Theaters are beginning to reopen. People are socializing in each other’s homes. We’re eating out in restaurants with friends again. There are viral threats still out there to be sure. A dangerous variant that is resistant to vaccines could appear. But the technology is in place to respond quickly. We’re learning how to live with the ongoing threat of COVID-19 hoping we’ll not see COVID-21 or 22 any time soon.

It may be only from this perspective that we fully appreciate the heightened stress and anxiety we’ve been through.  Parents know it better than anyone coping with children at home 24/7, dealing with online education and social restrictions. Thankfully, now they can be outside playing sports again and resuming somewhat normal levels of activity. The promise of returning to school again in the fall and camps open this summer promises some level of return to sanity.

We just remembered George Floyd’s murder on Tuesday a year ago and the release of rage over the police officer Derek Chauvin’s cruelty and callousness. While we haven’t witnessed the level of reform hoped for or promised, the protests, agitation and the debate haven’t stopped. I’m not sure we would have seen the level of sympathetic response around the country if White Americans weren’t quarantined in their homes and forced to confront what for many Black Americans can be a daily reality of danger and anxiety.

The highly charged Presidential election mixed with the year of pandemic has made us far more reactive. A recent Jeopardy! three time champion named Kelly Donohue was accused of using a subtle white supremacy hand signal during the beginning of the show. A group of over 450 former Jeopardy contestants asked why the gesture had not been edited out of the show and demanded Donohue apologize for using the signal.  Donohue said he was simply using his fingers to show he had won three times in a bragging gesture. Whether intended or not, Forbes Magazine states the gesture he used has indeed been adopted by white supremacists as a way to signal their nefarious intent to their fellow racists, while retaining plausible deniability. The source was a prank conceived by dastardly 4Chan users and known as “Operation O-KKK.”

The Democracy threatening events of January 6th also ratcheted up the fear level. Fortunately, that level has gone down enough to have barriers on State Street and fencing in front of the New York State Capitol removed. But the ease with which people walked around the Capitol Building in Washington DC will not return soon, if ever. Four years of daily outrage from the White House pitting us against them has hardened people’s opinions of each other. The concept of civil debate on issues seems impossible in confrontations of vitriolic rage.

This past election was incredibly polarizing. People aren’t disagreeing about tax or foreign policy, the differences between parties are ones of basic morality, core values and character. People are ending relationships with family members over how they view police brutality vs looting. A retired professor, a sexual assault survivor, couldn’t tolerate a continuation of a 40 year friendship when her now ex-friend supported Brett Kavanaugh’s denial of sexual assault allegations with the words, “Oh, you drank the Kool-Aid,” and “Kavanaugh didn’t do anything.” On the other side, a 61-year-old steelworker strongly invested in the values of liberty complained before the election, “The [libs] sold our country out. It made me sick. If this is his core ethics, I don’t want that kind of person in my life.”

How can we hope to cross these divides between people, lower the emotional temperature and find a way to be in conversation and dialogue again? One way I’d like to suggest is by playing and having fun together. What is missing from public discourse is a sense of playfulness and levity, a sense of fun and enjoyment.

Some of you may remember my Sunday service doing laughing yoga. Well, maybe they need to do a little laughing yoga at the Capitol in Washington DC to lighten the mood just a little. Laughter is documented to reduce blood pressure, increase oxygen uptake, improve the immune system and concentration and stimulate better heart health.

In relationships, genuine laughter that is shared can communicate to others that we have a similar worldview, which strengthens relationships. In one experiment, shared laughter had consistent effects on the participant’s sense of similarity and that had an effect on how much they felt an affinity with their partner. Social Psychologist Sara Algoe commented on the experiment, “For people who are laughing together, shared laughter signals that they see the world in the same way, and it momentarily boosts their sense of connection.”

Such is the challenge of today’s polarization because Americans do share quite a lot in common even if they have some strong differences of opinion. It is that super reactivity to our differences that has gone off the charts and washes away so many of our similarities. There are baseline commonalities of being human that potentially serve as bridges between those differences.

So as the summer is upon us, let us be a little less serious and be willing to play with each other just a little more. I anticipate that might help point us toward greater national healing that might even help end the pandemic.
                                                                                                               

Rev. Sam
SOCIAL ACTION


The Albany UU Social Responsibilities Council (SRC) and Inclusivity Team recommend a Black Lives Matter vigil in Troy:
When: Saturdays,10:30-11:15 am
Where: Troy - corner of River Street at the intersection of Fulton and Third Streets, 12180
  • physical distance, masks
  • signs only, no chanting (except for meditative religious practice)
  • the vigil will automatically be canceled if the temperature is 20 or below OR if the wind chill is below 10 degrees Fahrenheit 



The Albany UU Inclusivity Team recommends:


For adults and youth:
Pet, by Akwaeke Emezi. (2019).  A National Book Award Finalist, Walter Dean Myers Honor Book, Stonewall Honor Book, and Otherwise Award Honor Book, this is a phenomenal story. "What really makes a monster, and how do you save the world from something if no one will admit that it exists?" This is the question posed on the back cover.  Available in the Upper Hudson Library System (UHLS) in hard copy, CD audiobook, and downloadable audio- and e-book format.
 
For children and all:
Hair Twins, by Raakhee Mirchandanee and Holly Hatam. (2021).  A father lovingly takes care of his daughter's hair. Sometimes they match: her bun is like the bun he wears under his turban in the Sikh tradition. Available in hard copy in the UHLS. Not available in audiobook at this time. 

RELIGIOUS EXPLORATION

UU WEEKEND AT SILVER BAY
October 15-17
A Sure Cure For the End-of-the-Summer Blues
This is my end-of-the-summer joy. I don’t mind the winter coming after this glorious weekend.  -Darnell Rohrbaugh

It’s tough to watch the summer fly by! Fortunately, the UU Weekend at Silver Bay, scheduled from October 15-17, provides one more chance to enjoy the great outdoors before winter sets in. The weekend offers many outdoor activities including archery, disc golf, nature hikes, boating, hiking, tennis, kids activities, bird walks, and other fun experiences. 

   
It's an amazing fall weekend in the Adirondacks! Learn more here.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION

Essential Building Use Guidelines:
The Board and MOT are in the process of reassessing our guidelines for the use of our building. As pandemic restrictions are loosened and more people are vaccinated, it makes sense for us to review the status of our building. We will conduct that review with the needs of both congregants and potential renters in mind. We expect to update those guidelines in the next week or so and thank you for your patience in this important matter.
Find more information about our Building Use Guidelines during COVID HERE.




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