We were given two ears and one mouth for a reason. We do well to listen twice as much as we speak. We have all heard that clichéd concept. Most clichés are clichés for a reason, because there is usually some truth contained within them. Certainly, this one holds much wisdom. But why?
1, One significant way we learn is by hearing. Knowledge is indeed power. So, if one desires to learn more, thereby becoming more knowledgeable and empowered, listen more.
2. Hearing words and sounds has a dramatically greater impact on our thoughts than just reading or seeing them. It is the difference between reading a beautiful poem or musical lyric on a page and hearing them performed. Ultimately, everything in our lives is initially put into motion by our thoughts. So, if one desires their thoughts to propel them to positive things, be exposed to positive stimuli and listen more.
Listening twice as much as we speak takes practice. And practice makes
permanent
!
- The only way to do it is start being more focused and listen actively.
- Don’t talk so much, on purpose.
- Listen more.
Having said that, just because a person doesn’t speak much, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re listening. It may just just mean they’re quiet or introverted. However, whether you are naturally more quiet or verbose, once you start practicing active listening, and begin realizing the benefits in your “thought life”, it will begin to reinforce itself and you will start to look forward to listening more,
