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More than 40 years ago, a former professor of literature wrote a book called Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes. The book became required reading and a lifeline for anyone experiencing any kind of change. I was first introduced to William Bridges’ work in the early 2000s when I was going through a divorce and I’ve relied on it through decades of personal and professional change.
Bridges’ thesis is there’s a vast difference between the change and the transition it sets in motion. The change might be a new job or retirement, a new baby or the empty nest. It happens in individuals, families, organizations, governments, and yes - churches.
The transition is a process of psychological adjustment to the change and Bridges identifies three stages: the ending, the neutral zone, and the new beginning.
With a change in leadership, the Spiritual Life & Learning Center experienced an ending. The new beginning is on the horizon, but for now we are in the neutral zone. The neutral zone is a time of going inward, a time of self-examination and preparation for what is to come. For many of us, especially in a nation of go-getters and problem-solvers, the neutral zone can be uncomfortable. We want to get moving and get on with it! However, rushing through the neutral zone prematurely is a mistake; we must allow this time to do its magic before moving on.
Have you ever been in a drive-through car wash? You put your car in neutral gear, but that doesn’t mean nothing is happening. In fact, a fresh start is just minutes away. Like any analogy this one has its limits; yet it’s evident we don’t have to be pushing hard to advance.
While we engage in evaluation and reflection, the extraordinary lay leadership of the SLLC is moving forward with plans for programming and future Spiritual Searchers. We expect to have exciting news to share in the future about them. Also, watch this space for information about a gathering for supporters of the SLLC and adult learning at First Community to dialogue about what matters most. And Bible studies, multi-faith explorations, progressive Christian dialogue, yoga, and meditation sessions are ongoing. During the Lenten season, I encourage you to participate in the Tuesday night Taizé services, especially if you have never experienced this practice for connection with Spirit.
The Persian poet Rumi said, “As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.”
As we journey through the neutral zone together, we trust in the emerging way.
Peace,
Deb
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