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Hardening Off
My garden plants arrived over the weekend--a couple tomato plants, a bell pepper plant, and some herbs. Later, I'll add onion sets, marigolds, and some more herbs to the new six-box unit on the veranda.

The company I ordered the plants from provided some directions for tender care in the first week. The first two days, the plants are outdoors during the day, then come inside at night. The third through fifth days, they can stay outside, still in their containers unless a frost is expected. After that, if the weather permits, they get transplanted and are outside for the rest of their lives.

If you've ever gardened, you know the adage about not planting until Mother's Day. The logic's the same: Why would you put plants out without doing your best to ensure their survival?

The instructions reminded me of the Parable of the Sower--and of how good God is. I got my sacraments as a child, and that was about it. Neither of my parents attended Mass, and while they did the best they could, let's just say it was rocky soil. I'm grateful that when I was ready to receive the Word nearly twenty years ago, there were plenty of people around to nurture and help me protect my seedlings of faith until they were sturdy enough to face the world. And I pray that, in some small way, the way I live my life and the words I write help protect others' seedlings.

On the Nightstand: Beautiful Holiness: A Spiritual Journey with Blessed Conchita to the Heart of Jesus by Kathleen Beckman
When her husband died, Concepcion Cabrera de Armida (1862-1937) was left with nine children to raise. The youngest was two years old. It was not an easy life; she lived in Mexico City, and the Mexican Revolution began nine years after her husband's death. Undoubtedly, she asked the Lord for many graces during those years. This is one response she received: "Ask me for a long life suffering life and to write a lot. .. That's your mission on earth." And so it was. Conchita, as she was known, left tens of thousands of pages of religious writings, and was beatified in 2019.

While I find every holy person's life compelling, I'm looking forward to learning more about Conchita and her writings this month.

May, the Month Where All Things Seem Possible
Besides veranda gardening and the Day Job, May will be devoted to finishing the book I'm writing about the unnamed women who encountered Jesus. It's due June 1, so please pray for me.

In a blast from the past, my sister and I will be seeing the singer/songwriter Boz Scaggs (if you're of a certain age, you probably wore out at least one vinyl copy of his classic album Silk Degrees).

This coming weekend, I'll be at the Future with Hope Women retreat May 5-7 at the Holy Cross Abbey Retreat House in Virginia's Shenandoah Valley, pictured above. While I'm there, I'll be picking out and paying for my spot in the associated natural cemetery and giving the cemetery my late ex-husband's ashes. He wasn't a believer in much of anything, so in lieu of a prayer, I plan to read this poem by Emily Dickinson that we both admired and first learned about when watching the movie Sophie's Choice:

Ample make this Bed —
Make this Bed with Awe —
In it wait till Judgment break
Excellent and Fair.

Be its Mattress straight —
Be its Pillow round —
Let no Sunrise' yellow noise
Interrupt this Ground —

May your May be full of possibilities and love.

Blessings, Melanie