Kenneth Brickman, Rabbi
Barbara Rothbeind, President

May 2022

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Greetings

In two weeks Americans will observe Memorial Day and officially welcome summer. It will then be “acceptable” to wear white when we gather with friends and family over a backyard barbecue or around a pool.


Today’s casual celebrations often belie the significance of the holiday, which is to commemorate the sacrifices made by soldiers who lost their lives defending our country. It is a day to also pay tribute to our veterans, whose lives have been impacted by their service. As citizens, we are reminded on a daily basis what that service means, and how important it is for us to honor and support the men and women behind it. For Jewish veterans, there is a separate voice that speaks and advocates for their unique needs.


The Jewish War Veterans of the U.S.A. was founded in 1896 by a group of 63 Jewish Civil War veterans after a series of anti-Semitic comments about the lack of Jewish service in the Civil War. It is the longest running veterans service organization. Since its founding, it has been doing much more than just fighting anti-Semitism.


In WWI, the organization worked to establish a Jewish chaplaincy within the military. Before America entered the war, it campaigned for the 1938 Foreign Agents Registration Act which eventually saw Nazi leaders in America being deported, and it led a protest march boycotting goods from Nazi Germany. It was during the first World War that the JWV worked to have Jewish grave markers put in veterans’ cemeteries. Today, with the help of Jewish youth groups, they continue to maintain Jewish graves.


Jewish services were conducted on the battlefield in WWII, due in part to the work of the JWV. After the war, they campaigned to have religious and racial protections put into the 1944 GI Bill. That allowed Jews as well as other minority soldiers who had been overlooked, to be able to take advantage of the Bill, and to use its benefits to lift themselves out of poverty.


The Cold War period saw JWV fight the Klu Klux Klan and the John Birch Society. They pushed for the rights of Jewish American soldiers who were let go during the McCarthy era because of their Eastern European upbringing. In more recent times, care packages of toiletries and kosher food were created for Jewish men and women fighting in Vietnam and Iraq and Afghanistan. The Jewish War Veterans worked for the return of POW’s during the Vietnam war and have been on hand to greet soldiers returning from Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as to support the families of the fallen heroes.


Because of anti-Semitism, Jewish members of the military often did not receive the awards they deserved. In 2002, the Leonard Kravitz Jewish War Veterans Act was passed, which resulted in 24 service members who were initially ignored because of discrimination, being awarded the Medal of Honor. And additional names have been added to the original list.


The accomplishments of the JWV are impressive, but they also must look to the future where their goal is to educate young leaders about Americanism. Their initiatives - from Bar/Bat Mitzvah projects to Scouting, Kiddish Cup and Grant Programs, keep youth engaged and teach them what it means to “serve something greater than themselves”.


I remember seeing pictures of my father upon his return from WWII wearing a side cap with the initials JWV. How proud that makes me now. Let us pay tribute on this Memorial Day to the ideals of Americanism espoused by the Jewish War Veterans, and let us remember how fortunate we are to be able to live those ideals every day.


Shalom,

Marcey

13agree@gmail.com

President's Message

May Greetings


It is hard to believe that the first year of my term as SJC president, is almost coming to an end. What an eventful year it has been- still zooming but full of simchas, nonetheless.

We will, with grateful hearts toast Rabbi Brickman on his retirement. Thankfully, we do not have to say farewell as Rabbi Brickman will remain our neighbor and friend.

We are very excited that Rabbi Ruth Abusch Magder will be joining the SJC family. We look forward to spending time with her and hopefully you will all have a chance to get to know her better.


In the upcoming year we intend to have in person High Holiday Services with Rabbi Ruth and a Cantor. Our intent is to live stream services this year so that we will not have “zoom” distractions. I am looking forward to a very spiritually meaningful High Holiday season.

I want everyone to know that I could not have accomplished any of my goals without our wonderful Board. These hard working volunteers have spent countless hours meeting and performing many thankless tasks. Please reach out and thank them.


Your Temple Board and I are open to new ideas and suggestions for programs and events for the upcoming year. We all want to know what we can do better and what we need to change. So please do not hesitate to reach out.


Our annual Meeting will be held on Sunday June 26, 2022, in person and on zoom. I hope that many of you will come in person. It has been far too long since we have seen each other.


Again, please reach out to each other and to me to just say hello. I am always available and look forward to hearing from you.



Shalom,

Barbara Rothbeind,

President Sandhills Jewish Congregation/Beth Shalom

910-603-0600

Rabbi's Message

In many languages including Hebrew, there is a form of the word good-bye which expresses the hope that we will see one another again. In Hebrew, this word is “L’hitraot,” which literally means, “Until we see each other.” This is the most appropriate greeting for us to exchange this Shabbat as we “celebrate” my retirement. This greeting is appropriate in one sense because I will be back in June for my last “Rabbi Weekend.” I have decided to title that weekend my “Encore Shabbat.” As a regular concert goer, I know that most performances end with an encore. The performer steps off the stage as if the show is over, only to return once the applause rises to a crescendo. I don’t expect you to applaud, but I will be back for a very important “Encore Rabbi’s Weekend,” at which we will welcome the new members who have joined our congregation in recent months. How appropriate that we will welcome new members to our congregation on my last Shabbat on the pulpit. It will be a symbol of the continuity in our congregation which continues to grow and flourish, a pattern which I am certain will only increase even as the rabbinic leadership of our congregation changes.


“L’hitraot” is also the appropriate greeting for my retirement weekend since for the moment Michael and I plan on remaining in town on a part-time basis. Also, as the congregation’s first Rabbi Emeritus, I will maintain a connection with this community that I have grown to love over the years, and for that I am most grateful.


Moments of transition such as this elicit a variety of emotions as I am certain we will see next weekend. One of the emotions that I have been feeling is sadness over the loss of so many of the congregants who welcomed me to this community. Many have passed away and others have moved out of the community. During my first High Holy Day visit to Pinehurst, the congregation arranged home hospitality for me each night for dinner. Most of those who hosted me were founding members of the congregation. I look back with fondness at the warm welcome that I received, as well as with sadness as I note that those early leaders of our community cannot see how much we have grown, in no small part thanks to the foundation they established upon which we have built a vibrant Jewish community in Moore County.


I hope that you will join us for the Shabbat evening service on Friday, May 20 at 7:00 PM so that we can say “L’hitraot” to one another. For those who do not meet the boards requirements for attending in person worship or those who still prefer to worship from home a Zoom link will be provided.


Our Shabbat evening service on Friday, May 20 will also include the conversion ceremony for Jill Moore. Please join us as we welcome Jill into the Jewish Community and to our congregation.


Rabbi Ken Brickman

ravklb@aol.com

Upcoming Events
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Friday, May 20, 2022, 7:00 PM

Shabbat Services, in person and zoom

Join us for Shabbat Evening Services as we celebrate Rabbi Brickman's retirement.

We will mark the conversion of Jill Moore and welcome her to our congregation.

This service will also be commemorated with the return

of our Oneg Shabbat, sponsored by Lowell Simon.

Sunday, June 5, 12:30 PM - Rosh Chodesh Discussion Group

Join members of the congregation for an energetic discussion of the Torah led by members of the group, with Torah commentary written by women. All congregants are welcome. Contact Lorna Clark-Rubin if you have questions or to RSVP:

rubinlj5469@gmail.com or 910-215-7707.


Friday, June 10, 7:00 PM - Shabbat Service to Welcome New Members

The congregation is invited to welcome our new members during the Shabbat service on Friday, June 10th. This will be our first opportunity to meet everyone in person.

We are pleased to welcome

Jonathan Gillman

Deborah & Andrew Greenwald, Odilia & Kevin Meltzer

Roey & Robert Mendel, Susan & Carter Parry,

Lynn & Robert Sotsky, Clare & Alejandro Sosa


This will be Rabbi Brickman's last service. It will be in person and on Zoom.


The Zoom links will be sent prior to each service


Covid protocols remain in place for all in-person activities at the Temple. Masks are required as well as proof of vaccination. If your vaccination card is on file, you do not need to bring it with you.

Oneg Shabbat

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A message from Pola Lipson, Coordinator

I am honored to coordinate the onegs for the coming year.   We would like members to volunteer to be hosts for the onegs on June 10, July 15 and August 19. We will also begin to plan for the 2022/2023 year. I would be glad to arrange for you to be an oneg host on a day that would be meaningful to you (yahrzeit, birthday, anniversary, baby naming), or any Friday night that works with your schedule. There are usually a few households that like to get together as hosts. This is no problem.  I would be glad to plan this for you.

Please contact me: Pola Lipson 248-321-5530 or pola.lipson@gmail.com.

Member News

Update from Alexa and Michael Ascher

Alexa and Michael Ascher proudly announce that their granddaughter, Sarah Jessica Warschun, is graduating this month with a Master of Medical Science degree from Wake Forest University School of Medicine, PA Program. Sarah, expects to receive her PA certification this summer and has accepted a position with the New York Presbyterian Weill-Cornell Medical Center, Department of Obstetrics & Gynocology, beginning in September. She will be assigned to the labor, delivery and triage teams as well as first-assistant in the operating room for surgical C-section deliveries. Sarah is also an alumnus of the University of Michigan where she earned her Bachelor of Science degree. 


Best Wishes to Lisa Richman and Dean Segovis

Hello,  

We had job changes last fall and decided to move to Asheville. I am the Volunteer Coordinator and Executive Assistant for the Business and Finance Department at AB Tech Community College. Dean works for Ace Handyman services, where as many of you know, he can fix anything. We are selling our Pinehurst house and living in a rental house until we find one to buy. The house has lots of space and is surrounded by a farm. Right next door, a baby lamb born the other day and a baby goat the day before. The peacocks, geese, chickens and turkeys won't be far behind with their own little ones. 


Having lived in Moore County half my life, leaving friends behind was hard, but we hope people will visit us in the the mountains. The Jewish community in Moore County has been my base for friends, laughter, education and support for over 20 years! I will miss you all and am very grateful for the time I have had with our wonderful congregation. 


Please be well and stay in touch. Our new address is 118 Dix Creek No.1 Road, Leicester NC 28748 and our phone numbers/email are the same: lmrichman@ahoo.com,

910-986-1331. 


Best wishes, 

Lisa Richman and Dean Segovis


Congratulations Lowell and Jill

President Emeritus and Founding Member, Lowell Simon is excited to announce his engagement to Ms. Jill Moore. Rabbi Brickman will be presiding over their wedding at Temple Beth Shalom some time in the fall. More details to come.

During Friday evening's Shabbat service Rabbi Brickman will welcome Jill into our Jewish Family. Celebrate with them during the Oneg following her conversion ceremony.

Temple Activities

New Playground Dedication

On Sunday, April 24th, Rabbi Brickman dedicated our new playground. This was very exciting for the religious school students as they now have new equipment set up right next to our building. A huge thanks to Audrey and George Kessler for their generous donation that made this possible.

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Rabbi Brickman dedicating the playground.

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Audrey and George Kessler cutting the ribbon so the students can play.

Use this link to see more pictures: https://photos.app.goo.gl/sHHrtuSFtBSkTnwX8

Here is a link to the video: https://youtu.be/S8I-ueUY_Qo

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Sofer On Site

On March 22nd, Rabbi Moshe Druin was invited to our temple to examine our Torahs. Overtime, because the Torahs are rolled tightly, the ink dries up and begins to fade. Rabbi Druin is a Sofer, a trained Jewish scribe able to make the necessary repairs that bring the faded letters back to life. Many congregants had the opportunity to visit the rabbi and observe his work. Unfortunately, he could not complete the job. But fortunately, our congregation will have another opportunity to witness his artwork as Rabbi Druin is scheduled to return. It is amazing to witness the skill with which he restores the ancient texts and to feel the spirituality of  his art. This is an experience you won't want to miss. It will be especially meaningful for children. Please make every effort to visit the temple, meet and talk to Rabbi Druin, and as you watch him hone his craft, understand the work performed by a Jewish scribe.

Visit Rabbi Druin at the Temple

Monday, May 30th, noon-5:00 PM

Tuesday, May 31st, 9:00AM-5:00 PM

Looking for "Holy Rollers"

As we learned from Rabbi Druin's first visit, Torahs need to be unrolled and "aired" on a regular basis to prevent them from drying up and the ink fading. A committee headed by Fred Katzman is being formed, the "Holy Rollers", that will be tasked with that responsibility. A schedule will be created so the unrolling of the scrolls can be done on a regular cycle. This will be a very meaningful way to support the congregation. If you are interested in participating, or have any questions, please contact Fred: 910-215-9242 or fpk419@gmail.com.

Book Club
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The Book Club's next selection is "The Book of Lost Names" by Kristin Harmel. This is a powerful World War II story and the theme brings into focus the history of the many forgers who created false documents that helped Jewish children flee the Nazis. While fictional, this book draws from fact. It is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of bravery and love in the face of evil.


Book Club will meet on Sunday, July 10th at 3:00 PM

at the home of

Bonnie Gillman and Nick Christopher,

180 Lamplighter Village Drive, Pinehurst.

To RSVP contact Bonnie:

910-420-2609 or bongee7@aol.com.


The congregation is invited to attend and join the discussion. Dinner follows at a place yet to be determined.

Community Involvement

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Sandhills/Moore Coalition for Human Care

The Sandhills Jewish Congregation is proud of its support for the Coalition. Darie Davis, our Coalition outreach member, is providing the following update with recently changed criteria that allows them to better meet the needs of their clients.


 Effective May 1, 2022

Client Services:

·    Operating hours are 8:30 - 11:00 am Monday through Friday. Service is available after 11:00 am by appointment only. Residents may call (910) 693-1600 and select option 5 to schedule an appointment.

·    Gasoline vouchers are now available to residents that qualify.

·    We have increased the number of times per year that clients can receive food from four times per year to six times per year. Fresh produce will be included when available.

·    Financial assistance is now available twice per year instead of once per year. We can screen residents over the phone to determine eligibility and define their needs, or clients can visit during our operating hours. 

Donations:

·    Food donations continue to be welcome at the Client Services location at 1500 W. Indiana Avenue, Southern Pines Monday through Friday from 8:30-11:00 am.

·    Donors wishing to make a restricted donation toward fuel vouchers, dental extractions, etc., can simply indicate this with the donation or by contacting the Coalition. 

Resale Shops

·    The Resale Shops at 1117 West Pennsylvania Ave., Southern Pines continue to operate normally for shopping, accepting furniture, clothing, household items and food donations. 

 

Clients must be a resident of Moore County to qualify for Coalition assistance. Proper documentation required. Please email info@sandhillscoalition.org or call 910-693-1600 and choose option 5 if you have questions.

Future updates regarding Sandhills Coalition’s operations will be available via our website at www.sandhillscoalition.org and our Facebook pages.

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Family Promise of Moore County

The Sandhills Jewish Congregation has long supported FPMC, a nonprofit agency dedicated to alleviating homelessness in Moore County, in partnership with local congregations and organizations. Their 18-bed facility in Aberdeen usually serves two to four families at a time, for an initial period of up to three months, providing housing for mothers with varying numbers of children, ages from infant to about 18.

 

In partnership with the Emmanuel Episcopal Church in Southern Pines, our congregation supports the effort several times a year. SJC's next week for volunteer support is June 6-9, with opportunities for dropping off prepared meals for the families, joining them for dinner, or perhaps staying overnight in the volunteer bedroom.

 

For more information or to volunteer, contact Monika Brown, volunteer coordinator for EEC and SJC (910-703-0087, monikacbrown@gmail.com), or SJC Community Outreach Committee members Paul Rogow (910-4201217, progow@outlook.com) or Karen Kaplan (910-690-9813, kwkaplan@gmail.com).


You can watch the FPMC Outreach Spotlight video here: https://youtu.be/ifgwCOjgHC

May Yahrzeits

We remember our loved ones during our May Shabbat Services


05/01 Pauline Rosenblum

05/05 Fannie Koblenz*

05/05 Etta Nathenson*

05/06 Murray Ferencz

05/07 Mattie Rubenstein

05/13 Charlotte Rosnick Lance

05/21 Miriam Ascher

05/21 Michael Geller

05/21 Saul Richman

05/23 Herbert M. Canter

05/26 Bennett Gemson

05/26 Paul Weisser

05/28 Gloria Averbook

05/30 Robert Jacobs

05/30 Martin Gillman

05/31 Willard E. Heintz


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Yahrzeit Donations
Honor the memory of a loved one with a donation of $18.00, Chai,
to our Yahrzeit Fund.
It is a true mitzvah to remember someone with the gift of tzedakah.

Contact Amy Walters @aswalters101@gmail.com or 910-420-1352
Donate with PayPal
Donations

Thank you to those who made donations during the month of April


Please note that donations listed here are those that were received and processed by the end of the month listed. In order to guarantee inclusion on this list, please make sure that you send in your check by the 20th of the month.


Card Packages

  • Sharyn & Richard Korwin (3 packages)

General Donations

  • Carol Pierce
  • Yvonne Sovereign
  • Sara Sutton
  • Essie & Al Tuner

Yahrzeit Donations

  • Arne & Pola Lipson, In Memory of Samuel Sorkin
Donation Card Opportunities
Traditional Donation Card
There are many ways we can support our congregation and sending a special card can be one of them. Ours have beautiful artwork, you can choose from several designs, and the message is a personal one. Whether it is a life-cycle event or a way to keep in touch, everyone loves to be remembered in this way. Our cards are $10.00 each, and that includes postage. Or buy a package of ten for $100.00. That way, you always have one in reserve.
Donation Card Packages
We are offering an addition to our $10.00 donation card. Packages of five cards (slightly smaller size) are now available for personal use. They sell for $25.00 for a 5 card package and members will be able to send the cards themselves. There is a choice of three pieces of artwork from our own members (one selection per package). The cards are blank on the inside but the back recognizes the donation to SJC. Buy for yourself or give as a gift.
These cards are lovely and a meaningful way to send any type of message while supporting the Sandhills Jewish Congregation.

For more information contact
Jerusalem
Irises
Woman in a Garden
Donate with PayPal
Security Policy
For the protection of our members and guests, the Board has put in place the following security precautions:

-all members are asked to wear their name tags
-our doors will be locked at 7:15 so congregants are urged to arrive on time
-anyone arriving after 7:15 will have to knock until a congregant opens the door 
-when members see someone they do not recognize, reach out - to both make them feel 
 welcome and to be aware of unfamiliar faces in our building (unless a member's guest)
-Oneg hosts (one or two) are asked to be greeters, hand out prayer books, name tags
-one greeter is to remain in foyer until 7:15 when main doors are locked
 
Member to Member
* Local Realtor Betsy Auster is affiliated with NextHome In The Pines. She has experience working with new construction, investment properties, and resales. Betsy will donate 5% of her commission from each referral or sale she receives from Temple members to SJC! Please give her a call at (609) 707-3047, or email her at betsy@nhpines.com.
NextHome In The Pines is at 105 Bradford Village Ct. , Southern Pines, NC 28387


* Sue Deutsch has created a website that provides a single source for listings of events, happenings and activities in the area. Please visit www.ThePinesTimes.com and like The Pines Times on Facebook.  

* Members Susan and Tom Miles have relocated their company Belevation to Biscoe, NC. Manufacturers of direct to consumers support garments for expectant moms, Belevation can be accessed from its website belevation.com or Amazon, or you can like Belevation on Facebook.


* Marks Tax Professionals are now located at 169 Beverly Lane, Fresh Market Plaza, Southern Pines NC 28387. Phone is 910-585-6800. We have been providing a better tax experience in the Sandhills for over ten years. You worked hard to earn it, we help you keep it. Call or email for an appointment, markadel@taxgurusofpinehurst.com, or visit our website at www.taxgurusofpinehurst.com.

* Travel With Flair * Amy Sawyer, Owner *travelwithflair@gmail.com* 910-221-9754
Specializing in journeys, weddings and honeymoons of distinction. Certified Tahiti Tiare Agent.

* Need a reliable handyman? Lee Sawyer is your guy for a wide variety of jobs. Contact him at yourhandymanlee@gmail.com or on his cell at 910-691-1534

*Jennie Sessler is a stylist at Fantastic Sams (next to the Harris Teeter on 211). If you need a haircut stop in to see Jennie or call for an appointment: 910-420-1686

* Thyme and Place Cafe - your go to community cafe - is where you can get great food and pastries, and also cater your unique events. Leslie Philip adds extra touches that make every occasion personal and special. On-site functions are being added so please check the website or social media. Thyme and Place Cafe, an intimate meeting place with a big heart. Hours are Tuesday - Saturday, 10 AM to 2 PM, 155 Hall Avenue, Southern Pines. 
Board of Directors
  • Rabbi Kenneth Brickman - RAVKLB@aol.com, 917-533-4120

  • President: Barbara Rothbeind - barbara.rothbeind@gmail.com
  • Vice President/Communications: Marcey Katzman - 13agree@gmail.com
  • Secretary: Audrey Kessler - audhaykes@hotmail.com
  • Treasurer: Kevin Price - pinehurstkp@gmail.com
  • Immediate Past President: Bernie Rosenblum - bernie.rosenblum7@gmail.com
  • President Emeritus: Lowell Simon - lsimon@nc.rr.com
  • Building/Grounds: Wendel Kronis - wendelrama@aol.com
  • Education: Michelle Goetzl - mbgoetzl@gmail.com
  • Membership: Amy Walters - aswalters101@gmail.com
  • Religious Programs: Mindy Fineman - mfineman@nc.rr.com
  • Social/Program: Bonnie Gillman - bongee7@aol.com
  • Board Member at Large: Sharyn Korwin - sharynkorwin@gmail.com
  • Board Member at Large: Paul Rogow - progow@outlook.com