Love Columbia’s mission has always included coming alongside people who are struggling to make ends meet. It has typically included financial coaching to create and stick with a budget, save and reduce debt and find a job or better job to increase income. It sometimes included providing financial assistance to bridge a gap in income due to illness or job loss or cover an unexpected expense. Our staff and volunteers are proficient at teaching new skills, finding resources and encouraging goal achievement. In 2023, they have had to learn to provide frequent grief support.
People who are being priced out of their rental housing are moving to places they would never dreamed they would have to live. They are often grieving over what they can now afford and, feeling less safe in unfamiliar neighborhoods that may have higher crime rates.
This month, we helped a 65 year old woman “downsize” from her three bedroom duplex on the south side of Columbia to an upstairs unit in a Northeast Columbia six-plex. She told us the only way she managed to cope was the kindness of our volunteers and staff who helped her pack and move. Since moving in, she has fallen due to an unsecured stair railing and literally gotten lost driving home from the store. In 2019, she paid $850 per month for her duplex. The rent steadily increased until, to renew her lease, she would have had to pay $1,350 per month. This was impossible on her fixed retirement income. So we stepped in with packing tape, words of encouragement and a few tears of our own to give her the support she needed.
As the need for this type of “downsizing” has increased, we have started brainstorming how to engage the community in the housing crisis-related grief support work. We believe some homemade quilts or art, even some fresh paint, could make a difference for those who are experiencing loss. Maybe more “neighbors” showing up to visit parts of town they have not frequented before could begin to bind the community together and make the unfamiliar feel familiar.
We welcome your ideas as we step into new territory. There is opportunity for expanded hearts and community change as we lean into the struggles of our neighbors and lean on one another to seek community solutions.
Pressing forward in hope,
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