A practical newsletter with ideas, resources, special announcements, articles and more to help good parishes become a vibrant family of parishes.

November 20, 2023

Feast of St. Rose Philippine Duchesne


Please share this newsletter with anyone else who may benefit from its content. For more information on any of the topics in this newsletter, or for assistance in evangelization please contact Sr. Louise at w: 716-847-5585, cell: 716-341-3466, lalff2@buffalodiocese.org

Fun facts about Thanksgiving


Heaviest turkey?

86 lbs. (that’s about 27 hours in a B-I-G oven!)


How many women at the first Thanksgiving?

4 (the men were watching football!)


Oldest Thanksgiving parade?

Philadelphia, 1920


How long was the first Thanksgiving?

3 days. (two days to eat, one day to shop!)



How many grams of fat do we eat on Thanksgiving?

229 grams. (get out those stretch pants!)

Quote from Living as Missionary Disciples

The Church’s liturgy is an evangelical act: “The Church evangelizes and is herself evangelized through the beauty of the liturgy, which is both a celebration of the task of evangelization and the source of her renewed self-giving.” Pg. 16

Christmas Connections:

Nurturing Vistors for a Lasting Parish Home


Make your parish a welcoming and nurturing environment for those who join your holiday Masses. Don't just foster a welcoming environment, but ensure that those who visit want to stay connected and engage past the Christmas Season. Rebuilt, offered a 2-part video entitled: Christmas Connections: Nurturing Visitors for a Lasting Parish Home. Each video is about 30 minutes long.   



Some highlights from these 2 videos: 

  • Creative ideas on getting visitor’s FLEP (first name, last name, email and phone)
  • Ways to empower parishioners to invite others  
  • Creating a sense of community before the Christmas Eve Mass
  • Offering a bit of crèche trivia
  • The effect of lowering the lights just before the liturgy begins
  • How to use a “selfie” to invite others
  • Suggestions on engaging your visitors after Christmas is over


Note: after watching both videos I realized that the process they are suggesting can be used in a variety of settings throughout the year. Don’t limit yourself to only the Christmas season. Take these ideas and use them whenever possible. 


While we are on the subject, here are some other Christmas ideas:

I'll be Home for Christmas


As mentioned above, in a few weeks a number of inactive and unchurched people will walk through the doors of your Church. The regular attendees are often less than excited as they grumble about the lack of parking spaces, someone taking "their" seat, the noise and confusion. Prepare your congregation now! Recommit all the parishioners to be “Missionary Disciples”. Sprinkle them with holy water and remind them that “By virtue of Baptism we become ‘missionary disciples,’ called to bring the Gospel to the world.” (Evangelii Gaudium, n. 120). 


Therefore: 

  • Be civil in the parking lot both coming and going
  • Extend a warm welcome when seeing new faces
  • Sit in the middle of the pew, encouraging others to join you
  • Be sensitive to anyone who may not know what books to use, when to sit, stand, etc
  • Invite people to come back
  • Welcome the late comers and the babies crying.



Away in a Manger, no crib for his bed

Support Sleep in Heavenly Peace


In Buffalo, there may be as many as 10,000 children who don’t have a decent bed to sleep in each night. Sleep in Heavenly Peace is a non-profit organization with a chapter right here in Buffalo, NY. The local chapter president said that he receives over 90 requests a month. When you visit the site, be sure to scroll down and watch the 1-minute video. There are many ways to be involved. Besides donating time, you can donate mattresses, quilts, sheets, money. Their motto is: “no child sleeps on the floor (or in a manger) in our town.”

Chapter president: Jerry Sheldon 716-570-3449. Also watch Channel 2 news coverage from last year.



Other Christmas ideas to share with parishioners 


  • Christmas Cards - Send religious Christmas cards with religious stamps.
  • Christmas letter - Don’t just fill it with news on how special your life has been this past year but remind everyone how special they are in the eyes of God. “For God so loved the world that he sent his Son.” 
  • Crèche: Give your nativity scene a place of honor in the home and gather around it to pray. 
  • Learn about St. Nicholas (feast day Dec. 6) Nicholas is an Advent saint. His job is to remind people of God’s generosity. God doesn’t just pass around toys or video games; God gave the ultimate gift. God gave Jesus. Click on this page and find various plays, skits and scripts on God, Santa and St. Nicholas.    



Advent Pilgrimage: 

Come to Our Lady of Victory Basilica to see St. John’s Bible


What is St. John’s Bible? In 1998, the Benedictine Abbey and St. John’s University in Collegeville, Minnesota, commissioned the creation of a hand-written, hand-illuminated, and hand-bound Bible. The finished masterwork included 7 volumes, 160 major illuminations, and 1,165 hand-written pages. Later, the original St. John’s Bible was replicated for the purposes of sharing it with people all over the world. One of these “traveling” editions – Volume Six: Gospels and Acts – will be featured at OLV. All are welcome to come to the Basilica this Advent to be inspired and enriched. The bible will be on display during regular Masses starting on Dec. 3 and at various times within the lower level of the Basilica. For more information click here.

ALPHA NEWS


On Nov. 4, forty people gathered to attend a day-long Alpha retreat on the Holy Spirit. Present were families 11, 25 and 29 as well as the Alpha groups held at St. Stanislaus Church and the Catholic Center. The topics were: Who is the Holy Spirit? What does the Holy Spirit do? How can I be filled with the Holy Spirit? All agreed that the Holy Spirit is alive and active in our lives – all we need to do is ask. 



If you are thinking of doing Alpha and want to speak to others who have done it contact:




Is there life after Alpha? 

When Alpha ends it is important that we offer something. Some suggestions: 

  • Bible Study, OCIA, and Small Groups
  • ChristLifewww.christlife.org
  • Alpha follow-up: https://shop.alpha.org/t/AfterAlpha  
  • Halo: a phone app that provides daily prayers, the rosary, lectio divina, daily scripture reflections, Bible in a Year and many more resources.


Click here for a brief 2-minute video on Alpha. You may want to show it to the leaders of your parish. Introduction to Alpha

Three Life in the Eucharist Workshops were offered this Fall.


A total of 133 people attended and the following Family of Parishes were represented: 1, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8,10,12, 13, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 27, 28 and 33. 


Resource people for Life In the Eucharist:

As always if there is some way that I can assist your parish in InReach/OutReach or any area of evangelization, please contact me. I look forward to hearing from you.


I would appreciate it if you would pass on this newsletter to others who may benefit from it. 

Closing Thanksgiving Wish


May your stuffing be tasty. 

May your turkey be plump. 

May your potatoes and gravy have nary a lump. 

May your yams be delicious and your pies take the prize,

and may your Thanksgiving dinner stay off your thighs! 

(author unknown)