You feel ready to divorce, but there is only one problem: how will you and your spouse afford divorce litigation? You have heard horror stories about how much it will cost. You feel trapped, and you feel as if you cannot take the steps you need because you cannot afford to end the marriage.

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Classic problems might include taking too long to get back to you, flagrant inaction on your case, not doing what they say they will do, not keeping you apprised of developments in a timely way, and missing court deadlines.

 7 Myths About Divorce That You Can Ignore

Below I’ve listed some common divorce myths about the divorce process and why you can ignore them or, at the very least keep an open mind about what will happen during your divorce.

Divorce does not put an end to the crazy that went on during the marriage. You may no longer live in the same home but you can bet, if you were married to someone with anger management issues, you will continue to be the recipient of their anger after the divorce is final. In some cases divorce can exacerbate the anger so for your sake it pays to have a plan for dealing with the conflict to come.

Divorce was just something that happened to people, just another turn of events. I had this misguided belief that a couple sat down and came to a mutual agreement to divorce, and moved on from there.