We hit Macy’s last weekend along with many other prom-bound shoppers and I was instantly drawn to the sparkly dresses. Sofia chose a plain, medium-colored blue dress that I tried to like. I really tried to smile and say “that’s cute.” I really did.
She chose a couple more; a coral two-piece number and sparkly silver dress, while I added a full-length sequined hot pink, sparkly Kelly green with a slit, and a gold lame that looked cute on the hanger.
Sof went off into the dressing room and gamely tried on dress after dress, reporting back to me in each one. She looked amazing. Grown-up and sophisticated and amazing.
I swallowed back the tears and wondered what happened to my little girl in her Gymboree outfits? One day she’s wearing embroidered jeans and a cardigan sweater with cherries on it and the next it’s an evening gown.
The sequined pink was the winner. We picked some rhinestone-encrusted sandals, a delicate gold necklace, and a jeweled bracelet to finish the ensemble within an hour.
As an English teacher, I’ve heard about the “right-of-passage” story. Usually, it’s about a young protagonist who goes through a defining moment to reach adulthood. I just realized that there is a “right-of-passage” story for moms too. It definitely includes a chapter on shopping for prom dresses.
The Lassen High Class of 2023 is hosting the Moonlight Masquerade-themed prom this weekend at the Susanville Elk’s Lodge, 8:30-11:30. Get your tickets now at the ASB counter, they are $20 each or $35 for a couple.