CHAILITES
October 20, 2021
TBC Events Through October 28, 2021


Shabbat Services - NEW start time!

Except for Family Services, Shabbat Services from this week forward will now start at 7:30 p.m. instead of 7:00 p.m.

Family Services will continue to begin at 6:30 p.m. generally on the first Friday of each month
Torah Study

This year we are taking a break from regular Torah study and diving into the Tanakh to see what scholars have been debating for millennia. New participants are welcome! You don't have to have any knowledge of the texts to participate and hopefully will bring new insights as to what has or hasn't changed since ancient times, and how it relates to our lives today.

Here is the schedule for the the next few weeks:

  • Oct 30 - Nehemiah
  • Nov 6, 13, 20 - Job
The Israeli-Palestinian Dilemma:
Moving Beyond Who's Right and Who's Wrong
October 24 and 31 at 12:00 Noon

On three consecutive Sundays in October Temple Rodef Shalom, the largest Reform congregation in Virginia, will be hosting a major, nationwide virtual symposium, The Israeli-Palestinian Dilemma: Moving Beyond Who’s Right and Who’s Wrong, that is different from anything that has gone before. The Symposium dates are October 17, 24, and 31 beginning at noon Eastern Time.

"What makes our symposium both unique and uniquely important is that we are are coupling a deep dive by experts representing both Israeli and Palestinian perspectives into the history, present day 'Facts on the Ground', and thoughts on the future with an opening keynote featuring our Senior Rabbi, Amy Schwartzman, Executive Director of ARZA Josh Weinberg and MK Rabbi Gilad Kariv. Our closing keynote is Rabbi Donniel Hartman of the Shalom Hartman Institute. You will also have a chance to hear from everyday Israelis and Palestinians and organizations pursuing change."

The symposium will be live-streamed to registrants and almost all sessions will be recorded and available 24/7 for 30 days after the event. We also are providing a breakout room at the end of each day for your congregation to meet with your own moderator to discuss the day's topics.

The registration link is https://trs-israeli-palestinian-symposium.eventbrite.com. Please note, we are also offering a student rate as well.

A detailed agenda for each day, the speakers for each session, and other relevant information can be found at this link https://www.accelevents.com/e/IsraeliPalestinianDilemma.

Wi-ACT's Rise Against Hunger Meal-Packaging Event Day 
Saturday, October 23, 2021

We are excited that Wi-ACT is able to be holding its Meal-Packaging Event once again! Help the Wilton Interfaith Action Committee (WI-ACT) feed many malnourished children for an entire year wherever in the world the need is greatest. The packaging will be done at the WEPCO Church Complex at 36 New Canaan Road.

You can go to this website to select your shift of 9-11 am, 11-1 pm, 1-3 pm, or 3-5 pm: TBC-https://signup.com/go/YYCFDgq.

Please be aware that, for COVID safety precaution reasons, the Event this year needs to be about half the size of prior year's events in terms of the number of volunteers on each shift. Please don't let that discourage you from volunteering if there's space on the shift you select when you sign up, but also please don't be disappointed if your desire to serve can't be accommodated this year. If that should happen, we hope that you will volunteer again in future years when hopefully COVID safeguards will no longer be necessary.

To insure safety for everyone, please note these specific COVID protocols for the Event: All volunteers must be fully vaccinated and bring to the Event vaccination cards AND evidence of negative PCR test results within 72 hours before Oct. 23rd. Everyone will wear masks, the number of volunteers in each workspace (there will be three packaging floors this year, not just one) will be limited to 25 to 30, and the workspaces will be fully sanitized between shifts. Children under 12 unfortunately cannot volunteer this year; we will really miss them and are looking forward to their return to the work next year.

Be sure to get your PCR test done (available at Wilton CVS, among other pharmacy locations) by Wednesday Oct 20th so that you have the results back in time.
Adult Education Program: Equity vs. Equality?
Tuesday, October 26, 7:30 pm

Join TBC for the first Adult Education program this year! Our own Dr. Deb List will discuss "Equity vs. Equality?" We will explore the differences in the these concepts from a population perspective - examining how to achieve social justice by best understanding how to assure that we truly have equity for all. Discussion will center around health equity data as the impetus for exploring the need to make changes. 


To submit questions in advance email: info@wiltonyouth.org
TBC Sisterhood Annual Membership Welcome Event!
Sunday, October 31, 2021
9:30 am

"Treat" Yourself to a Morning of Refreshment, Renewal and Relaxation.

9:30 am -Social Hall: Join our own Bonnie Heft, a 300 Hour Instructor, for a Sample Half Hour of Embodyoga and Mindful Yoga Therapy. Get grounded, breathe, and allow energy to flow through your body. Please bring a yoga mat and a mask.

10:00 - 11:30 am: TBC Courtyard: Enjoy a hearty brunch, renew friendships, greet new Temple and Sisterhood Members, meet special guests from the Executive Board of Women of Reform Judaism, bid on items at our popular Silent Auction. Goody bags for all!
This event is free to our members and prospective members.
Please RSVP by October 25th to sisterhood@templebnaichaim.org
TBC Teen's Happenings!
For an appointment, visit www.redcrossblood.org. Use sponsor code: TBC
A SIMPLE WAY TO SUPPORT AFGHAN IMMIGRANTS IN CONNECTICUT

The Federation for Jewish Philanthropy is working to support the efforts of the Connecticut Institute for Refugees and Immigrants (CIRI) to welcome Afghan immigrants to our community. CIRI is focused on providing vital life-saving legal and social services to resettle Afghan individuals and families, help them heal from trauma, and rebuild their lives. Your contribution will empower CIRI to purchase gift cards to benefit new Afghan immigrants.
JEWISH FILM FESTIVAL
OF FAIRFIELD COUNTY
Thursday, Oct. 14 –
Sunday, Nov. 21

Ed Asner's final big-screen appearance, Menachem Begin's true story, a real-life mystery in the Roman Jewish ghetto, and more! What's Playing?
The Weekly Torah Portion
Vayeira
I (God) Appeared [to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob]
Genesis 18:1–22:24

  • Abraham welcomes three visitors, who announce that Sarah will soon have a son. (18:1-15)
  • Abraham argues with God about the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. (18:16-33)
  • Lot's home is attacked by the people of Sodom. Lot and his two daughters escape as the cities are being destroyed. Lot's wife is turned into a pillar of salt. (19:1-29)
  • Lot impregnates his daughters, and they bear children who become the founders of the nations Moab and Ammon. (19:30-38)
  • Abimelech, king of Gerar, takes Sarah as his wife after Abraham claims that she is his sister. (20:1-18)
  • Isaac is born, circumcised, and weaned. Hagar and her son, Ishmael, are sent away; an angel saves their lives. (21:1-21)
  • God tests Abraham, instructing him to sacrifice Isaac on Mount Moriah. (22:1-19) Click here to learn more.
COVID-19 Protocols - Masks Required

TBC now requires anyone entering our building for any reason to wear a mask - regardless of vaccination status. Masks must cover the nose and mouth and remain on while in the building. The only exception to the mask requirement will be for fully vaccinated staff and clergy while in their offices and for clergy (not lay leaders) on the bimah.
 
We will continue to watch the infection rate closely and will keep you apprised of any changes. We thank you for your cooperation.
Upcoming Events and Save the Dates!

October 31, 10:00 am - Sisterhood Brunch
October 31, 11:45 am - TBC Teens - "Halloween?! What's Jewish about that?"
November 3, 2:00 pm - Dorothy Day Hospitality House

See the TBC Calendar for more upcoming events. For Full High Holy Days schedule see TBC Connections.

Yahrzeits, October 22-28
  Zeicher tzaddik livrachah!

Sunday, October 24
Robert S. Windt, great uncle of Deborah List

Monday, October 25
Ross Supnik, father of Terry Ullman

Tuesday, October 26
Charles Klem, Jr., father of Pam Klem


It is traditional to light a memorial candle at home on the eve of the yahrzeit. You may also find it meaningful while kindling the yahrzeit candle to offer prayers of remembrance or reflect on your loved one’s life. Many also choose this time to make monetary donations in memory of loved ones
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Mailing Address: P.O. Box 305, Georgetown, CT 06829
Phone: 203 544-8695    
Location: 82 Portland Avenue, Wilton CT 06897 (Directions)

Cantor/Educator: Cantor Harriet Dunkerley
Assistant Director of Education: Elisheva Gluck
President: June Mara  Office Manager/Facility Use: Denise Seccurra