Hello Mia,

Trigger warning: gun suicide.

If you know me, you know my passion for gun violence prevention. But we can't talk about gun violence prevention without discussing suicide - especially when almost 60% of gun deaths are suicide. And when we talk about suicide, it's important to remember that most people who attempt suicide do not die - unless they use a gun.

The mere presence of a gun can be the difference between living to see a better day or dying by suicide.

I know this first-hand. I was the youngest in my family, and had the sweetest relationship with my loving older brother, Junior - he would absolutely smother me with cheek pinches and called me his Piscean twin.

Then, after a 5-year battle with schizophrenia - a misunderstood and heartbreaking mental illness - Junior gained access to an unsecured gun. He shot and killed himself.

It took me decades to be able to say that out loud. As a Catholic and Asian family, we were brought up to believe that "what happens in the family, stays in the family." We all suffered in silence, believing there was shame and stigma not only from his suicide, but also from his mental illness. Junior's suicide left us all reeling, heartbroken, and unsure how to cope for a long time.

Even though it's been 30 years, I still miss him every day.

It's important to me that I share my story now because today, September 10, is World Suicide Prevention Day. This is a day that raises suicide prevention awareness and recommits the world to ending suicide. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention has resources for those struggling, actions you can take, and information on preventing suicide.

Junior is my why - he's why I became involved with Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America. He's why I choose everyday to fight for those struggling, for those left behind, for those who feel voiceless. And in finding my why - in finding my own voice - I've found a strength that's allowed me to turn my pain into purpose. And finding my purpose has finally allowed me to heal. I'm grateful you're with me on this journey.

With love,

If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, there is help: Call or text 988, or chat online at 988lifeline.org.

The new 988 number for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline went into effect this past July. The number has trained mental health staff to answer calls from those at risk for suicide as well as those experiencing other mental health and substance use-related emergencies. And specialized services are available for veterans, LGBTQ+ individuals, and others.

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SILVERLAKE CANVASS

Sun, Sept 11

2pm - 5pm

In order to WIN in November, we need to talk to as many voters as we can! Join us for a fun morning talking with our neighbors - just bring your walking shoes, a hat, and a friend, and we'll provide the training, the flyers, and the sunscreen!

If tomorrow doesn't work for you, or door knocking isn't your thing, check out our full calendar of upcoming volunteer opportunities!

PHONEBANK & TRAINING

Tues, Sept 13

12pm - 2pm

Since we've had to cancel several canvassing events lately due to excessive heat, and now rain, it's more important than ever that we get on the phones.

From the comfort of your home, help us make calls to spread the word of our grassroots campaign for a better California.

Never phone banked before? No worries, all you need is a computer and WiFi. We'll teach you the rest!

CYPRESS PARK CANVASS

Sat, Sept 17

9am - Noon

Can't make this weekend's door knocking event? No worries, we have multiple canvasses throughout the week that we'd LOVE to see you at!

Join us this coming Saturday morning as we talk with voters in the Cypress Park neighborhood! Sign up today, so we can plan in advance.

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A CONVERSATION WITH SHANNON WATTS

Did you miss my Instagram Live conversation with Moms Demand Action founder Shannon Watts? We talked about our campaign for a California that works for all, gun violence prevention, and my sweet, fun, amazing brother, Junior.

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