August 2022 Issue
First Community Older Adult Times wishes you summer blessings. In this newsletter, you will find current programs and gatherings along with links and emails to help you get connected.

If you or someone you know would like a paper copy of this issue, please contact Robin.

Find out more about the FC Older Adult ministry and view previous issues of this newsletter here.
A Note from the Editor
Dear Friends,

I think most people have a Covid story.

And now I have one to share of my own. This last month was a busy one with two weeks away on vacation with different family members. We came home for a week and then headed to a family wedding. Upon returning from that, our whole family was hit, one by one, with Covid.

I was frustrated with being sick because we had so much going on in the life of the church. As we prepared for different events, I wanted to be there for my coworkers. I felt restrained. And felt like I wasn't doing a good job at anything. My stubbornness prevailed over me, and I got mad, then I got sad, and also I cried a little.

And then...I heard something quiet, like a whisper, "just rest." But it isn't that simple, and I brushed the words aside. There are kids to take care of, laundry, and dishes to put away.

And I would hear the words again, "just rest." What about the emails and the notes to write and the assignments to prepare?

And then the words would come back to me, louder: "Just rest." So finally, I did...I listened. I put my stubbornness aside and tried my best to do more resting and less doing.

These words did not come directly from the great Divine, but it was the next best thing. I heard it from my family, I heard it from my coworkers, I heard it from my friends, and I heard it through many of you who sent me well wishes and prayers. And I realized the Divine was working through all these people. The people who love me and care about me were trying to help me get well. I realized God is in each of us, working through us, allowing us to care for each other.

As the familiar saying goes, "God works in mysterious ways." There are times we have to take a moment to rest to be able to hear when God is speaking.

Prayers that we allow ourselves to be able to see and hear the grace of the Divine through people we talk to every day.

Robin Hood
Care Coordinator
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Daily Devotional
Those Who Start the Journey
Talitha Arnold

Terah took his son Abram and his grandson Lot son of [his deceased son] Haran, and his daughter-in-law Sarai, his son Abram’s wife, and they went out together from Ur of the Chaldeans to go into the land of Canaan; but when they came to Haran, they settled there. - Genesis 11:31 (NRSV)

Terah is generally overshadowed by his son Abram. It is Abram who hears God’s call to go to the land God would show him. Abram who is the “Father of the Faith.”

Terah had set out from Ur to go to that same land, but he only got as far as Haran before settling down. Consequently some scholars see Terah as a bit of a loser, lacking his son’s faith or courage. According to one commentator, Terah’s life is “the short, sad story of a man who settled.” Another claims, “The only good thing Terah ever did was to die.” Only then could Abram heed God’s call and continue the journey.

However, I’d like to put in a good word for Terah. He actually started the journey that his son completed. Before Terah, the ancestors stayed put. In the chapter-long genealogy that precedes Terah’s story, there’s a lot of begetting, but no packing up one’s kin to go to a new and foreign land. No leaving behind the place where one son is buried. No seeking new life for the other son and the rest of the family.

Terah did all that—without the promise God gave Abram. No, Terah didn’t complete the journey he’d planned. For unknown reasons, he settled instead in Haran. He didn’t reach the Promised Land.

But he had the vision to start the journey. May we have such vision, too.

Prayer
Thank you, God, for Terah’s commitment to your journey—no matter how far he got.
Bath-tism Blessing
By Rev. Mary Kate Buchanan, Minister of Pastoral Care
I was taking my dog for a walk and found myself faced with a Summer Conundrum: the neighbor’s sprinkler hitting the sidewalk. What should I do now? Wait and try to time it so I run quickly past without getting hit? Or, just keep walking, letting the cool drops soak my face and shirt? I chose the latter.
The book, Faithful Families, by Traci Smith, is the gift I give to friends and family when I baptize their second child (the first is always a children’s Bible- duh!). This book has simple activities to create sacred moments with your family at home. One of the activities it suggests is to take every opportunity to remember our baptism. Most often for families this occurs during bathtime. The author suggests taking some water, making the sign of the cross on your child’s forehead, and reminding them that God loves them. As they get older, you can build on this time together telling them the story of their baptism or the story of your own.

Summer presents us with many more water opportunities! There’s the pool, the lake, or the ocean on vacation. There’s the ice cold glass we pour for ourselves when we come inside from a muggy walk. We have had to do some serious watering of our gardens this Summer with all these 90+ degree days! There’s always the evening or morning shower or bath. Covid has hopefully given us a renewed sense of the importance of washing our hands. Maybe you, too, have been posed with the Sprinkler Summer Conundrum. All that to say- what if we take even just one of these water encounters as an opportunity to remember how very loved we are by our Creator. I invite you to just take a quick touch to the forehead offering yourself a blessing on your discipleship journey.

One more quick story- I baptized a family friend’s second child while I was on vacation in Upstate New York this Summer. His older brother was frowning and grumpy the whole time. He refused to smile for photos and my usual trick of having him “test” the water before we baptize his sibling did NOT work. The baptism was over and I was packing up to head home when he came up to me with his mom and whispered, “I want to get bath-tized too.” Then I knew that we were just a little bit jealous of all the attention our little brother was getting. That day was the first bath-tism I ever performed!
Older Adult Ministry

A Day at Akita
Save the Date!

Our Older Adult Ministry Team is determining a date in October for another day trip to Akita. Please look for more information in the September Older Adult Times newsletter.

A Christmas Gathering
Save the Date!

We will be planning another fun gathering in the beginning of December for our older adults to enjoy each other over some dinner and fellowship. More information for this event will be coming soon!

If you would like to get involved to help plan either of these fun events please contact Robin at rhood@FCchurch.com or (614) 488-0681 ext. 235
Surrendering to Love
By Rev. David Hett, Dean, The Burkhart Center
Olivia Newton-John died last week as a result of recurring breast cancer. She was 73. Much too young. And I basically grew up with her, being 71 myself. And that’s the rub.
 
In Joan Chittister’s chapter on “Fear” in The Gift of Years, talking about those inevitable joint pains and other realities we face as we age, writes:
 
But slowly, slowly, reality sets in: this is the first sign of impending arthritis; the first symptom of joint damage; the first sure warning of a creeping, an insidious, physical change. In me. The strong one. … The one who has stayed fit or stayed active or stayed healthy forever—till now.
 
Then, what I fear is not the pain, but the sure and obvious signal that the self I was is changing. No, correction. It is deteriorating.
 
I find myself listening more intently than I ever had before to other people’s medical reports. … Most of all, though, I begin to count years. “How old was she when she died? I ask. “What did she die from?” I want to know. How much older is she than I am?
 
I am now very cognizant of those last questions than ever before. Olivia Newton-John, 73. One of my dearest friends, a healthy 74, somehow contracts a rare, untreatable form of cancer, diagnosed at Christmas, and is dead by March. It’s a lot harder to keep thinking, “That happens to others. It’ll never happen to me.”
 
Chittister suggests that the major task of life in this period may simply be not to fear the fear.
 
To do that requires, first of all, embracing the fear, being with it, acknowledging it, exploring it for the deeper lessons it might reveal. Paradoxically, by staying with the experience, feeling it, observing it, we gain some distance from it, and perhaps we will notice the holding that supports both the observer/witness and the one who fears.
 
Mark Nepo’s August 8 entry in his classic, The Book of Awakening, uses the metaphor of a duck he once noticed sleeping in a lake, with its head tucked into its body, bobbing peacefully in the water. “This little scene undid me,” he writes, “for here was an ultimate lesson in trust.”
 
When Nepo was struck by cancer, he says, “I somehow fell from the ledge of my fear and entered the operating room like this little duck. It was the threshold to the other side.”
 
By taking the time to experience ourselves as fully as we can exactly where we are, we can often relax into this greater loving holding that many call God, or the divine, or Being. And it is something we can’t force because it is already there, urging us to surrender to its Love. I have survived numerous sleepless nights breathing into this Reality.
 
Nepo closes each daily reading with an exercise for practice, and here is the practice for “softening” from his August 8 entry, “Surrender Like a Duck:”
 
  • When you are tired, sit quietly and breathe away the heaviness of the day.
  • With each breath, release a thing undone, a bruise encountered, a worry or fear that has been fed.
  • Do not analyze or solve these things, just breathe them away.
  • Once light enough, see yourself as that little duck, and feel the lapping of the water all around you. Feel its buoyancy.
  • For just ten seconds, surrender—that is, soften all resistance—and let the water of life carry you. 
Goodbye and Good Luck
By Amy Caskie, Missions Administrator
On August 7, after the 10 am worship service, many gathered in the Weist Room for a reception to say goodbye to Rev Kate Shaner. After about 15 years of service to First Community, Kate is embarking on the next part of her life’s journey. Family, friends, and congregants in the worship service were moved by her final address from the pulpit. She touched on the generosity of First Community and shared her love for us all. In his sermon, Glen appropriately preached about how fear limits us. We all experience anxiety and fear when on the precipice of a transition stage. We wish Kate the courage to move forward and imagine all the possibilities for her life, knowing she will continue to serve her fellow humans no matter what she does.

I have worked with Kate for about eight of the years she served at First Community. I have enjoyed working with her, and we have established a symbiotic, fun, and effective working relationship over that time. Perhaps more importantly, we have also become very good friends, even family. My kids think of her as a cool aunt who likes to take them to the zoo and Build-a-Bear! You may remember in her address that Kate held up two tiny origami hearts she received that morning. They were from my daughter, Lucy. I also received a heart from Lucy that morning, as she knew both of us were facing an emotional day. While it is sad that our working relationship has ended, and I will miss our daily interactions, I know we will remain part of each other’s families forever. As my friend, boss, and pastor, I am so excited to see what she does next. Her larger-than-life personality, amazing sense of humor, and profound compassion will serve her well in her next phase of life.

A photo of Kate with the Griffith family during the reception that day is included. The family thanked her for her service to First Community and for the role she played in their lives. Also included is a photo of the shoes Kate accidentally left in her office when she was done packing. I’ll be sure to get them to her, but it was almost symbolic to me. Rev Kate, you leave shoes that cannot be filled.
Quest Singles
By Nancy Dunn, Leader

If you are a single who enjoys meeting new people, join us for a dinner and/or book discussion. Most of us are in our sixties and up, but we welcome all ages. If you would like to be on our e-mail list, contact Nancy Dunn at ndunn1975@gmail.com or call (614) 771-4869 for more detail about current plans. If you have an idea for a fun activity, let us know!
Note: Our dinner times have changed from 5:30 pm to 6 pm throughout the summer. Book Discussion times remain the same.

Upcoming Dates and Activities

Thursday, August 18
6 pm
Oscar’s in Old Dublin
 
Sunday, August 21
5:30 pm
Book Discussion
The Face of a Stranger
By Anne Perry
 
Thursday, September 1
6:00 pm
 
Thursday, September 15
 
Sunday, September 18
5:30 pm
Book Discussion
No title chosen yet.

Let Nancy know if you plan to attend.
Congregational Care
Blood Drive
The next First Community blood drive is on August 22 from 10 am - 4 pm in the Weist Room at South.

The incentive for donors this month is:
 
Give in August for $10 e-gift card of choice and chance at gas for a year a $6K value! Go to rcblood.org/fuel for more information.

You can sign up HERE, or contact Robin at (614) 488-0681 ext. 235 or rhood@FCchurch.com for more information.
Daily Prayers and Activities
You will find activities and readings below.




Dear Lord,
Lately, I’ve been discouraged because I don’t have the answers. I don’t see how my situation will work out. I get confused and frustrated over closed doors. Forgive me for not trusting you in all things. Help me renew my trust in you.
 
I know you are present with me in my pain, and you are also working things out according to your perfect will. Even when I can’t see it, you are working on my behalf. I proclaim my faith in you, God. Thank you for your guiding hand in my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
 
**Adapted from A Prayer to Renew My Trust in God, by Kristine Brown
What's Happening at FC



Older Adult Opportunities and Contact Information:
 
  • Older Adult Ministry Team – meets monthly from September through June (except December). Discusses and plans programs, volunteering, events and gatherings for the Older Adult community. Contact Robin Hood at rhood@FCchurch.com or (614) 488-0681 ext 235

  • ElderWisdom Book Group – meets monthly from September through May. Discusses various books (determined by group). Do not have to read book to join. Contact Lorelei Lotozo at LoreleiLanier@gmail.com or Robin Hood at rhood@FCchurch.com or (614) 488-0681 ext 235

  • Guild Groups – various women’s small groups that meet monthly. Activities vary including fundraisers, volunteer work, and social gatherings. For more information or to get involved contact Nancy Withers at nancyfly70@gmail.com

  • Bible Study – meets weekly from September through May and a few times during the summer months. Contact Rev Mary Kate Buchanan at mkbuchanan@FCchurch.com or Robin Hood at rhood@FCchurch.com or (614) 488-0681 ext 235

  • Heart to Heart – First Community Church food pantry at South Campus that has various volunteer needs through out the week. Serves clients on Tuesdays and Thursdays and restocks shelves and fills bags throughout the week. Contact Yohan Kim at ykim@FCchurch.com or Amy Caskie at acaskie@FCchurch.com



  • The Burkhart Center – a community helping people navigate their unique journey; welcome people from all religious and spiritual traditions and from no tradition – anyone at any juncture of life. Various small group opportunities meet on a weekly basis. For more information contact David Hett at hettds@FCchurch.com

Recipe of the Month
The recipe for the month of August is from Sandy Wood. For the end of summer, the time seems right for a good dessert, and this definitely sounds like one!

Blueberry Pie
CRUMB CRUST:
1 1/2 cups graham cracker crumbs
2 Tbl sugar
5 Tbl melted butter

FILLING:
1/2 cup sugar
1 Tbl + 1 tsp cornstarch
1 Tbl + 1 tsp water
Pinch of salt
1 quart blueberries

Crust: Combine ingredients, press into a 9-inch pie pan. Bake for 8 to 10 minutes.

Filling: Whisk together, sugar, cornstarch, water and salt. Add 2 1/4 cups blueberries (about 1 pint). Stir to coat evenly. Heat to boiling over medium-high heat. Gently stir in 2 1/2 cups (about 1 pint) blueberries. Spoon into baked crust. Cover and refrigerate until chilled, about 3 hours. Serve with ice cream or whipped cream.

*Can use purchased crumb crust.
ElderWisdom

ElderWisdom is a book group that meets in the Library at South (1320 Cambridge Blvd). The group is taking a break over the summer but will resume on September 29 at 1 pm. You do not need to have read the book to attend – just come and join us for an open discussion. Please contact Lorelei Lanier Lotozo at (614) 209-7125 or Robin Hood with questions or to add your name to our email list.
September book: Holy Rascals by Rabbi Rami Redux
October book: Orphan Master's Son by Adam Johnson
Registration Open: Come Fly with Us
August 20, Grace Hall
11:30 am - 2 pm
Join us for the Women’s Guild Luncheon and Office Installation on August 20 in Grace Hall, North Campus from 11:30 am – 2 pm. You can register HERE, or, send a check to the business office made out to “Women’s Guild of First Community” and "luncheon" in the memo. Cost is $20 per person. Contact Robin Hood for questions at rhood@FCchurch.com or (614) 488-0681 ext. 235












One Final Thought
Richard Rohr's Daily Meditation
Week Thirty-One: Innocence      
Letting Go of Our Innocence       
               
In this talk, Richard shares about the freedom we gain from “letting go” of any false images of ourselves as totally innocent or pure. We find the courage to be who we are in God and to join God in the flow of grace:

We come to God not by doing it right, but by doing it wrong. And yet the great forgiveness is to forgive ourselves for doing it wrong. That’s probably the hardest forgiveness of all: that I’m not perfect, that I’m not unwounded, I’m not innocent. “One always learns one’s mystery at the price of one’s innocence.” If I want to maintain an image of myself as innocent, superior, righteous, or saved, I can only do that at the cost of truth. I have to reject the mysterious side, the shadow side, the broken side, the unconscious side of almost everything. 

The art of letting go really is the way to heaven because when we fall down there to the bottom, we fall on solid ground, the great foundation. . . . On that foundation where we have nothing to prove, nothing to protect, we have met the enemy and the enemy is us. I am who I am who I am, and for some unbelievable reason, that’s what God has chosen to love. . . .

Letting go is different than denying or repressing. To let go of it, we have to admit it. We have to own it. Letting go is different than turning it against our self. Letting go is different than projecting onto others. Letting go means that the denied, repressed, rejected parts of our own self which are nonetheless true are seen for what they are, but not turned against self or against others, so letting go is not denial. It’s not pretend. The religious word for letting go is the word “forgiveness.” This is the positive way to deal with our own woundedness. We see it and we hand it over to God. We hand it over to history. . . .

The mode of weeping, of crying, is different than fixing. It’s different than understanding. That’s why we often cry when we forgive. . . . When we can’t fix it, when we can’t explain it, when we can’t control it, when we can’t even understand it, we can only forgive it. Let go of it, weep over it. It’s a different mode of being. . . .

I can see why forgiveness is almost the heart of the matter, and Jesus’ prerequisite for being forgiven by God is simply to forgive one another. . . . Jesus said we will receive the forgiveness of God to the degree that we can be conduits of forgiveness for one another. In other words, forgiveness is of one piece. Those who give it can receive it. Those who receive it can give it. If we’re in the conduit of love, if we’re in the ocean of mercy, frankly, it’s the only thing that makes sense.
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