This evening, I will be facilitating a conversation on The Way of Love by Bishop Michael Curry and Sara Grace. Each month, we gather to discuss one book and I'm so excited to discuss this book with some of you all. Spoiler alert: I definitely recommend reading it.
Each chapter of this book addresses a different question that Bishop Curry is frequently asked:
- What is love?
- How do I find God's love?
- How do I find the energy to keep loving when the world seems to be going the other way?
- Can love really change the world?
- Won't loving everybody make me a doormat?
- I'm just a regular person, so how can my love have an impact?
- I'm told to love my neighbor, but who is my neighbor?
- What if love reveals me to be a hypocrite?
- Do I have to love even my enemy?
- How can love overcome what divides us and move us forward together?
- Does love mean avoiding politics?
- How can love make "E Pluribus Unum" real in America without erasing anybody?
Talk about some heavy questions to tackle in 255 pages.
Do any of these questions stand out to you?
There is so much that I'm tempted to share about this book; but, today, I leave you with question number one. What is love?
Consider how you define love. Love as a noun? Love as a verb? Consider people whom you consider the embodiment of "love." Are there places that you love? Are there moments where you have experienced love? What do you consider the way of love?
Nowadays, love may not come as easily as it used to for some people. Whether it's COVID, the political climate, climate change, the loss of a loved one, or anything in between- these times can often feel heavy with grief. What does it look like to continue to remind ourselves to embody love- to let love permeate our actions, our words, and our everyday lives?
The Way of Love concludes with this charge- this blessing that sends us back into this world. I promise you that this does not spoil the book. Read this as a blessing for this week (and/or much longer):
"So don't give up on love.
Listen to it.
Trust it.
Give into it.
Obey it.
Love can help and heal when nothing else can.
Love can lift us and liberate when nothing else will.
May God love you and bless you.
And may God hold us all in those almighty hands of love.
Amen."