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Serving OA in Rhode Island & Southeastern Massachusetts 

JANUARY 2018
In This Issue
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PHONE SUPPORT AVAILABLE ON 
MAJOR HOLIDAYS

MARATHON PHONE MEETINGS ARE HELD ON  ALL MAJOR HOLIDAYS  EVERY HOUR ON THE HOUR BEGINNING AT 8 A.M. AROUND REGULARLY SCHEDULED MEETINGS. EACH MARATHON HAS A TOPIC FOR THE DAY.

DIAL  712-432-5200
ENTER PIN  4285115#
 
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Meeting List
 
    Updated December 2017 

 

IMPORTANT!

GROUP CONTACT INFORMATION: Please check your group contact name and phone number on the local Ocean and Bay Meeting List. Send changes to 

Also, check your meeting listing and contact info on the Overeaters Anonymous website meeting list at  oa.org. The oa.org website listing is different than the local meeting list and must be updated by your meeting contact person.

 
* Please call ahead to verify meetings are taking place, especially during holidays. 
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Please note that every effort has been made to adhere to OA's policy for newsletter publications. 

Opinions and experiences expressed within are those of the individual writer and not OA as a whole. 

REMINDER: This is your newsletter, so please feel free to submit your writing contributions to: [email protected].

You are also invited to be one of the members who provides answers for a Q&A. Again, just send us a note to: [email protected].
Ocean & Bay Intergroup News
 
All OA members are welcome to attend Ocean & Bay Intergroup (OBI) meetings held the first Tuesday of the month at St. Patrick Church, 2068 Cranston Street, Cranston, RI. The next meeting is TUESDAY, JANUARY 2nd at 7:30 p.m., with literature sales at 7 p.m.   

NEW LOCATION! 

OBI is excited to announce that after a long search by multiple Intergroup reps, Ocean and Bay Integroup has a new meeting location that is centrally located, has a place for us to store our literature, and best of all -- is handicapped accessible! 

As of January 2, 2018, OBI will meet at:

Arnold Conference Center in the Regan Building
3 Regan Court (off 111 Howard Avenue)
Cranston, RI 02920

This location is easily accessed from Routes 95, 37 and 295. Howard Avenue runs between Pontiac and New London Avenues (  link to map ). 


MINI WORKSHOPS 2018

The 12 mini workshops sponsored by OBI and held prior to the monthly meetings in 2017 were a success. As we head into 2018, Integroup will be discussing the idea of taking the workshops on the road! Stayed tuned. 

PUBLIC INFORMATION/PROFESSIONAL OUTREACH

Some great stuff is brewing as Intergroup is renewing its efforts to reach out into the community to spread the word of recovery from compulsive overeating. If you are interested in giving your time and talent on the PIPO Committee, please send an email to [email protected]


ALL OA MEMBERS are WELCOME to any and all Intergroup meetings! 

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HAPPY  58th BIRTHDAY 
OVEREATERS ANONYMOUS! 

T he idea of OA came to founder Rozanne S. at a Gamblers Anonymous (GA) meeting she attended with a compulsive gambling friend in 1958. As GA members shared their stories, she heard her   story -- not of gambling, but of compulsive overeating. She knew then that the Twelve-Step and Twelve-Tradition program founded by Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and modeled by GA offered her a chance to change her life and reduce her 152-pound body to a size  that  would  fit  her  5-foot-2-inch frame. Not until 1960, when  her  weight  had  increased to 161 pounds, could she find other people who shared her convictions.

Her chance meeting with a new neighbor, Jo S., gave Rozanne strength in numbers, even if it was only one person. Together they found another compulsive overeater, Bernice S., and convened the first OA meeting in Los Angeles, California, January 19, 1960.


2018  REGION 6 CONVENTION


OCTOBER 26-28, 2018

Holiday Inn By The Sea
Portland, Maine


Note: Keep checking back to website for hotel and convention registration information. 

STRONG ABSTINENCE CHECKLIST

1. Have I been abstinent today? 
2. Did I pray and meditate today? 
3. Am I maintaining or working towards a healthy body weight? 
4. Did I rely on my Higher Power to get or stay abstinent today? 
5. Is what I am currently doing working for me to remain abstinent? 
6. If I am having problems have I asked someone else what they are doing? 
7. Have I made an OA call today? 
8. Did I have an attitude of gratitude today? 
9. Did I plan my food today? 
10. Have I helped someone else today? 
11. Did I have an action plan in place to stay abstinent today? 
12. Do I have a sponsor and am I working the Steps with that person?  


The OA Promise

 

I PUT MY HAND IN YOURS ... and together we  can do what we could never do alone!  

No longer is there a sense of hopelessness, 
 
No longer must we each depend upon our own unsteady will-power. 

We are all together now, reaching out our hands for power and strength greater than ours, 

and as we join hands, we find love and understanding beyond our wildest dreams.
 

Changing Food Behaviors

 

Members share changes they have made in how, when, and where they eat.

 

I no longer eat standing up.

I stopped eating in the car. 

I say a small prayer before I eat and say thank you after I am done.

I have designated times to eat. 

I make an effort to eat at the table with a pretty placemat and napkin. 

I don't take tastes of what I am cooking. 

I don't eat lunch before noon. 

I put all fast food on my red light list. 

I limit how often I dine out. 

I weigh and measure everything. 

I limit myself to one plate at buffets, period. 

I don't partake in eating in the office. 

I prepare my food on Sunday for the week. 

I text my food to my sponsor in the morning. 

I write down my food every day. 

I tell my sponsor if I change my food. 

I learned to chew more slowly and eat mindfully.

My meals have a beginning, a middle, and an end. 

PODCAST: 
WELCOME BACK 
MEMBERS IN RELAPSE


This member shares recovery from numerous relapses on the anniversary of her last binge in 1983.  Welcome Back  had special meaning for her as it was the first OA literature addressing recovery from relapse.  Members in Relapse  offers practical suggestions from relapse survivors on what helped them feel supported. Topics: relapse is not a failure; willpower is not enough; a food plan without Steps is a diet; getting past past black and white thinking and perfectionism; abstaining in spite of life challenges; one hour of abstinence a week at the meeting is a start; call even if bingeing; getting help with reading and writing.

"We admitted we were powerless over food - that our lives had become unmanageable."
Workshop leaders emphasize the importance of the Steps by reading the Introduction to the Twelve Steps "...Since our program is based on the Twelve Steps, we would like to offer here a study of those Steps, sharing how we follow them to recover from compulsive eating.  We hope in this way to provide help for those who still suffer from our disease...."  (p. ix:  The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous. ) The speakers discuss each aspect of Step One, sharing their experience, strength, and hope on how Step One relates to their beginning and ongoing recovery. 

References:  The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous, The  Twelve-Step Workbook of Overeaters Anonymous ,   Voices of Recovery , (January 1), and the story, "Freedom of Choice" (Abstinence, 2nd Editio n).


Treasure Chest
Little gems and pearls of wisdom from meetings  and literature. 

If I slip half way up a mountain, I don't throw myself all the way back down to the bottom.

I have a choice - I can face my stuff or stuff my face.
Q&A

Q: The holidays are over. Now what? 

A: 1. Stay clean with my food each day.
2. Stay abstinent in each day's activities, that is, stay present and balanced. 
3. Reflect on the true meaning of the event and what I brought to each encounter. Did I bring my best self? Write about my reflections.
4. Remember that I always have a choice with what goes in my mouth (my food) and what comes out of my mouth (my words).
5. Don't jump so fast into the next event. Stop and reflect in a mindful way how the day went.
6. Remember that each holiday is another day for me to make sobriety with the food my priority so I may enjoy and grow in my relationships with others. 
 
Q: Do you set goals or make plans for the new year? If so, how do it while living "one day at at time"? 

A:
I do not usually set goals but lately I am wanting to be a better listener. This upcoming year will be entirely new territory for me as two days ago I retired from my healthcare-related profession. Although I have enjoyed many wonderful job-related events, the past several months were extremely stressful. I will spend the next two months in warmer weather along with my already-retired husband. My plan is to just slow down and pause before jumping into new activities including OA related service. I am the type who jumps into things at times that may prove detrimental to my overall health. Living one day at a time in all of this means staying close to my Higher Power and my sponsor. Balance is key as I add more meetings into my schedule and adjust my recovery action plan. 

God bless us all and in God providing us this clear recovery path. 

Happy 2018, Jeanne D.
Ocean & Bay Intergroup 
P.O. Box 41273, Providence RI, 02940
Tel: 401-438-1301 | Email:   [email protected]