Welcome to 2018
JANUARY
Monday, January 1: Holiday Telephone Marathon Meetings
are held throughout the day on the hour around regularly scheduled meetings. There is a topic and a leader for each meeting. Dial 712-432-5200. Enter Pin 4285115#.
Tuesday, January 2: Ocean and Bay Intergroup Meeting -
NOTE NEW LOCATION!
7 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
7:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
Saturday, Jan. 6: Personal Stories of Recovery & Abstinence at 10 a.m. at St. Luke's Church, Clark Lane off Route 12, Gales Ferry, CT, sponsored by Southeastern CT Integroup
Flyer
Jan. 17 and 24, and Feb. 7 and 14: Quick Step the 12 Steps Workshop at St. Paul Lutheran Church, 56 Great Hammock Road (Route 154), Old Saybrook, CT. 4 sessions, two hours each. Limited to 6 people. Preregistration required. Southeastern CT Integroup.
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Saturday, Jan. 20:
Overeaters Anonymous 58th
Birthday! What are you doing to celebrate this special day?
FEBRUARY
Tuesday, February 6:
Ocean and Bay Intergroup Meeting -
NOTE NEW LOCATION!
7 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
7:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
February 9-11: Stepping Into Spirituality Retreat sponsored by NH Intergroup at Barbara C. Harris Conference Center, Greenfield, NH. For info go to
www.oanewhampshire.org/2018-nhi-annual-retreat
Saturday, Feb. 24: Unity Day Celebration, Newton-Wellesley Hospital, Newton, MA, 1 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. More info to follow.
MARCH
Tuesday, March 6: Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
- NOTE NEW LOCATION!
7 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
7:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
APRIL
Tuesday, April 3: Ocean & Bay Intergroup Meeting
7 p.m.: Literature Sales & Fellowship
7:30 p.m.: Meeting
Arnold Conference Center, Regan Building, 3 Regan Court off 111 Howard Ave., Cranston, RI
April 23-28: OA World Service Business Conference
OCTOBER
October 26-28: 2018 Region 6 Convention, Holiday Inn By The Sea, Portland, Maine
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PHONE SUPPORT AVAILABLE ON
MAJOR HOLIDAYS
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MARATHON PHONE MEETINGS ARE HELD ON
ALL MAJOR HOLIDAYS
EVERY HOUR ON THE HOUR BEGINNING AT 8 A.M. AROUND REGULARLY SCHEDULED MEETINGS. EACH MARATHON HAS A TOPIC FOR THE DAY.
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Seventh Tradition
The Seventh Tradition states OA is fully self-supporting, accepting contributions only from OA members. Groups may send either monthly or periodic donations (via mail or in person) to Intergroup. Thank you for your donation, which helps us to spread the word of recovery. Intergroup treasurer reports are always available -- just ask.
On average, six groups donate each month. Does your group donate on a regular basis?
To send donations (payable to Ocean & Bay Intergroup) via mail:
Ocean and Bay Intergroup
Attn: Treasurer
P.O. Box 41273
Providence, RI 02940
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LIFELINE MATERIAL WELCOME
Not all writing for Lifeline needs to be a specific topic for a specific month. Below is a list of ongoing material OA's magazine, Lifeline, accepts for publication. For examples, refer to any issue of Lifeline.
DEPARTMENTS (No Deadline)
- Bits and Bites: Add to our collection of short inspirational quotes and recovery wisdom.
- What Works for Me: How do you work your program, and what difference has it made?
- Step Study, Living Traditions, Service and Recovery, and The Spiritual Path: Share about the month's Step or Tradition or send a story about service or connecting with your HP
- Newcomers Corner: Newcomers, share your OA experiences and concerns.
- Share It (Letters to the Editor): Was a Lifeline issue or story special for you? Tell us!
OTHER MATERIALS (No Deadline)
Lifeline accepts artwork and photos (no faces, please) for publication. Credit lines and rights to submitted work apply equally to articles, artwork, and photos. The WSO does not return submitted materials. Lifeline may edit articles and crop photos.
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Intergroup Board
CONTACT US
Corresponding Secretary - Lea
Other Service Positions:
Public Information/ Professional Outreach: Holly
Inmate Initiative: Natalie
Meeting List: Deanna
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Mission & Vision
Ocean & Bay Intergroup is dedicated to supporting individuals in need of recovery from compulsive eating (e.g.: overeating, bulimia, anorexia) through carrying the OA message and empowering all meetings within the Intergroup.
1. Help members strengthen their personal recovery
2. Increase the number of sponsors
3. Increase the number of newcomers
4. Increase the retention of newcomers
5. Help those in relapse
6. Inspire people to give more service
7. Increase outreach activities, including outreach to members and healthcare professionals
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Meeting List
IMPORTANT!
GROUP CONTACT INFORMATION: Please check your group contact name and phone number on the local Ocean and Bay Meeting List. Send changes to
Also, check your meeting listing and contact info on the Overeaters Anonymous website meeting list at
oa.org. The oa.org website listing is different than the local meeting list and must be updated by your meeting contact person.
* Please call ahead to verify meetings are taking place, especially during holidays.
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Ocean & Bay Website!
oceanandbay.org
includes events, meeting list, info for newcomers, and more!
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LINKS
New England Intergroups
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Please note that every effort has been made to adhere to OA's policy for newsletter publications.
Opinions and experiences expressed within are those of the individual writer and not OA as a whole.
REMINDER: This is your newsletter, so please feel free to submit your writing contributions to: [email protected].
You are also invited to be one of the members who provides answers for a Q&A. Again, just send us a note to: [email protected].
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Ocean & Bay Intergroup News
All OA members are welcome to attend Ocean & Bay Intergroup (OBI) meetings held the first Tuesday of the month at St. Patrick Church, 2068 Cranston Street, Cranston, RI. The next meeting is
TUESDAY, JANUARY 2nd at 7:30 p.m., with literature sales at 7 p.m.
NEW LOCATION!
OBI is excited to announce that after a long search by multiple Intergroup reps, Ocean and Bay Integroup has a new meeting location that is centrally located, has a place for us to store our literature, and best of all -- is handicapped accessible!
As of January 2, 2018, OBI will meet at:
Arnold Conference Center in the Regan Building
3 Regan Court (off 111 Howard Avenue)
Cranston, RI 02920
This location is easily accessed from Routes 95, 37 and 295. Howard Avenue runs between Pontiac and New London Avenues (
link to map
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MINI WORKSHOPS 2018
The 12 mini workshops sponsored by OBI and held prior to the monthly meetings in 2017 were a success. As we head into 2018, Integroup will be discussing the idea of taking the workshops on the road! Stayed tuned.
PUBLIC INFORMATION/PROFESSIONAL OUTREACH
Some great stuff is brewing as Intergroup is renewing its efforts to reach out into the community to spread the word of recovery from compulsive overeating. If you are interested in giving your time and talent on the PIPO Committee, please send an email to [email protected].
ALL OA MEMBERS are WELCOME to any and all Intergroup meetings!
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OVEREATERS ANONYMOUS!
T
he idea of OA came to founder Rozanne S. at a Gamblers Anonymous (GA) meeting she attended with a compulsive gambling friend in 1958. As GA members shared their stories, she heard her story -- not of gambling, but of compulsive overeating. She knew then that the Twelve-Step and Twelve-Tradition program founded by Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and modeled by GA offered her a chance to change her life and reduce her 152-pound body to a size that would fit her 5-foot-2-inch frame. Not until 1960, when her weight had increased to 161 pounds, could she find other people who shared her convictions.
Her chance meeting with a new neighbor, Jo S., gave Rozanne strength in numbers, even if it was only one person. Together they found another compulsive overeater, Bernice S., and convened the first OA meeting in Los Angeles, California, January 19, 1960.
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2018
REGION 6 CONVENTION
OCTOBER 26-28, 2018
Holiday Inn By The Sea
Portland, Maine
Note: Keep checking back to website for hotel and convention registration information.
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STRONG ABSTINENCE CHECKLIST
1. Have I been abstinent today?
2. Did I pray and meditate today?
3. Am I maintaining or working towards a healthy body weight?
4. Did I rely on my Higher Power to get or stay abstinent today?
5. Is what I am currently doing working for me to remain abstinent?
6. If I am having problems have I asked someone else what they are doing?
7. Have I made an OA call today?
8. Did I have an attitude of gratitude today?
9. Did I plan my food today?
10. Have I helped someone else today?
11. Did I have an action plan in place to stay abstinent today?
12. Do I have a sponsor and am I working the Steps with that person?
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The OA Promise I PUT MY HAND IN YOURS ... and together we can do what we could never do alone! No longer is there a sense of hopelessness, No longer must we each depend upon our own unsteady will-power. We are all together now, reaching out our hands for power and strength greater than ours, and as we join hands, we find love and understanding beyond our wildest dreams. |
Changing Food Behaviors Members share changes they have made in how, when, and where they eat. I no longer eat standing up. I stopped eating in the car. I say a small prayer before I eat and say thank you after I am done. I have designated times to eat. I make an effort to eat at the table with a pretty placemat and napkin. I don't take tastes of what I am cooking. I don't eat lunch before noon. I put all fast food on my red light list. I limit how often I dine out. I weigh and measure everything. I limit myself to one plate at buffets, period. I don't partake in eating in the office. I prepare my food on Sunday for the week. I text my food to my sponsor in the morning. I write down my food every day. I tell my sponsor if I change my food. I learned to chew more slowly and eat mindfully. My meals have a beginning, a middle, and an end. |
PODCAST:
WELCOME BACK
MEMBERS IN RELAPSE
This member shares recovery from numerous relapses on the anniversary of her last binge in 1983.
Welcome Back
had special meaning for her as it was the first OA literature addressing recovery from relapse.
Members in Relapse
offers practical suggestions from relapse survivors on what helped them feel supported. Topics: relapse is not a failure; willpower is not enough; a food plan without Steps is a diet; getting past past black and white thinking and perfectionism; abstaining in spite of life challenges; one hour of abstinence a week at the meeting is a start; call even if bingeing; getting help with reading and writing.
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"We admitted we were powerless over food - that our lives had become unmanageable."
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Workshop leaders emphasize the importance of the Steps by reading the Introduction to the Twelve Steps "...Since our program is based on the Twelve Steps, we would like to offer here a study of those Steps, sharing how we follow them to recover from compulsive eating.
We hope in this way to provide help for those who still suffer from our disease...." (p. ix:
The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous.
) The speakers discuss each aspect of Step One, sharing their experience, strength, and hope on how Step One relates to their beginning and ongoing recovery.
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Little gems and pearls of wisdom from meetings
and literature.
If I slip half way up a mountain, I don't throw myself all the way back down to the bottom.
I have a choice - I can face my stuff or stuff my face.
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Q: The holidays are over. Now what?
A:
1. Stay clean with my food each day.
2. Stay abstinent in each day's activities, that is, stay present and balanced.
3. Reflect on the true meaning of the event and what I brought to each encounter. Did I bring my best self? Write about my reflections.
4. Remember that I always have a choice with what goes in my mouth (my food) and what comes out of my mouth (my words).
5. Don't jump so fast into the next event. Stop and reflect in a mindful way how the day went.
6. Remember that each holiday is another day for me to make sobriety with the food my priority so I may enjoy and grow in my relationships with others.
Q: Do you set goals or make plans for the new year? If so, how do it while living "one day at at time"?
A:
I do not usually set goals but lately I am wanting to be a better listener. This upcoming year will be entirely new territory for me as two days ago I retired from my healthcare-related profession. Although I have enjoyed many wonderful job-related events, the past several months were extremely stressful. I will spend the next two months in warmer weather along with my already-retired husband. My plan is to just slow down and pause before jumping into new activities including OA related service. I am the type who jumps into things at times that may prove detrimental to my overall health. Living one day at a time in all of this means staying close to my Higher Power and my sponsor. Balance is key as I add more meetings into my schedule and adjust my recovery action plan.
God bless us all and in God providing us this clear recovery path.
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