Jewish Community Center of    JCC the Place to Be
 Long Beach Island  E-Letter

 August 9, 201
 8 Av 5779





THE OCEAN COUNTY FEDERATION  
JEWISH FILM  FESTIVAL  COMES 
TO MANAHAWKIN

It is very exciting news that the Jewish Federation has come "south" to accommodate the folks in the southern part of our county.  Let us show that we appreciate this by attending in large numbers the two films being shown at the  Regal Theater in Manahawkin.

 
 
Tuesday, August 20th @ 7:00 PM 
"Shoelaces"
 The story of a complicated relationship between an aging father and his special-needs adult son whom he abandoned while a young boy. Through the film's portrayal of a relationship full of love, rejection and co-dependency, it sheds light on the importance of human life, human connection and questions if life has meaning without either one of them.

DINNER AND A MOVIE
The community is offering an opportunity to have a buffet dinner prior to the movie on August 20th at the Element Restaurant & Bar for $20 per person.  A vegan option is available. The price includes taxes, gratuities and all drinks except for alcohol (which can be purchased at the bar).  Dinner is a 5:00 prior to the 7:00 movie. Contact Arlene Schragger by Friday, the 16th to make your reservation at: 



 
Sunday, August 25th @ 7:00 PM 
"The Light of Hope"

TICKET INFORMATION:
You can order online at 
or 
by calling the BOX OFFICE at 732-531-9106 
and then pressing EXTENSION 14

Tickets to each show are $12



Contents
Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
The Week That Was...
Summer Activities
Mah jongg
Programs of Interest
50/50Raffle
Giving Opportunities
Next Week's Events
Service Schedule
High Holiday Tickets
Yahrzeits for Next Week
Happy Birthday
Congregation News
Chaverim
Women's Auxiliary
Celebrate a Milestone
Sponsor an Oneg Shabbat
Sponsor a Kiddish
TD Affinity Program
Bulletin Ads
Shoprite Scrip
Name Badges
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
The fifth book of the Torah, Parashat Devarim (Deuteronomy in English), is primarily Moses' farewell address to the people Israel as they, and not him, prepare to enter the Promised Land.
 
The first part of his discourse mostly recalls the history of Israel from its redemption from slavery in Egypt up to the moment that they are about to enter Eretz Yisrael some 40 years later.
 
It is often questioned, why there is a need for the Book of Deuteronomy. If we have already read the first four books, the fifth book seems redundant. One reason given is that it permits Moses to put his personal stamp of the stories and the laws. Since the compendium is known as the "Five Books of Moses", Moses plan seems to have worked.
 
Another reason cited is that it provides an opportunity for Moses to ensure that the Israelites do not forget their story, including God's miracles and the Laws of the Torah. Indeed, by repeating the stories and the laws, Moses is utilizing a memorization technique. Inasmuch as the Torah has been read and studied for thousands of years, Moses' plan seems to have worked.
 
I tend to view the Book of Devarim as a film produced by Moses to provide more than just the story or the laws to the Israelites.
 
According to Merriam-Webster, the definition of the word "movie" is:
 
a recording of moving images that tells a story and that people watch on a screen or television.
 
A good film makes the viewer feel as if he/she is a part of the action. Watch the Godfather, and you are a member of the Corleone "family". Sit in a theater and view "Jaws" and the shark is attacking you. While the Book of Devarim it is not a visual recording, it functions as a movie, or perhaps more accurately, a documentary film. Just like a movie, the reader is immersed in the visual imagery of what happened.  The reader becomes a part of the story.
 
Perhaps this the beginning of the tradition of Jews figuring so prominently in the film industry.  We Jews, love a good movie!
 
While Devarim essentially begs us to visually connect ourselves to our story, actual films connect us in physical and emotional ways to the world around us. It is through film that we often find ourselves closely connected to our tradition and culture.
 
It is for this reason that I believe that our JCC community should take advantage of the Fabulous Jewish Film Festival sponsored by the Ocean County Federation. While we should make a point of attending as many films as possible, in particular please take note below of the films being shown at the Regal Cinema right here in Manahawkin on Tuesday, August 20th and Sunday, August 25. Please read the following for all of the information:
 
In this, the 6th year that the Jewish Federation of Ocean County is holding a Film Festival, something new and exciting is happening. This year two of the films are being shown at the Regal Manahawkin 10 Movie Theaters on Route 72, just a short drive from LBI the nine new movies continue to be shown at the Marquee Cinemas-Orchard 10 in Toms River as well.
           
 On Tuesday evening, August 20th, at 7 pm the movie SHOELACES will be screened. It is the story of a complicated relationship between an older father and his special-needs son. The son, Gadi, wants to donate a kidney to save his father's life. The transplant committee objects, claiming that the father, Rueben, does not have the right to authorize such an invasive procedure. Gadi is afraid of losing his father and feels he finally has a chance to do something meaningful; to become a man; to stand on his own. Watch as Gadi sets out to fight for the right to save his father's life.

The second screening will be held on Sunday, August 25th at 7 pm. THE LIGHT OF HOPE is the true story of a young Red Cross nurse, Elizabeth Eidenbenz, in the 1940's when refugees from all over Europe are seeking shelter in South Western France, escaping from the Nazis and from Franco's regime in Spain. Feeling a responsibility to the countless pregnant women and small children in the camps, Elizabeth brings them to a refurbished villa and saves hundreds. But soon, threats from within and without take shape. It is a haunting story that will resonate with you.
            
Tickets for each of the movies are $12 in advance and $14 at the door and may be ordered through www.axelrodartscenter.com/ocean

The movies being screened at the Toms River movie theater include Golda's Balcony, the Film, on August 19 at 6:30 pm; The Unorthodox on August 21 at 12 noon; Working Woman on August 22 at 12 noon and You Only Die Twice at 3:30 pm; Redemption on August 23 at 3:30 pm; The Other Story at 3:30 pm on August 25 and Who Will Write Our History? also on Sunday at 6:30 pm. Check out the plots of these movies on the www.axelrodartscenter.com/ocean website. Feel free to call for more information at 609-494-9033.

Sheri and I will be at many of the films and we hope to see you there as well.  Support the JCC, Support Federation, Support our Jewish culture.
 
Shabbat Shalom - Michael S. Jay
 
 
KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

THE WEEK THAT WAS....
                                   

THE WOMEN'S ROSH CHODESH led by Sheri Jay Horowitz was attended by 25 women last Thursday.  Using posters (see an example here on the right), the program "Proudly Jewish," created by Voices-Visions, is an exercise on how our vision helps us to connect with our Jewish identity. 


Thank you to Robin Valentine for opening her lovely home for this event and for being such a gracious hostess.
 
     

Our next Rosh Chodesh will be on Thursday, August 22 at 7:00 PM (place to be announced).  We will learn to make our own Challah from scratch and you will return home with a bowl containing your own raw dough to bake in your own kitchen  Instructions fro our ow Ruth Miller. 
Please RSVP to [email protected] or  Call the synagogue office at 609-492-4090.


MEET THE AUTHOR BREAKFAST Sunday morning was a sell out crowd.  Members and guests enjoyed a gourmet brunch as well had heard from the author - our own Susan Shapiro Barash - about the background and characters in her new novel "A Palm Beach Wife". 

Thank you to Diane Hoffman for chairing this event and for those who helped: Sue Davis, Sherry Fruchterman, Phyllis Sisenwine, Barney Hoffman, Michael Babst, Irene Babst, Rabbi Jay and Sheri Jay


Herb Shapiro and Friends






MAKE YOUR RESERVATIONS NOW!!!!


REMEMBER THE CATSKILLS
 
Enjoy a nostalgic evening with comedian,
Larry Donsky
Star of the original 2009 "Old Jews Telling Jokes"   
&
The Jersey Chix
Performing songs  from
Broadway to Motown to jazz and rock
 
Sunday August 18th 7:00 PM 
Snacks, drinks and dessert. 
Tickets - $35.00
 609-492-4090

 
MORE SUMMER ACTIVITIES

AUGUST BAZAAR

August 14th
8:00 AM - 3 PM
Volunteers Needed
Call the office if you can help


BOOK CLUB
August 19th
10:30 at the JCC Library
Book to be reviewed: 
"The Lost Girls of Paris"
by Pam Jenoff




ANNUAL CONGREGATION MEETING
Sunday, August 25.
10:00 AM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA
Mah jongg

Mah jongg & Canasta
Wednesdays from 
12:30 to 4:00 PM

PROGRAMS OF INTEREST AT THE LIBRARY

The Friends of the Island Library are sponsoring a program on 
August 19 at 7 p.m. about ancestry and genetics with Sandy Hahn Lanman. 

Lanman's late mother had been given up for adoption in Germany in 1928. Seemingly, this would have been a dead-end road for finding any relatives. But through some good investigative journalism techniques, she was able to find her grandmother's immediate and extended family living right here in New Jersey within 5 months of beginning her search. She also had some interesting adventures that included identifying her grandfather through DNA. 

50/50 RAFFLE

All members should have received their raffle tickets. Please make sure to send back your raffle stubs so that you are entered to win....and it could be quite a nice windfall. 
Additional tickets are also available in the office. 

RAFFLE DRAWING IS AT BREAK THE FAST

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTE

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
See form for your order:  PAVERS
 

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone 
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
It will be 
WRITTEN IN STONE
Please contact
Diane Hoffman 
with your order 
or with any questions: 

TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall.  See the order form here: 

Bronze Leaf $90 
Silver Leaf $126 
Gold :Leaf $180

ENDOWMENT FUND
Join Herb and Selma Shapiro z'l to help assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such name funds will be joined together to be part of the endowment fund portfolio.

Judith & Donald Pripstein have joined the Shapiros with a $50,000 donation and have established The Pripstein Family Endowment Fund.

All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this fund whether as a specific named fund, or as a general donation.

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. Here is the order form: PLAQUES

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
FOR HANDICAPPED ENTRANCE
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
 OFFICE HOURS:     
Monday - Friday 
from 9:00 - 1:30
  
 

 
Mary Beth, Tony and Leslie

Office Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 
Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Tony DeGregorio, Custodial Staff



Kitchen Manager
Susan Berube


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

  VIEW THE JULY/AUGUST BULLETIN
with this link BULLETIN

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
 

"Like" Us on Facebook: Search for Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island and make sure the JCC of LBI: The Place to Be icon shown above shows up
or click on this link  FACEBOOK
or cut and paste:
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NEXT WEEK'S EVENTS
 8/2/19 - 8/9/19

Friday 8/9
Rabbi's Class
10:00 AM

Sunday
Chaverim Event
7 - 9 PM

Wednesday
Bazaar
NO MAH JONG OR CANASTA

Thursday
Women's Auxiliary Meeting
7:00 PM

Friday 8/16
Rabbi's Class

10:00 AM



SEE NEW TWO PAGE SUMMER CALENDAR

SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat 
Candle Lighting Time
Friday 
August 9, 2019
7:42 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

   JOIN US FOR SERVICES

SHABBAT CHAZON
 ("Sabbath [of] vision" ) t
akes its name from the Haftarah that is read on the Shabbat immediately prior to the mournful fast of Tisha B'Av, from the words of rebuke and doom coming from Isaiah in the Book of Isaiah 1:1-27. It is also referred to as the Black Sabbath due to its status as the saddest Shabbat of the year 

Friday, August 9, 2019

Rabbi's Talk:
Can We Talk?  
Finding a way to avoid Sinat Chinam (Baseless Hatred)


Oneg Sponsor
Tom & Gail (Klein) Brady
in memory of
Mary D. Klein


Saturday, August 10, 2019 
9:00 AM Torah Study
10:00 AM Services

Torah Reading
Devorim
Here is the portion
PARSHAH

Haftorah
Here is the Haftorah:
HAFTORAH

Torah Readers
Aaron Lombardi
Rabbi Jay


Service
Erev Tisha B'Av
Saturday night
August 10th
9:00 PM



SPECIAL SHABBATS



SHABBAT ON THE BEACH
August 16 @ 6:00 PM
in Loveladies


Celebrating
AARON LOMBARDI

as he moves on
to Rutgers University this Fall
at Saturday morning
services
August 24th.

Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat 
 and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.



HIGH HOLY DAY TICKET INFORMATION

Shofar High Holiday ticket forms are in the mail to JCC members. Thank you to Rose Valentine, Irene Babst, Sherry Fruchterman and Don Pripstein for their help in creating our new format.  
Thanks also to those who helped with the stuffing and mailing: Maxine Paris, Sue Rubinfeld, Natty Lapidus, Eileen Rosen, Jill Denker, Diane Buskirk, David & Karen Shatz.

YAHRZEITS FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be  read at services on  August 9, 2019

Leslie Barrish
Tola Herszenberg
Jennie Oxfeld
Jeannette Shapiro
Sam Glasser
Arthur Goldman
Benjamin Price
Rebecca Rosner
Nathan Stone*
Howard Tittlebaum
Evelyn Bookman*
Max Dreyfus*
Shirley Fischer
Sol Daniel Gussin
Doris Morton
Clara Waxman*
Herb Josephson*
Emil Mendlow
Esther Saden
Carl Sher*
Sidney Levine
Sadie Taub*
Frank Fink*
Alvin Hurwitz*
Benard Miller
Gertrude Oertell
Jay Max Starr, MD
Louis Alexander
Deborah H. Barsh
Leon Isanuk*


  PLEASE LET THE OFFICE KNOW WHEN YOU WILL NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADDISH.  

 
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue 
memorial boards.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Cake

This Week's
Birthdays:

David M. Freedman
August 10
Allen Lox
August 11
Roberta Abramowitz
August 13
Adam Fishman
August 13
David Robinovitz
August 13
Lynn Sherman
August 13
Gloria Canter
August 16
 


If you have not given the office your birthday information and would like to receive birthday wishes, please notify the office of your date of birth.

And if you would like to have the Rabbi give you or a family member a special blessing on the Shabbat of your/their birthday, please let him know: RABBI

CONGREGATION
NEWS


SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES

 
 
 
Caring 
CARING COMMITTEE
   
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 
 
   
CHAVERIM

    Please join us for our next Chaverim event and get ready to put your dancing shoes on for a night of Swing Dance lessons!   
 
Our dance teacher Liz will take us to the hop on Sunday August 11th from 7pm-9pm at the JCC of LBI.    

We will have veggies and dips and fruit platters and drinks!!  
Cost $18 per person.   
Please join us for a fun get together! 
 
RSVP to Jill Denker 
[email protected]
973-214-2767 
 


ALL ARE WELCOME
 
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY MEETING

Please join us, as we have our first re-organizational meeting of the Woman's group of the JCC on LBI on 
Thursday, August 15 
at 7:00 PM  
in the social hall as we share our ideas, talk of future plans and formation of committees. Please bring your visions and enthusiasm as we start a new chapter. Our main desire for the JCC is to develop an atmosphere of warmth, friendship and camaraderie for all who enter our doors.
 
The Re-organizational Committee of the Woman's group of the JCC on LBI.


CELEBRATE A MILESTONE AT THE JCC

The JCC is a beautiful place to celebrate a milestone: wedding, anniversary, baby naming, birthday.

Contact the office for further information. 609-492-4090
 
SPONSOR AN ONEG SHABBAT


SPONSOR
an Oneg Shabbat 
on Friday night

with a $36.00 
minimum contribution

See this form for details
ONEG

Call the JCC Office to reserve a date.
609-492-4090
SPONSOR A KIDDUSH


We are proud to announce the establishment of the 
Zena Jay Kiddush Fund
in memory of Rabbi Jay's mother

Those who want to sponsor a kiddish or would like to donate to the fund, can contact the office at 609-492-4090

For information about 
sponsoring a Kiddush

SEE DONATION & MENU:

TD AFFINITY PROGRAM


Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

Think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.


BULLETIN ADS

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
SHOPRITE & ACME SCRIP

Purchase Acme & Shoprite Scrip while still available in the JCC Office.
NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

 

LATEST BULLETIN:

BULLETIN 

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP  

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD

 

ONEG SHABBAT SPONSOR:

ONEG 

 

KIDDISH SPONSOR:

KIDDISH