When I was asked to write a reflection, I wondered where I would begin? I was once told that if you don’t know what to do, start at the beginning. So, here goes. I was born into a family in Iowa who owned a farm. Well, maybe that’s a little too far in the beginning to start. I’ll begin with when I first came to Holy Comforter.
Barbara and I met at a social group for widows and widowers, after both of our spouses had passed. About a year later, we began to date. I asked her if I could escort her to church. I had been raised as a Presbyterian as a youth, went to college, joined the Army and wandered away from the church. When I was married, my first wife was Catholic, but I wasn’t fulfilled in any way. Since I didn’t join her church, I wasn’t allowed to take communion. As a result, I was looking for something to fulfill my spiritual life. I hoped that the church she attended would fill the spiritual vacancy I felt.
However, the first time I entered the Holy Comforter sanctuary, I was filled with a warmth and joy that I hadn’t felt in a long, long time. After the service, several people greeted and spoke with us. I thought maybe they were just interested in finding out about Barbara’s boyfriend. However, after a few more times coming to church, I realized that the congregation was just filled with very friendly people. I find that this church has so much to offer that I believe that there is something for everyone. I am so glad that I met Barbara and she brought me to Holy Comforter. I have definitely come closer to God.
The pandemic has resulted in many changes for us. The downside is no parties, shopping, going out to eat, and visiting with friends. However, it is best to look at the positive side of this. It has provided us with an opportunity to slow down and relax, get to know our families better, and do some deep, deep spring cleaning. Another positive is that God has provided us with a beautiful spring. The cool temperatures and gentle rains have provided a gorgeous view, as we look out our windows. I believe it is God’s way of easing the pain that we are suffering.
Richard Fitzsimmons
