Where some people see problems, others see opportunities.  Why is this?  Why do some see only the worst in every situation while others see only the best?  I'm sure the psychologist can give us all of the textbook reasons this is the case.  I'm not a psychologist and my semester of psychology in college didn't answer all of the questions.

All I know is most of the the things we worry and fret over never happen or, if they do, magically work themselves out.  My suggestions are: Think positive thoughts.  Think solutions. Think opportunities.  Look at all of the successes you have had in your life and build on them.  View failures as learning experiences.  After all, we learn from our mistakes.