"I Haven't Got Time for the Pain"
"What profit is it if we kill our brother and conceal his blood?"
-Genesis 37:26
Biblical principles are a thorn in the side for the average American of today. We are always looking for the quick fix. Immediate gratification. Years ago, Nuprin (an over the counter pain reliever containing Ibuprofen) heralded this attitude with a commercial using the Carly Simon song as its theme: "I Haven't Got Time for the Pain."
We are simply impatient. We want our solution NOW. I think that is what is behind the phenomenon of "binge Netflix watching." The average Netflix viewer will finish a whole series in one week, spending an average of two hours per day in front of the screen. We all want to know what happens right away. We are all tempted to take a sneak peek at the back of the book to see if the hero or heroine is still alive.
I think that is also behind our opioid crisis. What began as a way of medicating to alleviate pain caused by the physical trauma of the operation has turned into a growing addiction of gigantic proportions.
As Ecclesiastes tells us, "There is nothing new under the sun." (Ecclesiastes 1:9) We have been reading of Esau's impatience in selling his birthright for a bowl of red beans, and Jacob's impatience at grasping the birthright instead of waiting and trusting in God's providence. And in our reading from Genesis we see the impatience of Joseph's brothers at wanting to rid themselves of their smart alecky brother and selling him as a slave to get a little bit of money out of their scheming against their brother.
Again and again God wants us to wait patiently. The journey, not the destination, is the key thing here. It took Moses eighty years to be formed in such a way that he could capably lead the children of Israel out of Egypt. It took the people of Israel forty years to be formed in such a way that they could take the Promised Land. God will not be denied. He cares more for our character than for our comfort.
C.S. Lewis in The Problem of Pain tells us, "Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world." May God help us to live into the formation that comes from avoiding the quick fix.